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To not use proper spellings when naming your child

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Catterpillarsflipflops · 19/03/2025 18:17

Am I being unreasonable to think it's ridiculous to use a funky spelling of a normal name. I spent today dealing with lost paperwork for a child as the person that took the details didn't think to check the spelling as there is no other spelling of the name.

It looks silly and just causes no end of problems for the child. It also disadvantages them as straight away people get an image of what the child is like.

I've seen

Jaymz
Ezmay
Lil-leigh

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Buffypaws · 19/03/2025 18:17

lol no way

Cumberlandsausagedog · 19/03/2025 18:18

Catterpillarsflipflops · 19/03/2025 18:17

Am I being unreasonable to think it's ridiculous to use a funky spelling of a normal name. I spent today dealing with lost paperwork for a child as the person that took the details didn't think to check the spelling as there is no other spelling of the name.

It looks silly and just causes no end of problems for the child. It also disadvantages them as straight away people get an image of what the child is like.

I've seen

Jaymz
Ezmay
Lil-leigh

It’s not unique, it’s not clever. It just shows that your parents weren’t very classy or clever.

TheChosenTwo · 19/03/2025 18:19

Jaymz 😭 this can’t be real 😂😂😂

MissDoubleU · 19/03/2025 18:19

It’s a fucking Tradgedeigh

DelilahRay · 19/03/2025 18:20

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Catterpillarsflipflops · 19/03/2025 18:20

TheChosenTwo · 19/03/2025 18:19

Jaymz 😭 this can’t be real 😂😂😂

Oh I so wish I was joking

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Caroparo52 · 19/03/2025 18:20

Got to be either from the Bible or Shakespeare or Royalty for me...

festivemouse · 19/03/2025 18:20

I had to say “Jaymz” aloud a few times to understand what they were aiming for 😂 honestly there’s only so many names, I’m never sure why parents go for whacky spelling.

Topseyt123 · 19/03/2025 18:20

It just shows how thick people are, to be honest.

rosydreams · 19/03/2025 18:21

what ever floats your goat but it will make me raise a eyebrow ,its just odd

Catterpillarsflipflops · 19/03/2025 18:22

rosydreams · 19/03/2025 18:21

what ever floats your goat but it will make me raise a eyebrow ,its just odd

I know it's a typical but forever more I want to use the phrase "floats your goat" 🤣

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Topseyt123 · 19/03/2025 18:22

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Oh dear! Poor child. ☹️

tattoonewbie · 19/03/2025 18:22

I like to float a goat but hate the spellings.
Larna as they want to be sure that people say Lar like car.
The goat typo has made me so happy. Love goats

JanglingJack · 19/03/2025 18:23

I had to think about Jaymz!

I'm not fan, but then naming my son with a common traditional name starting with G but sounds like a J, there were times he was trying to learn how to spell it, and I wished I had just called him Ben.

LittleBearPad · 19/03/2025 18:23

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Was it in Wales - though the double LL would make it a completely different sound so it can’t have been! but why do that!!

Topseyt123 · 19/03/2025 18:23

rosydreams · 19/03/2025 18:21

what ever floats your goat but it will make me raise a eyebrow ,its just odd

I now can't get an image of floating goats out of my head. 🤣

LittleBearPad · 19/03/2025 18:24

Love the floating goats! May use it

craigth162 · 19/03/2025 18:24

TheChosenTwo · 19/03/2025 18:19

Jaymz 😭 this can’t be real 😂😂😂

Yep I know a jaymz too. Mind-boggling

JanglingJack · 19/03/2025 18:25

Floats your goat 🤣

rosydreams · 19/03/2025 18:25

Topseyt123 · 19/03/2025 18:23

I now can't get an image of floating goats out of my head. 🤣

=p

TrixieFatell · 19/03/2025 18:26

I am not a fan of stupid attempts at being edgy fancy spelt names. Though I am a tad hypocritical as one of my children has a different spelling of their name, as opposed to the common spelling here. In my defence it is a recognised European spelling and they are used to getting their name spelt wrong. We are not that precious about it.

Undethetree · 19/03/2025 18:26

I met an Evon last week

largeprintagathachristie · 19/03/2025 18:27

If I’m remembering it correctly, the first Freakanomics book - years ago now - correlated “unique” spellings with low levels of high school attainment in the parent/s in the US.

BarneyRonson · 19/03/2025 18:27

It reeks of that banal urge to be YouNeek.

LittleBearPad · 19/03/2025 18:28

Undethetree · 19/03/2025 18:26

I met an Evon last week

Were they male or female. Was it Yvonne they were shooting for?