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She's dying isn't she?

610 replies

McSteamyorMcdreamy · 07/11/2025 23:15

Mum discharged herself from hospital today.

Hiatus hernia. She can't eat or drink anything. Literally throws it straight back up.

Can't walk because her lower back is buggered.

UTI in blood. Been given antibiotics but nothing seems to be giving her a boost.

Sat in a sodding chair for 36 hours at A&E. Not slept for at least 48. Said she just wanted to go home.

I'm really scared 😭

MNHQ EDIT to gently suggest that MNers new to this thread take the time to read through all of the OP's posts before answering

OP posts:
XWKD · 21/11/2025 02:22

I'm so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss. 💔

McSteamyorMcdreamy · 21/11/2025 02:37

My beautiful mummy passed away at 2am.

Surrounded by her husband and 3 children.

She looks so peaceful. 💔

OP posts:
Willowpuss · 21/11/2025 02:47

So sorry for your loss xxx

Tarkan · 21/11/2025 03:06

I’m so sorry @McSteamyorMcdreamy

Sending lots of love and hugs.

MethusalahsMum · 21/11/2025 03:06

I'm sorry for your loss.
May she rest in peace.

XWKD · 21/11/2025 03:13

Her love will always be with you. 💔

JayJayj · 21/11/2025 03:41

I’ve been thinking about you often from when you first posted. I’m so incredibly sorry. I sending strength, love, support.

KellsBells7 · 21/11/2025 04:36

I’m so so sorry.

LokiDoki75 · 21/11/2025 05:36

So sorry for your loss xxxx

NewAgeNewMe · 21/11/2025 05:59

So sorry that you have all had to go through this. 💐💐

ButWhysTheRumGone · 21/11/2025 06:07

I’m so sorry for the loss of your lovely mum. I was following your thread and hoping for her to get well then saw your update. Try to take good care of yourself and I hope you manage to get some sleep. I hope this thread can give you some support x

marriednotdead · 21/11/2025 06:08

My sincere condolences to you and your family, you’ve been through so much.
. May you find comfort in the memories of your mum and the knowledge that you were able to all be with her in the end 🌺

Kate8889 · 21/11/2025 06:14

So sorry for your loss, big hugs to you and yours

LoudSnoringDog · 21/11/2025 06:22

Sorry for your loss. X

Nefrititi · 21/11/2025 06:25

McSteamyorMcdreamy · 21/11/2025 02:37

My beautiful mummy passed away at 2am.

Surrounded by her husband and 3 children.

She looks so peaceful. 💔

I am so so sorry, thinking of you all ♥️

MelodiousMoo · 21/11/2025 06:26

McSteamyorMcdreamy · 20/11/2025 23:25

Hearing my 36yo, 6ft 7in, 18st brother shouting "mum wake up"

Broken 💔

💔💔💔💔 sending love xxx

MelodiousMoo · 21/11/2025 06:28

McSteamyorMcdreamy · 21/11/2025 02:37

My beautiful mummy passed away at 2am.

Surrounded by her husband and 3 children.

She looks so peaceful. 💔

I am so sorry. You sound like the loveliest close family. I am glad you were all together at the end. What a truly horrific week for you. Wishing you all the strength in the world. If you ever feel like sharing any stories about your wonderful mum, please do so if it helps. She sounds incredible xx

Everythingwillbeokeventually44 · 21/11/2025 06:33

So sorry for your loss 💔 love and thoughts are with you & your family x

cannynotsay · 21/11/2025 07:06

I am so sorry for your loss xx

FlamingoQueen · 21/11/2025 07:08

I am so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs x

Iwantanapnow · 21/11/2025 07:15

So so sorry for your loss

and your story resonates as my dear mum was also let down badly by the hospital. I still miss her today 7 years later

Sending love

Greymalkin12 · 21/11/2025 07:17

So sorry for your loss x

Deedeebob · 21/11/2025 07:18

I’m so sorry OP. Sending love ❤️

MrsOvertonsWindow · 21/11/2025 07:19

So very sorry for your loss. You did the best that you could for your Mum. xx

Mumof2heroes · 21/11/2025 07:28

Oh OP I'm so very sorry. You knew all along how serious it was. I'm so glad you have family around you. Be kind to yourself in the coming weeks and months 💐