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‘sober curious’, have a day off…

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ThatsVertigo · 07/01/2026 12:37

I’ve just seen an acquaintance post an instagram story labelling themselves as ‘sober curious’ and encouraging people to ask them questions and others to reassess their relationship with alcohol. I’m all for them making changes that make them happier and healthier, but the positioning of the whole thing just made me roll my eyes, not everything needs a label. And if you need to label yourself as ‘sober curious’ in order to cut back then maybe you’re avoiding a more accurate label ‘alcoholic’.

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BluntAzureDreamer · 08/01/2026 17:32

JLou08 · 08/01/2026 11:55

It does sound ridiculous but it also gets attention and will likely lead to more people considering the risks with alcohol.

Agree. The fact this is even being discussed is great IMO. Sober curious wouldn't have been a 'thing' 10 years ago.

X123x321X · 08/01/2026 21:00

PatChaunceysFruitCake · 07/01/2026 20:07

YANBU. I have an acquaintance who is always posting ‘three years sober’ etc as though she was an alcoholic who has genuinely overcome addiction to get where she is.

In reality she just quit the odd glass of wine she used to enjoy.

No one cares whether she drinks or not and all these ‘3 years sober’ posts make a mockery of people who have really struggled with alcohol.

I'm more than a week sober. I have't had a drink since New Year's Eve. Time to fall off the wagon!

Livpool · 08/01/2026 21:43

Crunchymum · 07/01/2026 13:07

Does it mean:

Sober curious = so rarely sober they are curious to know what it feels like 😂

Ha exactly!

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