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To not use proper spellings when naming your child

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Catterpillarsflipflops · 19/03/2025 18:17

Am I being unreasonable to think it's ridiculous to use a funky spelling of a normal name. I spent today dealing with lost paperwork for a child as the person that took the details didn't think to check the spelling as there is no other spelling of the name.

It looks silly and just causes no end of problems for the child. It also disadvantages them as straight away people get an image of what the child is like.

I've seen

Jaymz
Ezmay
Lil-leigh

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Whoshotjr · 26/03/2025 23:01

I’ve heard Plum used (rarely) as a nickname for Victoria, but not as a standalone name.

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 27/03/2025 00:41

I stand corrected: I was initially thinking of journalist Plum Sykes, but her real name is indeed Victoria!

It does actually quite sound like a Cockney insult - I can almost hear Danny Dyer now shouting "Oi, shut it, you plum!!!" Grin

JHound · 27/03/2025 12:27

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 26/03/2025 18:51

I really wouldn't want a strictly prescribed list if approved names in this country.

There are lots of names that might not be established existing names, but they're perfectly nice if they're your sort of thing - e.g. nature names like Rain, Storm or Ocean; and I never understood the absolute ridicule that was hurled at Gwyneth & Chris for choosing Apple for their DD, when nobody thinks twice about names like Cherry or Plum.

Then again, registrars should have the power to veto idiots wanting to name their babies utterly stupid things like Incontinentia or Tumbledryer.

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Agreed.

I have never thought of the distinction people make between Apple and Cherry but good point.

I also know a Clementine so it is very inconsistent.

EmpressaurusKitty · 27/03/2025 12:52

Plum was PG Wodehouse’s nickname, too.

Namechangetry · 27/03/2025 12:55

EmpressaurusKitty · 27/03/2025 12:52

Plum was PG Wodehouse’s nickname, too.

It was, short for Pelham (not a name you see on MN baby name threads!)

JanglingJack · 27/03/2025 15:46

Namechangetry · 27/03/2025 12:55

It was, short for Pelham (not a name you see on MN baby name threads!)

Peckham maybe.

Themagicfarawaytreeismyfav · 27/03/2025 16:27

I know someone with a child called Lewie, its awful

MissRoseDurward · 27/03/2025 18:45

I also know a Clementine so it is very inconsistent.

Clementine as a name predates clementine as a fruit.

I know someone with a child called Lewie, its awful

No excuse if he's in the UK and under six/seven. Louis is well known now even if perhaps it wasn't a few years ago.

pinkstripeycat · 27/05/2025 20:26

Spelling Isaac with SS ie Issac looks like you can’t spell. 😂 You can’t!

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