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AIBU?

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DD’s nightmare flatmate.

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Timble · 09/03/2025 18:27

Hi all,
do you know if landlords or agents have a responsibility to protect tenants?
do tenants have any rights at all?

my DD is in her third year. Living with three lovely girls and one who they are all terrified of.
she has locked them all out, refusing to let them in (I wasn’t told until the next day and told DD she should have rang the police at the time). She’s rude, threatening. Makes a lot of noise in the middle of the night. She keeps calling the girls racist (there has been no racist comments towards this girl aside from this girl constantly calling them ‘stupid white girls’ or similar. She messages the girls regularly to tell them to stay out of her way or they’ll regret it. To shut up and be quiet or she’ll make them. (No loud noises, they’re all in their third year and studying hard/on placements). All the other girls now want to move out as they can’t face living with her anymore. I just can’t believe we have to pay and even though they’ve reported this girl to the estate agents and they’ve had meetings nothing has changed. They believe this girl has been kicked out of uni and hasn’t paid rent but they don’t have proof.

my DD is 20 and she manages most issues herself/with the other flatmates but currently she’s had enough and needs help.
I guess it’s not really an AIBU but can we refuse to pay last terms rent or we pay and chalk this up to a horrendous experience? No idea where dd will live if she moves out!!

thank you xx

OP posts:
Celeryindip · 13/03/2025 14:15

Timble · 10/03/2025 15:50

The students have signed something but they don’t remember doing it. It’s in the contract through docusign. They’re trying to find any emails from lettings agents asking them to sign new contract. They haven’t found anything. They do remember signing the initial one though. We definitely did not sign anything else.

So many people involved, from students to parents acting as guarantors

and yet…. So unclear of literally the most basic contractual point.

bit odd!

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