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To think that smoking looks really, really cool?

133 replies

aperolspritzbasicbitch · Today 17:53

To start, I know it’s not, I know it’s dangerous, I know it stinks and is a horrid habit. I’m not going to start.

but equally….I’d bloody love to take up smoking 🤣

I just think it can look so chic, especially the skinny little European cigarettes.

I love the idea of sitting out with a glass of something, puffing on a little cigarette.

having a mid morning coffee outside a cafe on a cobbled street, cigarette in hand.

Or, the original ozempic…a cigarette and a can of Diet Coke of lunch.

like I said, I’m not going to start, I don’t like the smell and I’ve also been very vocal on my views on vaping.

but, at the grand old age of 40, there’s still something about it that I look at sometimes and think ‘god, she looks cool’

Think Caroline Besette in Love Story.

OP posts:
Glitterbiscuits · Today 20:02

It makes people look dirty.

Idlewilder · Today 20:13

aperolspritzbasicbitch · Today 18:41

Well, if you want me (and you know how influential, cool and powerful I am) to think you are cool, you best spark up instantly 💁🏻‍♀️🤣🤣

I’m quite surprised too. Not at the people who don’t think it looks cool, obviously. But at the ones who purposely opened a thread about smoking, read the part when I said I know it’s dangerous, yet still comment about the health implications. We know. We ALL know.

I'm actually really pleased that the thread is being balanced with the very real descriptions of the smoker with inhaler in one hand and fag in the other. That's actually a thing, because smoking is a highly addictive and irrational habit that no-one ever starts out expecting themselves to get addicted to.

The more I think about it, the more irresponsible I think your thread is. To make the flippant ozempic comment is literally going to reinforce that association for the many women who smoke because they are scared of gaining weight. You are either very ignorant of the real consequences of smoking - as in, you understand it intellectually but have not experienced it in a friend or relative - or very stupid. Or - in the pay of the tobacco companies. But I suspect just not very reflective.

Runhomejack · Today 20:20

The cravings and irritableness before lighting up, the smell and hacking cough mean it is just not attractive to me. Can look good in photos but they don't show the reality. And cool people will look cool with or without cigarettes.

caefe · Today 20:26

No I think it makes people look really stupid.

SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · Today 20:26

I don't think it looks cool. It's a sign of an addiction, which is a weakness. I feel a sort of mixture of pity and revulsion at the sight.

MrsBucketHat · Today 20:33

It’s disgusting and dangerous, but yes, some
people look super hot when smoking.

Haaland355 · Today 20:35

I'm glad I've never felt the need to poison my lungs

ClassActress · Today 20:41

My dad had part of his mouth and face surgically removed because of cancer strongly related to smoking. He is permanently disfigured and can’t speak properly or chew because he had to have his remaining teeth removed too.

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