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Prince Harry and Brooklyn Beckham

281 replies

kindnessforthewin · 04/05/2025 20:33

Not a good look for our British families

The Beckhams’ once-flawless brand and PR machine have finally taken a dent.

Will Brooklyn be tempted to write a tell all or speak out, like Harry? Surely the Beckhams have their own skeletons, and you can bet the media will bait Brooklyn until he cracks.

Makes me feel somewhat better about my own dysfunctional family.

I feel for David though, his 50th will have been overshadowed by his son. Give, give, give and in return their first born cannot put differences aside to attend.

AIBU to think that parents who give their kids everything just end up creating entitled brats who are so detached from reality, add little to society and throw it all back in their poor parents faces. should there not be some kind of study, research or guidance on how to stop this happening. The world has enough problems.

OP posts:
Bambamhoohoo · 05/05/2025 16:23

ShadesOfPemberley · 05/05/2025 15:02

Missing the point of the thread but how on earth do the beckhams square their lifestyle with their 13 year old daughters schooling?! She’s definitely at a school in london (I know which one and she’s def still there) but one of those (many) parties was mid-week in the Cotswolds… ok she could dash there in a fast car post-school but how on earth do you turn up on time and vaguely rested the next morning??! If her parents don’t mind then surely the school would mind as it must undermine them with other parents wanting to take little Josie out for holidays etc?

I realise I’m over thinking this 🤣 but DD is same age and I can’t imagine managing to live this lifestyle!

I wonder this too- I guess both Victoria and David must’ve been very used to travelling and “performing” after so maybe it is something they’ve got the children used to.

there were always rumours that the boys had been quietly managed out of a few schools for not being academic enough though.

StarTwirl · 05/05/2025 16:32

I’m pretty sure Brooklyn would have wished his dad a happy birthday privately.

vintagecrow · 05/05/2025 16:32

CompletelyFlopped · 05/05/2025 09:45

I.would imagine Brooklyn has had to experience growing up with two narcissistic parents, one of whom as a chronic and enduring eating disorder (victoria has admitted she has eaten the same dinner every single day for over twenty years), and has been thrown in the spotlight posing for family pictures.etc... to meet his parents vanity needs, from.a.v young age.

He's probably had enough. Has his own.life and own shit going on and didn't want to have to be an accessory for his parents by attending his dad's birthday bash.

I.dont.think the differencea.are.beyond reconciliation etc.. as long as Becks and posh give him some.space.

But it is likely v hard having the parents he's had.

I have little sympathy for harry. But at present, I do sympathise with Brooklyn

I agree. And all he would get for posing in those truly horrible instagram family photos is hate from the world how ugly and useless he is.

And no, they are far from my favourite family.
It’s like Victoria and all the girlfriends are cloned. So weird.

IthasYes · 05/05/2025 16:46

So many children have privilege that we can't even begin to imagine but they also succeed and are successful in what they do.

I find it extremely interesting that brooklyn didn't know how old his sister was and seemed to only be interested in the food van.

I also think he has her name inked everywhere?

I don't think it's that unusual for men to not know ages but I'm sensing there is a lot behind the scenes of all those happy family pics we don't know about.

The texts were adamant that vb shouldn't know about the cock up at the wedding?
So battle lines were already drawn

IthasYes · 05/05/2025 16:49

@vintagecrow that's for clarifying that I also thought they all looked so similar, cloned is the right term.

Even a young 13 year old. On the one hand I like the dresses but is this why peltz doesn't fit in?

She won't wear the clothes and be vb model clothes horse.

IthasYes · 05/05/2025 16:50

When did vb become obsessed with eating because sometimes it can kick in after the man has cheated

Bambamhoohoo · 05/05/2025 16:57

IthasYes · 05/05/2025 16:50

When did vb become obsessed with eating because sometimes it can kick in after the man has cheated

Always. She has an eating disorder from
the very start of the spice girls. and I suspect they didn’t help each other

Letsummercommence · 05/05/2025 16:59

StarTwirl · 05/05/2025 16:32

I’m pretty sure Brooklyn would have wished his dad a happy birthday privately.

Maybe.
However publicly he hasn't attended either party for his brother's birthday, his mum's birthday, the family holidays or any of his dad's.
He also didn't acknowledge them on social media including mothers day which he did the year before.

User14March · 05/05/2025 17:07

IthasYes · 05/05/2025 16:46

So many children have privilege that we can't even begin to imagine but they also succeed and are successful in what they do.

I find it extremely interesting that brooklyn didn't know how old his sister was and seemed to only be interested in the food van.

I also think he has her name inked everywhere?

I don't think it's that unusual for men to not know ages but I'm sensing there is a lot behind the scenes of all those happy family pics we don't know about.

The texts were adamant that vb shouldn't know about the cock up at the wedding?
So battle lines were already drawn

Knowing how old your sister is has surely to be fundamental?? Great Aunt Mildred, ok…

Why might they not want V to know? Fear of interference, looking incompetent? Something else?

Bambamhoohoo · 05/05/2025 17:17

User14March · 05/05/2025 17:07

Knowing how old your sister is has surely to be fundamental?? Great Aunt Mildred, ok…

Why might they not want V to know? Fear of interference, looking incompetent? Something else?

I think all of the above. It doesn’t seem that they wanted her to play a central role, so Victoria getting wind of them doing a bad job maybe would’ve caused some I told you so’s.

Maddy70 · 05/05/2025 17:31

He's has loads of 50th celebrations. He just wasn't at the one on his actual birthday. This is the press stirring again. Ridiculous. Noone knows what's going on but families do have tiffs, but it's sure as hell it's non of my business

Dreco · 05/05/2025 17:35

Calliopespa · 05/05/2025 08:56

Wow.

Well come on, the bloke is a clown. He was once pulled up by a YouTuber who pretends not to know who celebrities are - he simply asks what they do to afford such expensive cars. Brooklyn beckham responded “I’m a chef” - oh really? You’re a chef are you? And that’s how you afford this sports car is it? Right …. Nothing to do with your parents then? 😂 can’t stand him

Dont know too much about Romeo and Cruz but from what I’ve seen they don’t seem quite as clueless as Brooklyn. They at least seem to recognise that they are privileged and don’t jump from career to career trying to pretend that they’re not

vintagecrow · 05/05/2025 17:39

IthasYes · 05/05/2025 16:49

@vintagecrow that's for clarifying that I also thought they all looked so similar, cloned is the right term.

Even a young 13 year old. On the one hand I like the dresses but is this why peltz doesn't fit in?

She won't wear the clothes and be vb model clothes horse.

That is my guess, but who knows. All posing very carefully positioned, same look on their faces and extremely skinny women.
Maybe she doesn’t want to do it, it’s not on her terms then, it’s just fitting in another family’s template.

I looked at some of the photos of the guests, and the women were dressed just like that too. Silk dresses. Clones.

BreadInCaptivity · 05/05/2025 17:41

Re: BB I think this is a good example of why exposing much of your life on social media is a bad idea.

I’ve no idea what’s going on between him and his family, but the fact is if you have a long established “family brand” M.O. of Instagraming family meet ups, big occasion’s, well wishes etc etc then it’s inevitable that not doing so is going to result in some people asking questions and drawing (possibly incorrect) conclusions.

Bambamhoohoo · 05/05/2025 17:48

Maddy70 · 05/05/2025 17:31

He's has loads of 50th celebrations. He just wasn't at the one on his actual birthday. This is the press stirring again. Ridiculous. Noone knows what's going on but families do have tiffs, but it's sure as hell it's non of my business

The whole point of the discussion is he’s not been at any of the celebrations 😂

whether he popped round in secret of course, no one knows. But the unusual social media activity indicates not

Bambamhoohoo · 05/05/2025 17:50

vintagecrow · 05/05/2025 17:39

That is my guess, but who knows. All posing very carefully positioned, same look on their faces and extremely skinny women.
Maybe she doesn’t want to do it, it’s not on her terms then, it’s just fitting in another family’s template.

I looked at some of the photos of the guests, and the women were dressed just like that too. Silk dresses. Clones.

I imagine they were all gifted VB dresses to wear. I mean you wouldn’t refuse to wear your mates brand at their party, would you?

Wakemeupbe4yougogo · 05/05/2025 18:08

I'd imagine Brooklyn isn't playing ball with the "perfect family" image that they try to project on social media as the media aren't exactly kind about him. It's been reported that he and Nicola saw David privately in London before the public events. I am quite saddened that David and Victoria seem to treat the children as Insta props rather than worthy of the best of educations etc - they can afford the best schooling possible. Instead Harper always seems to be Mum's fashion accessory and rarely in school.

The Ecclestone sisters are the same. Seem to prioritise holidays and trips to Disney over education.

vintagecrow · 05/05/2025 18:09

Bambamhoohoo · 05/05/2025 17:50

I imagine they were all gifted VB dresses to wear. I mean you wouldn’t refuse to wear your mates brand at their party, would you?

That is what I am saying. Maybe Peltz did refuse. Maybe she doesn’t want to be a Beckham clone, it does look a bit downgrading. Who knows.

MaidOfSteel · 05/05/2025 18:10

I did notice the parallels in the situation, too, OP.

Bambamhoohoo · 05/05/2025 18:15

vintagecrow · 05/05/2025 18:09

That is what I am saying. Maybe Peltz did refuse. Maybe she doesn’t want to be a Beckham clone, it does look a bit downgrading. Who knows.

She was pretty bold not to have a VB wedding drsss tbf, so maybe

it really seems like she’s not that interested. Beckham isn’t that famous in the us (and she’s used to be surrounded by celeb anyway) so maybe she’s just not that interested

JungAtHeart · 05/05/2025 18:17

TBH I’m amazed it’s taken this long for the proverbial to hit the fan. D&VB completely sold out their kids for Brand Beckham. They never had a chance to be themselves, find out what they liked or wanted - their privacy was never protected…they were a marketing packaged commodity, used in pursuit of their parents blatant greed.

DB has been serially unfaithful - don’t mention Harpur’s teacher who went on maternity leave with a huge payoff and a watertight NDA - they’re so far from the happy family the media portrays.

Chumbawomble · 05/05/2025 18:18

The tabloids ruin people's lives with their utter rubbish. Gutter journalists have zero conscience.

CamillaMacauley · 05/05/2025 18:20

Letsummercommence · 05/05/2025 16:59

Maybe.
However publicly he hasn't attended either party for his brother's birthday, his mum's birthday, the family holidays or any of his dad's.
He also didn't acknowledge them on social media including mothers day which he did the year before.

Also Victoria (and I think David) tagged all the kids in social media but not Brooklyn and in previous years even if he hasn’t been there they’ve tagged him and put in brackets (missing you).

Nanny0gg · 05/05/2025 18:34

XWKD · 04/05/2025 22:45

The Beckhams aren't a famous family. Outside of the British tabloids that is.

You're kidding?

Name a football fan of any age anywhere who doesn't know David Beckham

And VB was a Spice Girl, one of the biggest bands of their era

FozzieWozzieWasABear · 05/05/2025 18:43

TheCurious0range · 04/05/2025 21:33

Just so everyone knows, I called my dad and wished him a happy birthday and sent him a present and card. Wouldn't want the press getting hold of it and assuming there was a family feud.

I am NC with my dad so have not wished him a happy birthday for around 10 years but I am happy to report that neither my partner nor any Americans were involved in my decision.

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