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She's dying isn't she?

610 replies

McSteamyorMcdreamy · 07/11/2025 23:15

Mum discharged herself from hospital today.

Hiatus hernia. She can't eat or drink anything. Literally throws it straight back up.

Can't walk because her lower back is buggered.

UTI in blood. Been given antibiotics but nothing seems to be giving her a boost.

Sat in a sodding chair for 36 hours at A&E. Not slept for at least 48. Said she just wanted to go home.

I'm really scared 😭

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OP posts:
WhyCantThingsJustBeEasy · 21/11/2025 12:21

So very sorry for your loss @McSteamyorMcdreamy Sending love and strength to you and your family ❤️ x

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 21/11/2025 12:23

I'm glad you were all able to be with her when she died, and that it was peaceful.
I'm shaking my head at the way your mother was treated, though.

Amiable · 21/11/2025 12:27

So very sorry for your loss

LardoBurrows · 21/11/2025 12:47

Heartbreaking, I'm so sorry Op.

shhblackbag · 21/11/2025 13:16

McSteamyorMcdreamy · 21/11/2025 02:37

My beautiful mummy passed away at 2am.

Surrounded by her husband and 3 children.

She looks so peaceful. 💔

I'm very sorry for all of you.

WatchingTVagain · 21/11/2025 13:16

I'm so sorry for your loss. Take whatever comfort you can in the fact she was surrounded by love x

Laffydaffy · 21/11/2025 13:31

So very, very sorry 💐

TeatimeForTheSoul · 21/11/2025 13:47

I’m so sorry for your loss 💐

Lilacsilver · 21/11/2025 14:00

I'm so very sorry for your loss.
So dreadfully sudden.

TamarindCottage · 21/11/2025 14:04

I have no words other than I am sorry 💐

raspberrieswithchocolate · 21/11/2025 14:08

I'm so sorry that you and your family have lost your mother💐

PluckyChancer · 21/11/2025 14:31

I’m so very sorry for your loss. Sending you big hugs to help you keep going. ❤️

Zippymonkey · 21/11/2025 14:42

I’m so sorry to hear your update op. Deepest condolences to you all

Uricon2 · 21/11/2025 14:43

Sending you thoughts and strength.

ADHDQueen · 21/11/2025 15:44

Im so sorry to hear your heartbreaking news. 💔 Much love and support from all us random women on the Internet. 🫂

Aluna · 21/11/2025 15:49

I’m so sorry OP, my heart goes out to you. 💐

clarepetal · 21/11/2025 16:14

Am so sorry. Xxx

MrsLizzieDarcy · 21/11/2025 16:58

I'm so very sorry for your loss OP.

Go easy on yourself - this will knock you for 6 in the coming days when the adrenaline crashes.

I'm glad your Mum was peaceful at the end Flowers

Bluebuddha10 · 21/11/2025 17:33

So sorry for your loss x

MissFancyDay · 21/11/2025 17:39

So sorry OP 💐Was so hoping for a better outcome for your family and Mum. All the best.

anon15830201174585920220384848320204738229 · 21/11/2025 17:56

I’m so sorry op x

AdoraBell · 21/11/2025 20:27

So sorry for your loss 💐

Lookingforthecoffeerevels · 21/11/2025 22:07

Sending you hugs OP. So sorry for your sudden loss 💔

Bobbysmumma · 21/11/2025 22:11

Heartbroken for you and your family OP. So sorry for your loss

Smiler168 · 21/11/2025 22:48

So sorry for your loss

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