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To think that smoking looks really, really cool?

133 replies

aperolspritzbasicbitch · Today 17:53

To start, I know it’s not, I know it’s dangerous, I know it stinks and is a horrid habit. I’m not going to start.

but equally….I’d bloody love to take up smoking 🤣

I just think it can look so chic, especially the skinny little European cigarettes.

I love the idea of sitting out with a glass of something, puffing on a little cigarette.

having a mid morning coffee outside a cafe on a cobbled street, cigarette in hand.

Or, the original ozempic…a cigarette and a can of Diet Coke of lunch.

like I said, I’m not going to start, I don’t like the smell and I’ve also been very vocal on my views on vaping.

but, at the grand old age of 40, there’s still something about it that I look at sometimes and think ‘god, she looks cool’

Think Caroline Besette in Love Story.

OP posts:
Tunnocks34 · Today 17:54

I think it looks gross. It stinks. In fact when I read books I am put off if the main character smokes. And I say this as an ex smoker. It’s repulsive.

namechangeformeeee · Today 17:56

Yeah I have to say I agree - there is something so glamourous about it, when in reality it’s dreadful! I don’t smoke anymore but I do still miss the days when I used to smoke the skinny little vogue menthols with a glass of something

potterspot · Today 17:57

Some people do make it look cool but I think it’s more of a case that they are already cool.

FigAboutTheRules · Today 17:58

I'm with you on this, Op. I find the drifting smell of second hand smoke on a hot day very very sexy.

VivienneDelacroix · Today 17:58

As an ex-smoker, I definitely think it looks cool! But I'd never go back, it's disgusting.

Vaping, on the other hand, really not cool at all.

Yodellayhehoo · Today 17:59

Yeah!... and lung cancer is absolutely fabulous ans glamorous also!

ClassicalQueen · Today 17:59

It looks cool from afar but it’s a horrid smell and that is enough to put me off, never mind the health risks.

Noshadowsinthedarkness · Today 17:59

Yes, I agree. I wouldn’t smoke as I value my lungs too much but I still think it looks cool.

Vaping however just looks ridiculous.

PatioSitter · Today 17:59

It looks ridiculous. What’s cool about walking around with a little white stick between your lips?

GoodbyeZebedee · Today 17:59

It definitely looks cooler than vapes which are the least cool thing ever.

Not that I’d ever want me or anyone to actually smoke.

aperolspritzbasicbitch · Today 17:59

Yodellayhehoo · Today 17:59

Yeah!... and lung cancer is absolutely fabulous ans glamorous also!

Pretty sure I covered that in my OP 🙄

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potterspot · Today 18:00

But I hate the smell.
As pp said vaping is very uncool.

JohnnieFedora · Today 18:00

I kinda get what you mean.
But it's probably the demeanor more than the actual act of smoking that's the "good looking" bit. Like relaxed poses, the ritual etc

DominoLover51 · Today 18:00

It looked cool in Grease when Sandy took a drag of her cigarette, said “tell me about it stud” and then crushed the but with her stiletto. I say this as a non smoker who hates the smell

RampantIvy · Today 18:00

I think smoking just makes the smoker look thick. Sorry.

potterspot · Today 18:01

PatioSitter · Today 17:59

It looks ridiculous. What’s cool about walking around with a little white stick between your lips?

It’s not that though, It’s the expressions people make when they are doing it, the eyes, the mouth, the hands etc but if you don’t get it, you don’t get it.

noctilucentcloud · Today 18:01

Really? People stink, have yellowed teeth and fingers, and sometimes have coughing fits - I don't find it remotely attractive or glamorous. And it costs a fortune.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · Today 18:01

It looks cool, it feels cool, I never smoke but always want to. I blame River Phoenix in Stand By Me

PetulaGordeno · Today 18:02

Watching my mum die in agony of lung cancer, about 5 stone, with huge cancerous growths up her spine….
Not cool at all.
I lost her far too young and it was the most hideous, traumatising death. It took two years to watch her dwindle, no hair, couldn’t eat or breathe properly as her body decayed.
As for your post title in the words of Victoria Wood - no offence meant, but plenty taken.

aperolspritzbasicbitch · Today 18:02

I think previous posters are right - if you are already cool and chic, it looks cool and chic.
if you are stood around in joggers, hoody and a Miss Trunchbull bun (guilty) it looks the opposite.

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faithfultoGeorgeMichael · Today 18:02

I mean look 😂 12 year old me was powerless

To think that smoking looks really, really cool?
GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · Today 18:02

I get what you mean. Except the Diet Coke, which is a disgusting drinks, and not the original anything - if you’d said coffee again then fine.

iwasboredinbed · Today 18:03

I don’t think it looks cool at all.

But my parents used to smoke. My dad used to lie on my bed with me when I was young and couldn’t sleep. He had this lovely knitted jumper that used to smell of tobacco. That smell instantly takes me back to my childhood

AnyDayNowChuckJacksonNSoul · Today 18:03

The epitome of cool taking a drag on a fag are long gone.
It stinks,costly .. a minkers draw(Ne Scottish phrase) nothing to do with hate language was smoke exchanged in a kiss..done it over 45 years ago but my god..Gads👶

ttcnumero2 · Today 18:04

Complete opposite...someone could be a 10, and if I see them with a cigarette it straight away moves them to a 1!