AIBU to pause trying for a baby because of our wedding?

[MayasJam]

Hi,

We are due to get married April 2027 - venue booked, some vendors booked, dress bought.

We have been trying for a baby for 7 months - not happened yet. My dilemma is I'm 39 - soon to be 40 in a couple of months - so already on the older side of TTC. Should we take a break TTC for 3 months to give time for wedding to take place. Carry on TTC, see what happens, and move wedding if needed depending on dates?

@selfseededashup against some pretty stiff competition, this is one of the stupidest things I’ve ever read on this site.

I would pause. Or bring the wedding forward.

If you are going to ‘pause’; I’d just use condoms rather than anything hormonal