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To feel very sorry for Vicky B

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Stayinitstoocold · 20/01/2026 11:33

Yes, we don’t know the full story, but so many things being said about the dance story being untrue-they had already had their dance, she’d also danced with her father, Vb was reportedly called onto the stage by her friend, Marc A and was shy to do so. She comes across as a very awkward, sad person, David seems to dislike her and speak down to her. I can imagine she must be devastated and so humiliated by this. No matter the issues, Brooklyn shouldn’t have issued the problems publicly.
I know a lot about issues with Mil’s but my instinct tells me that this could be her and perhaps she has been difficult from the start. She doesn’t have a reputation for being a nice person at all, even before all this and it’s been said there may have been similar situations in the past with an ex of hers.
In comparison, I’ve never seen anyone say a bad word about Vb, the opposite in fact, she seems to have a great relationship with all her other children and the partners, plus a good relationship with Db’s family
She just must feel so devastated and humiliated, your first born that you held in your arms as a baby.

All so sad

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PinkPanther57 · 21/01/2026 11:10

VanessaSanessa · 21/01/2026 11:02

I get that, the losing face etc but you do (at least I did) get to a point in your life where you don't give two shiny s**ts what Mary up the road thinks. You are at peace with yourself.

I think they could have been authentic people, dialled down the brand and still made money.

Anyway, I guess at least she can cry on her yacht! 😉

It’s too small, :), it’s really a curse when you’re not at peace. Sometimes those badly damaged can never quite escape the liberation that comes from not caring about what others think.

PinkPanther57 · 21/01/2026 11:12

VanessaSanessa · 21/01/2026 11:03

We are talking a lot about VB but for what it's worth, I think DB is a prize p**ck.

Hard agree. WHY is HE at Davos?

TicklishMintDuck · 21/01/2026 11:17

Read the heading and wondered who ‘Vicky B’ was! There are bigger things going on in tte world.

GrethaGreen · 21/01/2026 11:20

I really rate the VB make up brands, but wonder what this drama will do to the brand. It’s not exactly aspirational…

Blogswife · 21/01/2026 11:25

It’s becoming the “in thing” for profoundly privileged nepo babies to publicly slag off their high profile parents.
Whatever the issue is , keep it behind closed doors, it’s out there forever & one day you may regret it !!

ShowmetheMapletree · 21/01/2026 11:33

Blogswife · 21/01/2026 11:25

It’s becoming the “in thing” for profoundly privileged nepo babies to publicly slag off their high profile parents.
Whatever the issue is , keep it behind closed doors, it’s out there forever & one day you may regret it !!

It's a little difficult when the parents of these "Nepo babies" only love language is social media, don't you think?

VanessaSanessa · 21/01/2026 11:34

PinkPanther57 · 21/01/2026 11:12

Hard agree. WHY is HE at Davos?

I don't understand what he's doing there either.

I put it down to just another day of madness in the current world. Next up Trump's arrival! 🙄

VanessaSanessa · 21/01/2026 11:35

Blogswife · 21/01/2026 11:25

It’s becoming the “in thing” for profoundly privileged nepo babies to publicly slag off their high profile parents.
Whatever the issue is , keep it behind closed doors, it’s out there forever & one day you may regret it !!

You could say that one day the parents will regret it too.

Calliopespa · 21/01/2026 11:43

VanessaSanessa · 21/01/2026 11:35

You could say that one day the parents will regret it too.

I think the majority of parents - except for really closed down people - feel a lot of guilt and regret a lot of the time, and sometimes about things that really matter or that they could have helped, but often not. It comes with the territory of parenting and most do their best but still get told by their teens they are embarrassing or by their adult children that their childhood was missing some critical factor.

The majority of parents care and try, but people aren't perfect. Added to that, social mores change and they are then judged by the altered attitudes so parenting is a moving target. My cousin has just told my elderly aunt that it was controlling of her to take her and her siblings to church services. As my aunt said, she usually couldn't be bothered and would have preferred a lie-in but had been conditioned to think getting them up and off to something "wholesome" on Sunday morning was a good thing. She was trying.

I think it will be interesting when the current generation of young and young parents are facing the analysis of their efforts by their own dc.

I struggle to think VB will be reacting to this by thinking "ya know what, I couldn't care less."

Gowlett · 21/01/2026 12:03

GrethaGreen · 21/01/2026 11:20

I really rate the VB make up brands, but wonder what this drama will do to the brand. It’s not exactly aspirational…

I don’t know… Any press is good press! The whole world is talking about them right now. It’s also good for Brooklyn (and Nicola) as anyone who’d not heard of them, has now! The Beckhams might not say anything, as that’s what he’s asked.

They’ll come out & be photographed, guaranteed. Together, as a family, at a significant event. Just like the ski pictures, Victoria will make sure it’s highly choreographed. But, I think Brooklyn has moved the media goalposts, as his mother did back then.

1457bloom · 21/01/2026 12:06

After a life of everything being choreographed to look perfect, anyone would snap eventually because it’s fake.

Kingscallops · 21/01/2026 12:10

I just wonder how many mothers slating Victoria, could put their hand on hearts and say they wouldn't feel as devastated as she will be.

FishersGate · 21/01/2026 12:15

Kingscallops · 21/01/2026 12:10

I just wonder how many mothers slating Victoria, could put their hand on hearts and say they wouldn't feel as devastated as she will be.

Exactly. Disgusting comments on a family no one knows anything about 🤣.

AllIdoistidyup · 21/01/2026 12:16

Gowlett · 21/01/2026 12:03

I don’t know… Any press is good press! The whole world is talking about them right now. It’s also good for Brooklyn (and Nicola) as anyone who’d not heard of them, has now! The Beckhams might not say anything, as that’s what he’s asked.

They’ll come out & be photographed, guaranteed. Together, as a family, at a significant event. Just like the ski pictures, Victoria will make sure it’s highly choreographed. But, I think Brooklyn has moved the media goalposts, as his mother did back then.

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I really, really disagree (for the Beckhams). This isn't Molly Mae off Love Island doing a statement about her breakup with Tommy Fury the same week her clothing brand and documentary launch. The Beckhams have tried to go for classy entrepreneur and this is all very embarrassing.

TeaRoseTallulah · 21/01/2026 12:16

Kingscallops · 21/01/2026 12:10

I just wonder how many mothers slating Victoria, could put their hand on hearts and say they wouldn't feel as devastated as she will be.

She'll be absolutely broken and I do feel for her,to be publicly ridiculed by your first born must be hellish.

PinkPanther57 · 21/01/2026 12:18

Calliopespa · 21/01/2026 11:43

I think the majority of parents - except for really closed down people - feel a lot of guilt and regret a lot of the time, and sometimes about things that really matter or that they could have helped, but often not. It comes with the territory of parenting and most do their best but still get told by their teens they are embarrassing or by their adult children that their childhood was missing some critical factor.

The majority of parents care and try, but people aren't perfect. Added to that, social mores change and they are then judged by the altered attitudes so parenting is a moving target. My cousin has just told my elderly aunt that it was controlling of her to take her and her siblings to church services. As my aunt said, she usually couldn't be bothered and would have preferred a lie-in but had been conditioned to think getting them up and off to something "wholesome" on Sunday morning was a good thing. She was trying.

I think it will be interesting when the current generation of young and young parents are facing the analysis of their efforts by their own dc.

I struggle to think VB will be reacting to this by thinking "ya know what, I couldn't care less."

This is so accurate & well put. The horrified posts on babies being well wrapped & left in the garden in the past & crying it out at times, testament to that! People have very short memories & this was received wisdom of parenting past.

I was brought up by a woman born in 1890, she did her best but I absorbed her values. I was destroyed at school :).

Kingscallops · 21/01/2026 12:18

TeaRoseTallulah · 21/01/2026 12:16

She'll be absolutely broken and I do feel for her,to be publicly ridiculed by your first born must be hellish.

Hi Tea. Do you mind if I PM you on another matter, about a medical thread we spoke on x

BennyHenny · 21/01/2026 12:23

I can only imagine that everyone involved is devastated that it has come to this stage, it is possible to feel empathy for ALL of them as it’s clearly a culmination of stuff over years that’s now imploded so publicly. There’s no winners here, except the vultures gleefully crowing that VB, DB and BB deserve the vitriol on this thread.

PinkPanther57 · 21/01/2026 12:24

1457bloom · 21/01/2026 12:06

After a life of everything being choreographed to look perfect, anyone would snap eventually because it’s fake.

You’ve described so many on FB & posh or horse ‘influencers’ etc few seem to snap - although don’t disagree.

Branster · 21/01/2026 12:43

GrethaGreen · 21/01/2026 11:20

I really rate the VB make up brands, but wonder what this drama will do to the brand. It’s not exactly aspirational…

The products speak for themselves by now, excellent quality and there is no reason why this story should affect the brand, at least the cosmetics side.

GrethaGreen · 21/01/2026 12:47

Branster · 21/01/2026 12:43

The products speak for themselves by now, excellent quality and there is no reason why this story should affect the brand, at least the cosmetics side.

I am just thinking that certain people ie Anna Wintour would step back from this chaotic family.

Cherrytree86 · 21/01/2026 12:48

Branster · 21/01/2026 12:43

The products speak for themselves by now, excellent quality and there is no reason why this story should affect the brand, at least the cosmetics side.

@GrethaGreen

if I liked the eyeliners or whatever from her brand (which tbf I have heard are excellent) I wouldn’t give a shit about the Instagram posts etc and would just keep buying them.

TeaRoseTallulah · 21/01/2026 12:51

Kingscallops · 21/01/2026 12:18

Hi Tea. Do you mind if I PM you on another matter, about a medical thread we spoke on x

Sure 😊

mumofoneAloneandwell · 21/01/2026 12:52

i wonder, what would you all advise, if you were their pr?

I would say to own it. Things aren’t good between the family but you want to improve things.

I think that total ignorance and a pretend image that everything is fine won’t work here

I’m reminded of beyonce saying ‘of course some shit goes down when it’s a billion dollars on the elevator’ 😂

i am totally in agreement with Brooklyn but I will say that the way social media is coming for Victoria, and not david is a bit sexist imo!

theyre both equally terrible 🙃. How many women is David sleeping with?? I feel like Victoria is too rigid to be having affairs

mumofoneAloneandwell · 21/01/2026 12:52

GrethaGreen · 21/01/2026 12:47

I am just thinking that certain people ie Anna Wintour would step back from this chaotic family.

Hard agree, this will really damage her fashion brand sorry

they’re messy

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