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Sex trafficking by refugees in the UK

301 replies

justasking111 · 22/05/2026 13:48

7 afghans charged with human trafficking. Most from Norfolk, one from Scotland an eighth the CPS will have to extricate from Ireland. They're accused of trafficking young teens.

They're uk refugees officially.

Aibu to say charge, if found guilty ship them back to Afghanistan?

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Flyingintotheunknown · 22/05/2026 21:25

Jellox · 22/05/2026 21:17

Where have I said we should accept ALL immigrants?

That would be stupid, we are a tiny island and due to stricter EU rules we now have a lot less emigration and we can’t handle as much immigration as before.

Please show me where I (or anyone on this thread) has said we should accept ALL immigrants……

Again you seem to be grouping illegal and legal migrants together by claiming we will never not have migration! I agreed and said yes we will always have migration…. But what has that got to do with boat men who shouldn’t be here????
Illegal migration CAN be stopped, the government just can’t be arsed and would rather call everyone who speaks out against it far right racists. Legal migration on a healthy level… of course, keep it going.

But why drag beastie house into a thread about boat migrants raping women and children just to try and score points by saying “well white men rape women too”! Yes we know that ffs! My question to you was “So why let more rapists in to the country via boats then?”.

And you somehow deflect and twist what I asked into some weird “well we will always have migration” nonsense! Whatever that has to do with your comment about Beastie House I’ll never know!

PerhapsaSillyQuestion · 22/05/2026 21:26

@Flyingintotheunknown I agree.
We have come a long way in terms of equality and integration in a male dominated world.
We have education ,campaigns , laws and so on and still we suffer and get beaten and attacked and spiked and drugged and raped and killed.

And yet we seem very happy to turn that small progress back to the year dot with men from archaic counties like the stone ages.
Somehow I don't think the response would be the same if we welcomed creatures who were able to and wanted to attack and sell and rape and murder men

Southwestten · 22/05/2026 21:26

Schools should have more funding and be able to deliver lessons on respect and consent etc

@Jellox why do schools need more funding to teach pupils about respect and consent? Surely such teaching should be fitted in to the curriculum.

SisterTeatime · 22/05/2026 21:29

Of course men in all cultures commit sex offences against women and children. They always have, and they always will.

All cultures, though, don’t share the same attitudes about women’s autonomy, rights, and worth, and the rights of children - for example the right to have a childhood and not be married off or sent out to work at a young age.

Anyone who argues that it’s in some way wrong to talk about these cultural differences is idiotic, and no sane person would say that Afghanistan as anywhere near as civilised as Western countries in this respect. We don’t have to have no rapes or sex offences by native men to criticise other cultures’ attitudes to women and children!

Jellox · 22/05/2026 21:31

Southwestten · 22/05/2026 21:26

Schools should have more funding and be able to deliver lessons on respect and consent etc

@Jellox why do schools need more funding to teach pupils about respect and consent? Surely such teaching should be fitted in to the curriculum.

Unfortunately schools are struggling to find time to teach the curriculum, let alone anything else.

Consent and respect are taught but they’re not GCSE subjects and so there is only so much time and effort staff can put into it.

EasternStandard · 22/05/2026 21:31

Jellox · 22/05/2026 21:11

There’s no one thing but as we all know, women and girls are more at risk by people they know (close friends and family members) and so this message needs to be drilled into people.
Some people fear a refugee but will happily bring a man they’ve met a handful of times into their homes with their young DCs.

Schools should have more funding and be able to deliver lessons on respect and consent etc.

Social services needs more funding and a better support for social workers - in the majority of cases, SS are aware but the high staff turn around or just not enough times meant things go unnoticed.

Services like the police, SS, schools etc should all have a better system of communicating with each other. As this is also a reason as why things go unnoticed/ unpunished.

And much harsher sentences for SO.
There should be mandatory chemical castration.

This doesn’t address the issue in the thread title.

Flyingintotheunknown · 22/05/2026 21:37

Jellox · 22/05/2026 21:31

Unfortunately schools are struggling to find time to teach the curriculum, let alone anything else.

Consent and respect are taught but they’re not GCSE subjects and so there is only so much time and effort staff can put into it.

So kids should be expected to have a GCSE in respect and consent now should they, in order to have to adapt to boat migrants raping them. Ok!

Bollixtothat · 22/05/2026 21:37

Shessweetbutapsycho · 22/05/2026 14:30

The majority of perpetrators of sexual violence against women and girls are white British men, perhaps you should turn your attention there if you care for the young girls here

Imagine that in a white British country?

Jellox · 22/05/2026 21:40

Flyingintotheunknown · 22/05/2026 21:25

Again you seem to be grouping illegal and legal migrants together by claiming we will never not have migration! I agreed and said yes we will always have migration…. But what has that got to do with boat men who shouldn’t be here????
Illegal migration CAN be stopped, the government just can’t be arsed and would rather call everyone who speaks out against it far right racists. Legal migration on a healthy level… of course, keep it going.

But why drag beastie house into a thread about boat migrants raping women and children just to try and score points by saying “well white men rape women too”! Yes we know that ffs! My question to you was “So why let more rapists in to the country via boats then?”.

And you somehow deflect and twist what I asked into some weird “well we will always have migration” nonsense! Whatever that has to do with your comment about Beastie House I’ll never know!

Because someone said that a particular country’s attitude towards women and children is different and I said it’s not a country thing it’s a man thing.

Men all over the world have the same attitude and so using that as a reason to stop certain people coming here isn’t a valid reason.

You cannot ban people from certain countries entering, it’s ridiculous to even suggest it (whether it was you or another poster).

No where have I said about having ALL immigrants, whether they’re legal or not.

You’re jumping into a discussion that you’re obviously not 100% on what was said.

Please stop trying to put words in my mouth that I’ve not said.

Jellox · 22/05/2026 21:42

Flyingintotheunknown · 22/05/2026 21:37

So kids should be expected to have a GCSE in respect and consent now should they, in order to have to adapt to boat migrants raping them. Ok!

No of course not.

Where have I said that?

Why are you trying to twist my words constantly, it makes you look stupid tbh and invalidates any argument that you might have.

Flyingintotheunknown · 22/05/2026 21:45

Jellox · 22/05/2026 21:40

Because someone said that a particular country’s attitude towards women and children is different and I said it’s not a country thing it’s a man thing.

Men all over the world have the same attitude and so using that as a reason to stop certain people coming here isn’t a valid reason.

You cannot ban people from certain countries entering, it’s ridiculous to even suggest it (whether it was you or another poster).

No where have I said about having ALL immigrants, whether they’re legal or not.

You’re jumping into a discussion that you’re obviously not 100% on what was said.

Please stop trying to put words in my mouth that I’ve not said.

Again… You quoted the words “Beastie House” in a thread about boat migrants. I responded with “So why allow more rapists in the country to come and rape more women and children”. Your response to this was “ Oh well we will always have migration”!
Yes great logic! Not!

Jellox · 22/05/2026 21:46

EasternStandard · 22/05/2026 21:31

This doesn’t address the issue in the thread title.

No of course not, that was in response to another posters question.

My view on the thread title was that I’m on the fence.
I can see both sides.

The victims tend to not want them deported and so I think they should have the ultimate say but I’m not sure how that works in principle, especially if there are multiple victims.

Jellox · 22/05/2026 21:49

Flyingintotheunknown · 22/05/2026 21:45

Again… You quoted the words “Beastie House” in a thread about boat migrants. I responded with “So why allow more rapists in the country to come and rape more women and children”. Your response to this was “ Oh well we will always have migration”!
Yes great logic! Not!

Are you actually ok???

You seem to be talking a lot but not making any sense.

You got into a discussion half way through and are just making stuff up.

You’ve accused me of wanting ALL migrants, to do a GCSE in consent and God knows what else when I’ve not said anything like that.

Happyjoe · 22/05/2026 21:54

Fasthearty · 22/05/2026 14:57

You won’t convince me that the men who come from countries where child marriage is normalised have different attitudes towards sex with children than pedophiles in this country

but yes vile men are vile men. And marriage with kids is disgusting. And thankfully not legal here

Ha, I guess you're not old enough to remember the likes of Bill Wyman and Mandy Smith then? All it did was raise an eyebrow and a few headlines. No arrests were made, it was pretty much accepted because her mum was all for it.

It's not really all that long since we've started to hold people to account. Even that's sketchy, when look at yesterdays ruling on the child rapists.

Flyingintotheunknown · 22/05/2026 21:54

Jellox · 22/05/2026 21:49

Are you actually ok???

You seem to be talking a lot but not making any sense.

You got into a discussion half way through and are just making stuff up.

You’ve accused me of wanting ALL migrants, to do a GCSE in consent and God knows what else when I’ve not said anything like that.

Yes I am ok….

I asked a simple question pages ago and you have taken me all around the houses with “we will always have migration” and all sorts of other shit! Making excuses for boat migrant’s committing rape because it also happened in Beastie House and then further making more excuses for it by saying “well yes men in general from everywhere commit rape”! Oh ok then…. well let’s just let even more boat migrants in so that even more rapes can be committed!

Are you ok?

Happyjoe · 22/05/2026 21:56

Bollixtothat · 22/05/2026 21:37

Imagine that in a white British country?

The outrage should be outrage no matter where they are from. Sadly it is selective outrage.

Happyjoe · 22/05/2026 22:03

Flyingintotheunknown · 22/05/2026 21:37

So kids should be expected to have a GCSE in respect and consent now should they, in order to have to adapt to boat migrants raping them. Ok!

Actually they are. Sod all to do with people on a boat. Home grown toxic male influencers, loverly.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c9qednjzwv1o

A group of year five pupils sat down facing the front of a classroom. The students are wearing blue jumpers and blue polo shirts and none of their faces are visible.

Violence against women and girls strategy: Boys to be sent on courses to tackle misogyny in schools

The measure is part of the government's strategy to tackle violence against women and girls in England.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c9qednjzwv1o

Jellox · 22/05/2026 22:04

Flyingintotheunknown · 22/05/2026 21:54

Yes I am ok….

I asked a simple question pages ago and you have taken me all around the houses with “we will always have migration” and all sorts of other shit! Making excuses for boat migrant’s committing rape because it also happened in Beastie House and then further making more excuses for it by saying “well yes men in general from everywhere commit rape”! Oh ok then…. well let’s just let even more boat migrants in so that even more rapes can be committed!

Are you ok?

Where have I made excuses for men committing rape???

You keep accusing me of saying things that I’ve never said.
You’ve done it several times now.

You’re going to have to start showing me exactly where you think I’ve said it because you’re making yourself look stupid.

But that’s the trouble with stupid people.
Same with Tommy Robinson and those fools.
They can’t have a normal discussion, they have to imply that people are pro-rapists because they don’t have any facts to support their argument.

Flyingintotheunknown · 22/05/2026 22:05

Happyjoe · 22/05/2026 22:03

Actually they are. Sod all to do with people on a boat. Home grown toxic male influencers, loverly.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c9qednjzwv1o

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Again…. More gaslighting nonsense and excuses for rapists! Gaslighting doesn’t work with me, neither does plucking some link from the BBC about misogyny being taught in schools…. Which has absolutely fuck all to do with this thread btw!

Happyjoe · 22/05/2026 22:08

Flyingintotheunknown · 22/05/2026 22:05

Again…. More gaslighting nonsense and excuses for rapists! Gaslighting doesn’t work with me, neither does plucking some link from the BBC about misogyny being taught in schools…. Which has absolutely fuck all to do with this thread btw!

Attack the best form of defence eh? 😅

Excuse for rape she says, when I've done no such thing. Gaslighting indeed.

Jellox · 22/05/2026 22:10

Flyingintotheunknown · 22/05/2026 22:05

Again…. More gaslighting nonsense and excuses for rapists! Gaslighting doesn’t work with me, neither does plucking some link from the BBC about misogyny being taught in schools…. Which has absolutely fuck all to do with this thread btw!

You were the one asking if students should have a GCSE in consent 😂😂🤦‍♀️

Harry12345 · 22/05/2026 22:11

Happyjoe · 22/05/2026 21:56

The outrage should be outrage no matter where they are from. Sadly it is selective outrage.

No it’s not! People are more angry with migrants as they shouldn’t be here in the first place to be able to carry out assaults. We can’t do anything about the men here. Most countries around the world would be angry with migrants coming into their country and commiting crimes!

Jellox · 22/05/2026 22:11

Happyjoe · 22/05/2026 22:08

Attack the best form of defence eh? 😅

Excuse for rape she says, when I've done no such thing. Gaslighting indeed.

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That’s what that poster does.

If she has no argument or facts, she just says people are making excuses for rapists and hopes it silences them.

Flyingintotheunknown · 22/05/2026 22:11

Jellox · 22/05/2026 22:04

Where have I made excuses for men committing rape???

You keep accusing me of saying things that I’ve never said.
You’ve done it several times now.

You’re going to have to start showing me exactly where you think I’ve said it because you’re making yourself look stupid.

But that’s the trouble with stupid people.
Same with Tommy Robinson and those fools.
They can’t have a normal discussion, they have to imply that people are pro-rapists because they don’t have any facts to support their argument.

And what the fuck has it got to do with Tommy Robinson?

I have said over and over again about you mentioning Beastie House?? Why mention it then???

And yes this is the trouble with stupid people, they quote crimes committed by white people then incorporate it into a thread about boat migrants committing rape with the logic that “oh well white men commit rape too”.

And you still haven’t answered my question.

As I said upthread, you don’t have a logical answer to my question and post keep quoting the same shit about “oh well everyone from everywhere commits crimes so all is ok then”!

And for some unexplained reason, now decide to bring Tommy Robinson into it? Fuck knows why! What a ridiculous, unintelligent round the houses conversation… and you still haven’t answered my original question. Instead you mention Tommy Robinson! How dumb! 🤣

Jesus Wept!

Flyingintotheunknown · 22/05/2026 22:12

Happyjoe · 22/05/2026 22:08

Attack the best form of defence eh? 😅

Excuse for rape she says, when I've done no such thing. Gaslighting indeed.

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Yawn gaslight shite!