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DH annoyed because I didn’t give him his dinner first?

107 replies

Doritosandchoc · 17/07/2025 21:54

My brother popped in this evening he wanted some help with prepping for his job interview. I was dishing up dinner everyone was upstairs my brother was in the kitchen with me. DC then had diarrhoea in the downstairs toilet so I just gave my brother that plate whilst I attended to poo-gate. DH came downstairs whilst my brother was eating and I was cleaning up poo and gave me the most deadly stare. I said to him do you want your dinner now as sometimes he likes to have it later. He said I should have had mine first! He’s still going on about it!

OP posts:
Scoobydoobydoo1234 · 17/07/2025 21:56

what a big baby he is

CaptainFuture · 17/07/2025 21:57

What stops him from plating up his own food?!

Dweetfidilove · 17/07/2025 21:57

Aaaawww. Is he the man of the house type 🙃?

dementedpixie · 17/07/2025 21:57

Was he incapable of putting his own food on his plate?

2025ismybestyear · 17/07/2025 21:58

Feed himself before bothering it check if his child is okay. Lovely man you have there.

Merryoldgoat · 17/07/2025 21:58

How do men like this attract women in the first place?

FinallyHere · 17/07/2025 21:58

What stops him cooking, serving himself oh yes, and taking his turn cleaning up the poo-nami

Dartmoorcheffy · 17/07/2025 21:58

Does he have a problem with using his own arms?

Theunamedcat · 17/07/2025 21:58

Did he want you to plate him up with dirty hands? I mean you literally had your hands full of shit

GettingFestiveNow · 17/07/2025 21:59

If he wants to dictate the plating order he needs to cook it.

GettingFestiveNow · 17/07/2025 21:59

And I believe it is generally considered polite to serve guests first. Does he often make up random rubbish to have a go at you for?

Poppins21 · 17/07/2025 21:59

Merryoldgoat · 17/07/2025 21:58

How do men like this attract women in the first place?

This is spot on! A whiny whinge bag is not much of a turn on. A grown adult having a strop like a toddler.

candycane222 · 17/07/2025 22:00

Oh dear. How pathetic and nasty. Does he usually treat everyone around him as his inferior staff to lick his boots and be bossed around by him, or is he just made very insecure by your brother?

I can't believe someone who can act with such blatant unreasonableness can be a great husband the reat of the time.

Poor you. You do not have to put up with this: he is certainly in breach of any vows he made to honour you.

Sally2791 · 17/07/2025 22:00

Yet another dick excuse for a man

Shesellsseashellsnotinmystreet · 17/07/2025 22:01

Just wow.
Isn't he a catch?

SpinachSpinachMoreSpinach · 17/07/2025 22:01

Is this typical of the way he talks to you?

if so you have a problem.

PsychoHotSauce · 17/07/2025 22:05

Merryoldgoat · 17/07/2025 21:58

How do men like this attract women in the first place?

His massive dick is the stuff dreams are made of but gets in the way and is heavy and cumbersome, so OP has to plate up his meals. Apparently.

Devianinc · 17/07/2025 22:05

I’d bet a million dollars he didn’t act like this when they were dating. I guess that men think when they marry women they become slaves. It’s really unbelievable that in this day and age that this still happens. All I can say is yuck.

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 17/07/2025 22:06

Get rid. He sounds like a total pig.

Simbaonedaythiswillallbeyours · 17/07/2025 22:07

Is his willy so huge it prevents him getting near the plates or stove?

Good lord, what a giant baby.

IhadaStripeyDeckchair · 17/07/2025 22:10

I'd tell him the best way for him to get his dinner first (& when he wants it) is to cook it himself.

pizzaHeart · 17/07/2025 22:16

WTF???
Just out of curiosity did he give you a reason why?

LurkyMcLurkinson · 17/07/2025 22:17

He sounds vile? Is he typically controlling?

Ibelievetheworldisburningtotheground · 17/07/2025 22:19

If this is serious, he's an absolute arse. Imagine this isn't the only way he expresses this. What do you find attractive about him?

Terrribletwos · 17/07/2025 22:20

Yet another AI post, amongst so many.....yawn.

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