Husbands chastity cage

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I recently found a metal chastity cage (for a males anatomy) in my husbands cupboard. Obviously a bit of a shock.

For background - marriage isn't good, no sex for over 2 years, separate beds, talk of separating. Stayed together because of the kids tbh. I wouldn't be surprised if he was getting it elsewhere tbh. But a .... cage!? Wtf...

What would u think? I don't want to tell him I've found it (yet)

Oh 🤣🤣

Yeah I have no idea what one of those is either lol. I'm obviously very vanilla too. Maybe that's why my husband has a penis cage 🤷‍♀️

Is that because he lost the key, or forgot the combination. Easily done……

Yes, that's exactly what it's used for! 😂

🤣 very good 👏

Time to smear it with some of this 👇

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Just told my husband, and his face was a picture and he just stared and then looked mortified said "why?" I replied I don't know, why do men use penis cages? He said he doesn't know 😆 poor bloke only brought me a cuppa tea in bed 😆

Love this 😆

Or maybe some paprika on the penis cage🌶 so it can be a chilli willy 🔥 🍆 😆 spicy stuff!

Go on, be a devil - Google it! You know you want to!
Rather eye-catching, with a dinky little padlock.

I thought they only had chastity belts for women. And that was in the time of the Crusades!!
Why not pretend you don't know what it is and ask him?
After all it was in the wardrobe.
Why on earth he needs one I can't imagine .

poor man.

That won't make a difference, his Dom or Master could tell him to do that anyway, and if he tells them his wife put chilli power on his chastity belt, they will chastise him and tell him to put more chilli powder.
Ops best move is to get ducks in a row.

Femmedomme, dominatrix, he’s paying for humiliation

How on earth does that...come up in conversation?

They're used in kink relationships. I suppose he could be in a kinky relationship with a woman, but it's more likely to be used in a gay one. Sorry, OP. Anyway, maybe finding it's a gift, so that you can get your sucks in a row re. a possible divorce.

Is it a gay cage, with an anal ball?

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Even if not, it must be for gay activities, because if he was doing this with a woman, she would be the dominatrice and she would keep the cage. A sub wouldn't have it.

Take a photo of his kink. Look for his fetlife account (he will have one). Use the information for a better divorce settlement.

I’m a petty B… I would put a photo of it on FB and insta and share with all mutual friends and family (his especially) asking if anyone knows what this thing is that you found in DH’s cupboard.

NO she is talking about the douche bulb.

Ah I have learnt a whole lot more today.
Not stuff I wanted to know but certainly MN is educational.

I don't think it will make any difference to a settlement. Adultery of any type generally doesn't. It's not the Middle Ages anymore and people aren't penalised for adultery in divorces, or for having kinks in said adultery.

I looked at a pic on Amazon. Grim.

When I get chatting with other dog walkers we don't usually get much deeper than "What's his/her name and how old are they?" How did you get to chastity cages?

To answer the 'could friends/a friend have bought it as a joke'..

In theory, yes - friends and I did, for laughs, for 'you should try this, I liked it' etc (thats both male and female friends and a variety of toys)...

Key point - we were all in our late teens, early twenties, none of us married, all of us broadly into trying stuff out (nothing really wild mind..) either single, or with like minded partners. None of this was secretive or behind anyones backs.

Even if he bought it himself, doesn't mean he's gay or cheating - I do know guys who just get a kick from knowing they're walking around wearing something (or not wearing something) and only they know. I also know women who do the same.

The fact he can't talk to you, when pushed to talk, everything is your fault, you have no sexual relationship and don't now want one with him... is much more significant and important than when/where/why/how he got a cock cage.

Record your conversation when you get him to admit it. Then remind him you have a recording of him admitting he's a sly pervert who was hiding it from you if he kicks up any sort of fuss when you divorce him.

Weird pervy men like the OPs husband absolutely hate being outed. So yep, it will make him more compliant - as he should be since he's a liar and a creep and is completely at fault here.