DH annoyed because I didn’t give him his dinner first?

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My brother popped in this evening he wanted some help with prepping for his job interview. I was dishing up dinner everyone was upstairs my brother was in the kitchen with me. DC then had diarrhoea in the downstairs toilet so I just gave my brother that plate whilst I attended to poo-gate. DH came downstairs whilst my brother was eating and I was cleaning up poo and gave me the most deadly stare. I said to him do you want your dinner now as sometimes he likes to have it later. He said I should have had mine first! He’s still going on about it!

Mr Hunter Gatherer not happy.
Fred Flintstone is less of a prat.

I'd have been asking him were his arms painted on.

I cook usually I love cooking but my husband generally serves he always makes sure that DS and I'm served before him he always takes last.

What did he expect?

For you to leave your child covered in poo so as to serve him?
For you to serve him with pooey hands?
Or to give him the first plate in preference to a guest, leaving the guest to watch him eat?

I can’t understand his thought process!

And why couldn’t he serve himself? Or else deal with the poo?

What an arsehole.

Probably hides the moaning until she’s sucked in

So the food was already cooked and he's moaning that you didn't prioritise putting some on a plate for him over dealing with a poonami?

LTB for his own good. He needs to learn some basic life skills.

Suspect it had more to do with her feeding her brother over him.

In his head he is the most important man in her life, but she fed her brother first. Pathetic attempt at Alpha-ing and ironically, proving his Beta status.

Oh look! Another goady post where the OP doesn't return.

Why would he expect you to make him a plate at all? He is an adult.

do you really want your children growing up thinking this kind of sexism is acceptable?

I'm constantly surprised by how many women on here are married to men who literally don't know how to wipe their own arses, and here we have a woman married to a man who doesn't know who to use a spoon to put food on a plate.

He is grim OP. It's lovely you have such a good relationship with your brother. Your partner is a massive red flag, seems like he is getting the hump because you served another man before him. Next time he can sort the poop

So he’s a useless shit and then moans at you after. If you were dishing up and helping your brother I don’t understand why didn’t he deal with your child in the bathroom? But then clearly he’s a lazy rude fuck. How dare he treat you like this! I’d stop cooking for him.

Why do so many men seem to be so utterly useless on here?

I’m in shock. How unattractive. I hope your husband works on himself a lot, for your sake.

Why isn’t he capable of dishing up his own dinner whilst you deal with the kid

How do you know, so I don’t waste my time?

Yet another 1 post and run thread. I'm not prepared to comment further until op comes back.

On what basis are you saying it’s AI?

What a total and utter arsehole you are married to. Lazy, over entitled pig. Unless he thinks you fancy his brother maybe?

It doesn't look like AI, except maybe the hyphen in poo-gate, but people do use hyphens, semi colons, colons and em dashes in real life too.

On this site, it is becoming a bit of a fixation that anything which is reasonably grammatically sound must be AI, real posts must have typos and be ungrammatical.

People are saying it's AI, I believe, because the OP didn't come back, which is another matter.

And people wonder why I have zero interest in ever living with a man again.....

Wow. What an entitled arsehole. I’d always serve a guest in my home before any of the family members. You were sorting out your DC too, what the hell was he doing to help prepare dinner? I’d tell him to get lost, for good.

Honestly territorial stuff like this would completely go over my head, it would never occur to me to feed the men in the household first over guests.

Seriously???
Either he plates his own food (and yours) or he cleans the poo!!
what a dickhead. And yes it’s polite to serve guests first regardless.