To feel very sorry for Vicky B

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Yes, we don’t know the full story, but so many things being said about the dance story being untrue-they had already had their dance, she’d also danced with her father, Vb was reportedly called onto the stage by her friend, Marc A and was shy to do so. She comes across as a very awkward, sad person, David seems to dislike her and speak down to her. I can imagine she must be devastated and so humiliated by this. No matter the issues, Brooklyn shouldn’t have issued the problems publicly.
I know a lot about issues with Mil’s but my instinct tells me that this could be her and perhaps she has been difficult from the start. She doesn’t have a reputation for being a nice person at all, even before all this and it’s been said there may have been similar situations in the past with an ex of hers.
In comparison, I’ve never seen anyone say a bad word about Vb, the opposite in fact, she seems to have a great relationship with all her other children and the partners, plus a good relationship with Db’s family
She just must feel so devastated and humiliated, your first born that you held in your arms as a baby.

All so sad

Someone has, 2 people in fact, a DJ and his husband who were there. The husband said that Brooklyn is telling the truth about the inappropriate dancing.

Bit of selective female solidarity going on there!

What is 'inappropriate dancing'?

Isn't it?

With the Beckhams and their PR machine, I'm suspicious of threads like these. I'd guess Brooklyn wanted to hit her where it hurt; her reputation. Fair play to him

On the contrary, I grew up with an alcoholic, neglectful mother and father (in what would be considered a 'poor' home) and went NC with my mum, and I think good for him, these things aren't easier if you're rich or poor. I'd never tell someone telling me they were abused that they weren't just because of who their parents are and the circumstances you grew up in.

I'm just waiting for people to start talking about David's affairs. They can't get into the mainstream press but they are quite wild.

The idea this dance was worst experience of his life…No words.

I think in some ways it might even make it harder. Yes, if course hes had a very comfortable life, but he knows that and despite all that he still cant "make" himself happy. That in itself if quite hard to live with.

And all the stuff about him being talentless/never had a proper job. In a world where image has been everything since the day he was born, don't you think he'd feel that?

It's a shame he hasn't been able to do more with his privedge, but I understand why he hasn't.

how do you know about them?

@AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta !! I was doing so well on my social media hiatus 😂😂😂 but I was lured back by this news that urgently required discussing 😂

more celeb gossip in 2026! 🍾🍾

The wedding outfit was a bit bride like.
MIL gown competition.
You can see in every pic that Vic is front row, silly pout, gently blocking anyone around her.

Or study their chosen craft from the bottom up.
Poor sod was on a hiding to nothing with the photography..he didn't have clue.

Apparently she ate Brooklyn's last packet of cheese and onion crisps. He'd been waiting to eat those all week!!

Interesting that’s Beckhams PR and defenders seem to be focusing on tiny details to disprove like the dress and how long it took, but are ignoring stuff like calling him ‘evil’ the night before his wedding, and trying to force him to sign away his name to them in the upcoming weeks to his nuptials.

I'm not at all a fan of VB or David B or, maybe I should say, indifferent. Don't like the whole influencer thing.

But it's definitely the case that certain children see the world very differently, and more negatively. Especially those with an anxious/depressive disposition.

I have two kids and one (16) is like this. When anxious/stressed the most awful words and accusations come out of their mouth. I'm not proud but I've said 'you're horrible' as what he's said has been atrociously horrible. I do know that sometimes it's probably due to being in what I call a 'stress bubble'. I don't think they have any recollection of this afterwards. Often uses expressions such as 'you don't do anything for me, you don't love me', when we are very, very close and I do a lot for them. They've calmed down lately and, as I say, they can be incredibly loving and huggy.

But it's a bit of threading around egg shells. Sometimes nowadays - not talking about physical/sexual/serious abuse here - but in today's world there is so much about 'boundaries', 'what my parent said' and youngsters now look to TikTok and SM and see 'perfection'. I guess most of our childhoods could be seen as lacking in comparison.

Families do (maybe not all, but many) have different opinions, shout, say awful things very occasionally, but then kiss and make up (metaphorically!). But that doesn't seem to be the case anymore.

Often I find the people that go NC - again not all but it's such a growing phenomenon - can't live in the grey zone, it's all black and white. I do wonder whether more are on the anxious/depressive spectrum and ND?

Children are not always right. Children don't always remember things correctly either. Kids can be 'narcissists' too. Often the people I've met who have gone NC could be described as rather self-centered too. The ones I've met are very concerned about their image.

Again not all but we are seeing a tsunami of people going NC. I think that's cruel.

Unable to say, but they are generally well known amongst the media circuit. The Beckhams have similar control of the mainstream press to the Royals. If they don't want stuff to come out, they can normally stop it.

Vicky B😂
My instinct tells me 😂😂

Your post is too funny.

No not sorry for Vicky B. She seems ruthless.

But at the same time a lot of people have anxiety and depression BECAUSE of their upbringing (of course, not saying ALL).

are you on the media circuit then?? there seem to be a lot of people on here who have inside knowledge but can't say any more than - "oooohhhhh........ I know something you don't know & I can't tell you but I can tell you I know because I am on the inside"

Rebecca loos involving herself 😂😂😂

I would leave it if I were her tbh

So you love Trump and Vicky B, fascinating.

I saw one TikTok of her at a premiere next to Brooklyn and Nicola, will see if I can link it

Yes there are lots of children who grow up in awful circumstances, getting physically, verbally (and I don't btw think someone saying' you're evil' without context is verbal abuse) and sexually abused.

But often, in truth there is generally a disposition there. You can in many cases notice it from when they're babies. So in a sense, nature influences nurture - in that the kid may be more difficult to deal with, inflexible etc etc which leads to more stress in the family or in the mother.

That's why it's often so unfathomable as the other siblings - not talking Beckhams here specifically - can't reconcile the person going NC with what they saw or experienced.

Another typical feature of people with anxiety/depression - not all! - is they have an external locus of control. That is to say, they see their lives as influenced more by external events rather than their own actions.

The Beckhams’ PR is working overtime to argue against the minor details but, if you actually read the posts of people who know / knew the Beckhams, they’re all essentially saying the same things.