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AIBU to wonder if anti-English feeling is mostly about sport

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Batsratscatsgnats · 05/07/2026 22:46

If you support anyone but England in football or other sports do you dislike English people generally or is it just in sports?

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Goldenbear · 14/07/2026 16:11

Goldenbear · 14/07/2026 16:07

Where is this universal love to be found as IME with close Scandinavian family and friends there is no pronounced preference. Do you mean in the U.S. where they have romantic notions of the culture of these countries? If anything and you are going to like this, my Danish family relate more to the dry wit mostly demonstrated by the English, somone like Jack Dee, who is deadpan in delivery

And yes, I know Dee, is an Irish surname, like many of us we have this mixed heritage, my married name is Irish in origin but that's the most common element of our heritage as we really do live up to a London upbringing very multi cultural.

Differentforgirls · 14/07/2026 16:17

Batsratscatsgnats · 14/07/2026 14:31

As an English person (from London whixh apparently makea it even worse!!) Id say yes id like people from the other nations to like us of course. Why wouldn't I? For the most part I like most people so do take some of the views on here about English people slightly personally. I also think while people can obviously have their views some are pretty unfair.
if its just sport then thats up to you but if you dont like me just because Im English id say

  • the empire - most of us weren't alive then so its not us responsible and Scots were involved too
  • English are arrogant about football and expect to win bc of its coming home. No. IMO ive never met an England fan who thinks we'll win the football. We all want to obviously but expect its absolutely not! The song is a joke about the disappointment of being en England fan
  • pundits banging on about England. I mean I would hope if England were out and Scotland (or Wales!) were still in you guys would get the same
  • English are horrible drunks abroad. Yes sometimes true but so are the other nations of the uk. Same goes for not learning g the languages.
  • also a very large percentage of us in England have heritage from elsewhere in yh UK anyway. Mine for example is Welsh, Scottish and Jamaican and well as English.
  • Brexit well yes that was an own goal but London voted to remain too. Wales didnt. Do you blame them?

So yeah I kind of take it personally if someone decides they dont like ME bc I happen to have been born in England. Wouldn't you?

Of course I would!

Differentforgirls · 14/07/2026 16:22

Goldenbear · 14/07/2026 16:07

Where is this universal love to be found as IME with close Scandinavian family and friends there is no pronounced preference. Do you mean in the U.S. where they have romantic notions of the culture of these countries? If anything and you are going to like this, my Danish family relate more to the dry wit mostly demonstrated by the English, somone like Jack Dee, who is deadpan in delivery

I don’t dislike it, though I’m not keen on Jack Dee. Prefer Stewart Lee.

Batsratscatsgnats · 14/07/2026 16:34

Differentforgirls · 14/07/2026 16:17

Of course I would!

But many MANY of your posts have been very much -English people are disliked the world over - So if you would also take that personally, why do you still share the view? THATS what im asking really.
I mean I haven't experienced it the world over, personally, but I have heard ABE many times from the other home nations.
I was trying to point out the discrepancies in the reasons given for why people are saying they dislike English people. Do you disagree with my points or have another reason for disliking us?

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IcedPurple · 14/07/2026 16:45

Swiftie1878 · 14/07/2026 15:33

Well, their viewers are all Spanish or German.
Ours aren’t all English.

You don't seriously believe that 100% of those viewing Spanish or German TV are from those nationalities? That no foreigners live in either country?

I don't get your point anyway.

Differentforgirls · 14/07/2026 17:05

Batsratscatsgnats · 14/07/2026 16:34

But many MANY of your posts have been very much -English people are disliked the world over - So if you would also take that personally, why do you still share the view? THATS what im asking really.
I mean I haven't experienced it the world over, personally, but I have heard ABE many times from the other home nations.
I was trying to point out the discrepancies in the reasons given for why people are saying they dislike English people. Do you disagree with my points or have another reason for disliking us?

I agree with your points.

Here’s the thing. I don’t dislike you. I think this whole “ABE” has been overblown on here. Can I give you an example?

Rupert Lowe and his crass comments about Dunblane has shocked people all over the UK.

But if you look back at the documentaries about that awful incident, the people who started the snowdrop campaign are a mix of Scottish and English parents who all lived in Dunblane.

I don’t think we should extrapolate football “banter” to a hatred of English people as a whole.

It’s just a football thing.

People from the four nations live and work with each other.

I can’t speak for other nations world wide.

But it IS a thing.

Swiftie1878 · 14/07/2026 19:16

IcedPurple · 14/07/2026 16:45

You don't seriously believe that 100% of those viewing Spanish or German TV are from those nationalities? That no foreigners live in either country?

I don't get your point anyway.

The point is that German TV is broadcast to Germany. They can use ‘we’ when talking about the German team.
Our TV (the BBC and ITV) is broadcast to England, Northern Ireland, Scotland and Wales. Each have their own teams. ‘We’ is not appropriate when referring to the England team.

LuckyHazelFox · 14/07/2026 19:22

Swiftie1878 · 14/07/2026 19:16

The point is that German TV is broadcast to Germany. They can use ‘we’ when talking about the German team.
Our TV (the BBC and ITV) is broadcast to England, Northern Ireland, Scotland and Wales. Each have their own teams. ‘We’ is not appropriate when referring to the England team.

Given the level of hate towards England football, I doubt those nations would be tuning in.

Wiseplumnet · 14/07/2026 19:27

thenightsky · 05/07/2026 23:14

Make that make sense.

I think in my experience it means that the mother hates the 'English' collectively as a nation, but likes individual English people once she gets to know them in real life.

LuckyHazelFox · 14/07/2026 19:28

Wiseplumnet · 14/07/2026 19:27

I think in my experience it means that the mother hates the 'English' collectively as a nation, but likes individual English people once she gets to know them in real life.

So guilty until proven innocent.

BackToLurk · 14/07/2026 19:32

Wiseplumnet · 14/07/2026 19:27

I think in my experience it means that the mother hates the 'English' collectively as a nation, but likes individual English people once she gets to know them in real life.

Strong “some of my best friends are black” vibes.

Wiseplumnet · 14/07/2026 19:40

Happyhappyzoozoo · 06/07/2026 00:32

I suggest you read about the Scottish clearances and the Irish famine for a start. Very much English colonialism.

Obviously there’s no point in holding historical events against modern individuals but when the legacy if these events can still be seen and felt it makes it difficult to get on board with cheering and clapping for an english team.

I very much suggest you read history. Highland clearance tradgedy was result of Scottish land owners clearing land to raise more profitable sheep. The same injustice was perpetrated on rural population of England by English landowners. This was a class issue, not the English clearing the Scots off their land.

Sheeshbee · 14/07/2026 19:44

Scotland and Wales are tiny populations and are vastly, vastly overrepresented compared to most English regions (including ones with far larger populations) in terms of funding, TV attention, visiting sports competitions etc.

Other regions don’t have their own BBC TV channels as Scotland and Wales do.
England has about 85% of the UK population, it makes sense that they get just a touch more attention than countries with 8% and 4.6% in terms of sports teams.

I guarantee you that hearing Scottish football results on the radio in England is as grating as the English coverage you get up there. And I’m quite sure the old firm get more TV and radio time than a team like Aston Villa, from a region with a larger population than the whole of Scotland.

What there is in the UK as a whole is a massive over representation and focus on London (and now Manchester). That’s said, Edinburgh gets more government attention, money and international events than nearly everywhere else.

Chip on the shoulder Scots need to realise that we’re all in the same boat, the vast majority of the population of England are not landed gentry ruling classes in control of the country at the time of historic wars, or now.

Scottish people aren’t any more different to Londoners than people in Cornwall or Hereford or Northumberland.

And with 130% of the central government funding per head that many English regions get (thanks Barnett), it’s the English that should be resentful of the Scottish tbh.

Swiftie1878 · 14/07/2026 19:55

LuckyHazelFox · 14/07/2026 19:22

Given the level of hate towards England football, I doubt those nations would be tuning in.

And there you go. THAT is why we’re hated. No willingness to understand, empathise or care. Always an excuse.

NB. I’m English.

Differentforgirls · 14/07/2026 20:04

LuckyHazelFox · 14/07/2026 19:22

Given the level of hate towards England football, I doubt those nations would be tuning in.

Can you link to examples of “hate”?

Differentforgirls · 14/07/2026 20:06

Sheeshbee · 14/07/2026 19:44

Scotland and Wales are tiny populations and are vastly, vastly overrepresented compared to most English regions (including ones with far larger populations) in terms of funding, TV attention, visiting sports competitions etc.

Other regions don’t have their own BBC TV channels as Scotland and Wales do.
England has about 85% of the UK population, it makes sense that they get just a touch more attention than countries with 8% and 4.6% in terms of sports teams.

I guarantee you that hearing Scottish football results on the radio in England is as grating as the English coverage you get up there. And I’m quite sure the old firm get more TV and radio time than a team like Aston Villa, from a region with a larger population than the whole of Scotland.

What there is in the UK as a whole is a massive over representation and focus on London (and now Manchester). That’s said, Edinburgh gets more government attention, money and international events than nearly everywhere else.

Chip on the shoulder Scots need to realise that we’re all in the same boat, the vast majority of the population of England are not landed gentry ruling classes in control of the country at the time of historic wars, or now.

Scottish people aren’t any more different to Londoners than people in Cornwall or Hereford or Northumberland.

And with 130% of the central government funding per head that many English regions get (thanks Barnett), it’s the English that should be resentful of the Scottish tbh.

Scotland and Wales aren’t regions of England.

Wiseplumnet · 14/07/2026 20:21

BackToLurk · 14/07/2026 19:32

Strong “some of my best friends are black” vibes.

Totally agree, ths is what living in Scotland as an English person can be like.

Tippertapperfeet · 14/07/2026 20:26

Differentforgirls · 14/07/2026 20:06

Scotland and Wales aren’t regions of England.

Neither is Northern Ireland

Differentforgirls · 14/07/2026 20:33

Wiseplumnet · 14/07/2026 20:21

Totally agree, ths is what living in Scotland as an English person can be like.

Where in Scotland do you live?

Differentforgirls · 14/07/2026 20:33

Tippertapperfeet · 14/07/2026 20:26

Neither is Northern Ireland

Exactly. But the poster only mentioned two. Probably forgot about NI.

Nolongera · 14/07/2026 20:35

Tippertapperfeet · 14/07/2026 20:26

Neither is Northern Ireland

The poster didn't say they were.

Tippertapperfeet · 14/07/2026 20:39

Nolongera · 14/07/2026 20:35

The poster didn't say they were.

Almost half of the people of Northern Ireland (including one of my parents and one of my grandparents) don’t consider themselves to be British and don’t hold British citizenship because of the GFA. Why would an Irish person support England?

Differentforgirls · 14/07/2026 20:41

Nolongera · 14/07/2026 20:35

The poster didn't say they were.

They said Scotland and Wales are though. Which is ironic really as the only one of the four NATIONS which doesn’t have its own parliament is England.

Tippertapperfeet · 14/07/2026 20:43

Differentforgirls · 14/07/2026 20:41

They said Scotland and Wales are though. Which is ironic really as the only one of the four NATIONS which doesn’t have its own parliament is England.

Tbf the Northern Ireland one is more out than in 😂

Differentforgirls · 14/07/2026 20:44

Tippertapperfeet · 14/07/2026 20:43

Tbf the Northern Ireland one is more out than in 😂

I know! 🤣

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