WTF was he wearing?!

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I passed a man earlier (maybe 45 to 50), who was wearing a t-shirt emblazoned with the words "I'm not a gynecologist [sic], but I'll take a look anyway".

AIBU to think this is arrantly classless, misogynistic in reducing women to mere vulvas and that you'd have you'd have to be a prick to own such a monstrosity, never mind wear it out in public?!

Well actually I was just thinking about it as I watched a programme not long ago where that vile creep was wearing a string vest and then stripped off in front of a bunch of women in an office and it sounded similar. Women being unwittingly exposed to this creepy unwanted behaviour is a form of sexual harassment.

Only one unhinged person I can see on this thread, and it’s you.

You’re OK with sexual harassment in public, we get it.

If anything like my parents they wouldn’t give it a thought. My older sister gave me a load of her old clothes, among them was a vest top with “I’m still a virgin” in very bold letter with “unfortunately this is a very old shirt” underneath. I must of been 11/12 😬

Grim. My neighbour house signs similar to this all over their garden. Dislike 👎

Plus, that grammar makes my eyes bleed.

I'm fine with tshirts like that. It gives women a really clear indication of which men to stay well away from.

My thoughts exactly. He's advertising the type of person he is so it's easy to avoid him.

I once saw a tiny baby sleepsuit for sale that said on it "I'm with the MILF". I thought that was pretty crass. This, obviously, is worse but hardly anything surprises me these days about humanity.

You can get those from BDSM places but it shocks me he managed to find one to fit a child.

ive seen 'mash out with your gash out' - i was sick in my mouth a bit 😲

Oh come on! How is it sexual harassment ? Earlier it was apparently child abuse.

I must be away with the fairies as I never notice what people have on their T shirts.
I just don't look.

what a twonk

I'm guessing me taking the bus as a kid and sitting next to adult men reading newspapers with page 3 on display wasn't a form of sexual harassment either.

Or when the boys in the corridor below me at uni put them up on the kitchen noticeboard until the cleaner refused to clean the communal kitchen.

I guess you'll be told it was all your own fault for having eyes...

Only actual groping and catcalling counts as sexual harrassment and not doing things that create a hostile environment for others based on their gender, got it.

I still cringe when I recall a female on here commenting about shaving her vagina.

Firstly, it’s sex not gender.

I worked in a time where sexual harassment was ignored. So topless pics etc - you have every right to be offended and that’s fine but it belittles honest to God sexual harassment experience (which I and may others have experienced).

Please explain how some dude in a crappy t-shirt is creating a hostile environment by walking past you minding his own business?

WTF?!!! Noooo.....just nooo

Not nice when you are a kid.

But topless pics? Tasteless yes but students can be morons.

It's a crap joke, but one that falls more on the "tasteless" than "misogynistic" end of the spectrum for me. A child wouldn't understand it, so not really inappropriate.

I'd roll my eyes and move on.

Not that it makes it much better, really; but MILF is one of those acronyms that has become widely detached from its origins. People just know that it means an attractive older lady and maybe that's all.

A bit like calling somebody a 'berk' was always seen as a wholly innocent, kid-friendly, silly term when I was a child - like twit or wally; but a lot of people didn't realise that it was literally Cockney rhyming slang for 'Berkshire Hunt'!

As the American showman Phineas T Barnum said: "Nobody ever went broke under estimating peoples taste".

He’s a knob but there’s plenty of rude T shirts in holiday resorts.

🤮 I had a friend who had an FBI female body inspector t shirt. I refused to be seen with him!

Sex and gender are two different things, and 'gender' is exactly what I meant given this is someone indulging in toxic masculinity because society deems that's that's how real men perform their gender.... and I'm pretty sure that T-shirt would equally fuck off the trans men I know who can't be bothered with the macho banter bullshit.