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Rip the flags down! A call for action!

470 replies

Ilovemychocolate · 25/08/2025 18:46

The sudden appearance of the English flag hung on lamp posts, railings etc has absolutely sickened me, and my dd.
I am proud to be British, but the misappropriation of the flag by thugs, intending to intimidate, is absolutely not acceptable in a diverse society.
So tonight myself and my adult dd ripped them down in our area, and tomorrow we will be going on a flag hunt, to rip down any more we find.
I would strongly urge those of you that feel the same way, to also remove them, as long as you feel safe and comfortable to do it.
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MyNameIsX · 26/08/2025 14:48

Ilovemychocolate · 26/08/2025 12:47

Have your little laugh.
You won’t be laughing if Reform get in.

Speak for yourself.

cardibach · 26/08/2025 14:57

Verv · 26/08/2025 14:09

I think if they get in, it’s because the left has enabled it hand over fist with their behaviour.
Your escapade being a prime example of the tolerance that they preach while being utterly intolerant themselves.
I haven’t played a part in that, but you have, so I’ll probably laugh harder than you think.

Whatever Labour, Tories or anyone else does, voting for a misogynistic, racist party is never the only (or even best) option. If reform gets in it will be purely on those who voted for it. You don’t get to blame anyone else and say they made you do it.

WhereIsMyJumper · 26/08/2025 15:02

JFC get a hobby

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 15:24

I genuinely dont understand the hatred towards the british flag by british people. I understand the feelings of racism it leads to but why are we not allowed to stand up for our culture and beliefs? I'm all for integration of people struggling into our society but when we have people who dont want to integrate with us are we supposed to accept that and let the fabric of our society change to fit their norms? I dont understand how females can be so ignorant of the societal norms these people will bring. We fought and still fight for womens rights yet the people you seek to protect will destroy that.

Verv · 26/08/2025 15:27

cardibach · 26/08/2025 14:57

Whatever Labour, Tories or anyone else does, voting for a misogynistic, racist party is never the only (or even best) option. If reform gets in it will be purely on those who voted for it. You don’t get to blame anyone else and say they made you do it.

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Labour are utterly misogynistic with a long history of antisemitism so best wind in that pointy finger.

I have absolutely zero intention of voting for Reform. Absolutely hate them. But I hate the left for making them appear like a viable option.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/08/2025 15:31

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 15:24

I genuinely dont understand the hatred towards the british flag by british people. I understand the feelings of racism it leads to but why are we not allowed to stand up for our culture and beliefs? I'm all for integration of people struggling into our society but when we have people who dont want to integrate with us are we supposed to accept that and let the fabric of our society change to fit their norms? I dont understand how females can be so ignorant of the societal norms these people will bring. We fought and still fight for womens rights yet the people you seek to protect will destroy that.

What, you mean like Nigel Farage, tinkering around the edges of abortion debate because it pleases the US organisations who fund him?

Internationalvelvets · 26/08/2025 15:32

Let people have their flags. The absolute worst thing that anyone can do is to rip them down. It plays into the hands of the far right. Would you go to Wales and remove a Welsh flag? I'm guessing not.
Why shouldn't an English person or British person be allowed to fly the flag?
I don't think I've ever worn a flag of any nation and I certainly won't be going along with this "campaign".
The children go back to school next week and this will all be over.

exasperatedflatmate · 26/08/2025 15:36

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 15:24

I genuinely dont understand the hatred towards the british flag by british people. I understand the feelings of racism it leads to but why are we not allowed to stand up for our culture and beliefs? I'm all for integration of people struggling into our society but when we have people who dont want to integrate with us are we supposed to accept that and let the fabric of our society change to fit their norms? I dont understand how females can be so ignorant of the societal norms these people will bring. We fought and still fight for womens rights yet the people you seek to protect will destroy that.

i understand there all kinds of men who'd rather I fitted a particular template and would prefer I didn't have the rights I have. Just look at Trump and the christian conservatives in the US. I grew up in and now live in a very white area of the UK, and can assure you that from the age of 12 (yes, I remember the first time), I've had men making comments and worse. I'm obviously not unusual. But to make out that this a problem visited on us by immigrants (because that's what you're saying isn't it?) is naive in the extreme.
My daughter had a stalker. He was white British. Fortunately the police took it seriously and 'had a word'. It's men. Full stop. Off all shapes and colours. Get real.

And as for my flag. I don't hate it. I love seeing it fluttering on special occasions. But I am sad it's been hijacked in this reductive way.

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 15:38

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/08/2025 15:31

What, you mean like Nigel Farage, tinkering around the edges of abortion debate because it pleases the US organisations who fund him?

I'm not talking about that. That's an entirely separate issue

JLou08 · 26/08/2025 15:39

This is so, so stupid. You're playing into their hands. Now the racists can shout about how they aren't allowed to fly their own flag and they will get people joining them and believing their narrative that we can't fly flags because the country is being taken over and immigration is a huge issue we need to fear.
You are part of the problem. Well done on contributing to more division.

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 15:39

exasperatedflatmate · 26/08/2025 15:36

i understand there all kinds of men who'd rather I fitted a particular template and would prefer I didn't have the rights I have. Just look at Trump and the christian conservatives in the US. I grew up in and now live in a very white area of the UK, and can assure you that from the age of 12 (yes, I remember the first time), I've had men making comments and worse. I'm obviously not unusual. But to make out that this a problem visited on us by immigrants (because that's what you're saying isn't it?) is naive in the extreme.
My daughter had a stalker. He was white British. Fortunately the police took it seriously and 'had a word'. It's men. Full stop. Off all shapes and colours. Get real.

And as for my flag. I don't hate it. I love seeing it fluttering on special occasions. But I am sad it's been hijacked in this reductive way.

Really appreciate that view, thank you

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/08/2025 15:43

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 15:38

I'm not talking about that. That's an entirely separate issue

I'm sorry, I thought you were worried about the erosion of women's rights. My mistake.

JLou08 · 26/08/2025 15:44

Dontletthebedbugsbite2 · 25/08/2025 18:52

Why? I'm in Scotland and we have flags everywhere. Are English people not allowed to fly the English flag? Genuinely curious. If you ripped down a flag in another country you could face jail time.

Reform told people we weren't allowed to fly them because of Muslims in the country, which was not true.
Reform got some politicians in power and said we will start flying the flags.
Idiots like this go around ripping down flags and complaining about them.
Another big win for Reform, their made up story that people can't fly their own flag is now an actual reality, we are divided and arguing over flags.

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 15:48

The biggest issue is human rights, women have fought for years to get a voice. Are we supposed to sit back and let that go? Who will fight for us when we allow men who think we are worth nothing to take over

SleeplessInWherever · 26/08/2025 15:52

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 15:48

The biggest issue is human rights, women have fought for years to get a voice. Are we supposed to sit back and let that go? Who will fight for us when we allow men who think we are worth nothing to take over

Don’t tell me, please, that you actually feel protected by Farage, Robinson, people of similar ilk.

Nobody is taking over, we do not live under Sharia Law.

WhereIsMyJumper · 26/08/2025 15:53

JLou08 · 26/08/2025 15:44

Reform told people we weren't allowed to fly them because of Muslims in the country, which was not true.
Reform got some politicians in power and said we will start flying the flags.
Idiots like this go around ripping down flags and complaining about them.
Another big win for Reform, their made up story that people can't fly their own flag is now an actual reality, we are divided and arguing over flags.

Another big win for Reform, their made up story that people can't fly their own flag is now an actual reality, we are divided and arguing over flags

This is a very good point

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 16:08

SleeplessInWherever · 26/08/2025 15:52

Don’t tell me, please, that you actually feel protected by Farage, Robinson, people of similar ilk.

Nobody is taking over, we do not live under Sharia Law.

Be careful what you ask for. This country is changing dramatically, you may get your wish in a few years.
And for people asking no I dont want this nut job ideology but am passionate about womens rights

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 16:09

Be careful what you ask for. This country is changing dramatically, you may get your wish in a few years.
And for people asking no I dont want this nut job ideology but am passionate about womens rights

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 16:10

SleeplessInWherever · 26/08/2025 15:52

Don’t tell me, please, that you actually feel protected by Farage, Robinson, people of similar ilk.

Nobody is taking over, we do not live under Sharia Law.

Out of interest who do you feel protects your rights at the moment?

Dontletthebedbugsbite2 · 26/08/2025 16:14

AgnesX · 26/08/2025 10:50

I have a low tolerance level for disgenuous behaviour.

LOL ok. I asked because it is something I don't know about. Oh and maybe learn how to spell properly before patronising people.

SleeplessInWherever · 26/08/2025 16:14

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 16:08

Be careful what you ask for. This country is changing dramatically, you may get your wish in a few years.
And for people asking no I dont want this nut job ideology but am passionate about womens rights

My wish and asks? I didn’t say I was wishing for being taken over by Sharia Law, so not sure where you’ve got that from.

If you’re passionate about women’s rights, try focussing on our own, homegrown, rapists and murderers, they’ll keep you busy.

I would feel certifiably more safe as a woman under any politician rather than Farage. Any.

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 16:22

If you read my old posts you would see I've been subject to famial abuse.
I'm here talking about womens rights.

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 16:24

SleeplessInWherever · 26/08/2025 16:14

My wish and asks? I didn’t say I was wishing for being taken over by Sharia Law, so not sure where you’ve got that from.

If you’re passionate about women’s rights, try focussing on our own, homegrown, rapists and murderers, they’ll keep you busy.

I would feel certifiably more safe as a woman under any politician rather than Farage. Any.

And surely if we have own homegrown rapists to defend against we shouldn't be allowing people who dont understand that the rape of of child is wrong?

SleeplessInWherever · 26/08/2025 17:00

OddTrek38 · 26/08/2025 16:24

And surely if we have own homegrown rapists to defend against we shouldn't be allowing people who dont understand that the rape of of child is wrong?

That is a humongous generalisation, and I think you know it is.