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Jesus Christ it keeps going

473 replies

wonderblocks · 17/01/2025 14:49

After Bonnie blue beat Lily Philips to "bed" as many men as possible in 12 hours, lily has now said she plans to have anal sex with as many men as she can, I'm guessing in 24 hours.

apple.news/AiTwmZjdrTHu-iTDkVjOQ9Q

wtf is wrong with people ?
Aibu or has the world gone mad ?
I'm no prude but this all just seems so classless.

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PudPudDingDing · 17/01/2025 19:54

oakleaffy · 17/01/2025 19:41

I hope so for her sake.
It probably is all publicly-I never hear her mentioned outside of here, but did google and watched a “Documentary” type video on Lily - the chap who made the video actually gagged at the smell of stale bodily fluids in the room ( I think a hundred men)
Why anyone would want to subject themselves to being used like that is astonishing.

Ok, she’s making a lot of money, but at what price her mental health?

Never mind a documentary you can watch footage of previous events online as she has done many of these before and they're available gratis. The one I saw was her and Lily, about an hour long. There wasn't a cameraman as such but some guy with a phone recording.

What I will say is most of the men taking part also had their own phones in their hand and were recording the event, though they were reminded to keep the angle low so not as to capture other men's faces. Many had a balaclava on but not all. Basically thats the mentality of the men, a badge of honour to probably share round their mates. There was indeed semen everywhere and they kept wiping themselves on the sheets and pillows. I kid you not Bonnie asked one bloke to empty his condom all over her. Lily's eyes were bloodshot red. How they dont catch anything is beyond me.I know thats uncomfortable reading but I think many MNers have no clue what today's SM/group chat obsessed youth are like.

AliasGrace47 · 17/01/2025 19:57

Well, I'm Gen Z & no one I know is like that! Plenty are into SM & group chats. Some people at my uni are v promiscuous & there is weird gossip sometimes but nothing on this level. & none of my female friends have any interest in Onlyfans. These cases are extreme. But as ever, the extremes are often symptomatic of wider bad trends in society...

Fran2023 · 17/01/2025 19:57

It seems to me to the natural outcome of the commodification of the female body and of sex.

These women are simply using their bodies within a capitalist, media driven system.

I wouldn’t choose to do it, and I do have concerns about their future mental and physical health but we can’t preach bodily autonomy and support feminism at the same time as condemning them.

There is a difference between expressing concern and being horribly judgmental, as another contributor asked what is the number of sexual partners that is acceptable within a single night?

141mum · 17/01/2025 20:12

She needs to b sectioned

Plastictrees · 17/01/2025 20:14

@oakleaffy I haven’t seen this, unsure if my soul could cope!

Fuckitydoodah · 17/01/2025 20:15

Eurgh. I should think she runs the risk of some horrible injury/prolapse/incontinence. Just gross.

Hurryupretirement · 17/01/2025 20:15

She will end up with lifelong damage to her rectum if she goes ahead. As pp have said it doesn’t take much abuse to cause rectal prolapse and/ or a tear to the living of the bowel which can be fatal worst case scenario. Nothing whatsoever to do with sex and everything to do with allowing your body to be assaulted/ abused/ wrecked for money or ‘likes’. Its truly sickening and angers me to think the NHS will almost certainly end of picking up the pieces.

Hurryupretirement · 17/01/2025 20:19

Fran2023 · 17/01/2025 19:57

It seems to me to the natural outcome of the commodification of the female body and of sex.

These women are simply using their bodies within a capitalist, media driven system.

I wouldn’t choose to do it, and I do have concerns about their future mental and physical health but we can’t preach bodily autonomy and support feminism at the same time as condemning them.

There is a difference between expressing concern and being horribly judgmental, as another contributor asked what is the number of sexual partners that is acceptable within a single night?

We do have laws which say its not legal to allow another person to inflict actual bodily harm on you through even if the person consents, as we acknowledge some people by virtue of mental illness, learning difficulties trauma or extreme financial need would end up ‘consenting’ to provide kicks for sick exploitative individuals. To my mind this is honestly no different, and this is not about ‘sex’ in the real sense.

AliasGrace47 · 17/01/2025 20:20

Spot on, Fran. I'm actually doing some research on Belle Epoque Paris at the moment, this was the last era where courtesans were celebrities, if notorious ones. There were 2 who were especially famous. One, La Belle Otero, had an awful background- she was raped at 10 & then became an 18yo's 'mistress' at 12.
She was a v talented dancer & seemed to enjoy being the mistress of successive rulers etc but when she grew old, she said she only wanted to die bc her one mission in life, to be beautiful, was over.
Liane de Pougy is the other one as she was predominantly attracted to women, & basically saw the sex as a job to get riches (she had an abusive husband & a son to provide for, as well) She had some fine qualities but was extremely vain & greedy & basically a slave to this. She had a huge love affair w the writer Natalie Barney, but prioritised her job as a courtesan over that, even tho she regretted losing Barney for the rest of her life. She wrote a pretty well-written autobiography, My Blue Notebooks, & her descriptions of her clients are pretty gruesome, whatever jewels she got afterward. Courtesans had a v sophisticated & fashionable image, not like Onlyfans, but at the end of the day the reality of the job was just as sordid & exploitative. A few seem to have genuinely enjoyed the job, as it did offer more freedom than others, but these were generally people w a lot of control over who they chose, & fewer emotional needs.
Liane ended up becoming a Nun, her original ambition, & her coreligionists loved her, so she at least had a happy ending. I can't see Bonnie & Lily doing that, but who knows?
Sorry for the history lecture. I just often think that the same problems keep recurring , again & again.. Sometimes I wish I were in the Belle Epoque, at least it would be more elegant than Onlyfans et al...

NeedToAskPlease · 17/01/2025 20:23

Sorry to sound so crude... but is there a time factor in how long each man gets to have sex, or do they just have to penetrate her once and that counts, or do they have to ejaculate for it to count ?

I am truly flabbergasted at this

PudPudDingDing · 17/01/2025 20:26

NeedToAskPlease · 17/01/2025 20:23

Sorry to sound so crude... but is there a time factor in how long each man gets to have sex, or do they just have to penetrate her once and that counts, or do they have to ejaculate for it to count ?

I am truly flabbergasted at this

On the footage I saw there were rough time limits but it was all laid back and the 1000 thing is pie in the sky. She was being rogered doggy style while taking another in her mouth and a third in her hand. Quite the Olympic event.

Coolasfeck · 17/01/2025 20:38

They are going to create a super virus which will wipe us all out.

AliasGrace47 · 17/01/2025 20:43

Coolasfeck · 17/01/2025 20:38

They are going to create a super virus which will wipe us all out.

What?

JMSA · 17/01/2025 20:44

I wish this wasn't a thing. I wish my teenage daughters didn't have to see it.

TiredCatLady · 17/01/2025 20:50

JMSA · 17/01/2025 20:44

I wish this wasn't a thing. I wish my teenage daughters didn't have to see it.

And this is the crux. Teenagers will be exposed to this. And the more of it they’re exposed to, the more desensitised they’ll become.
Where is the line between bodily autonomy and self harm? Where is the line between consent and abuse?

PudPudDingDing · 17/01/2025 20:51

JMSA · 17/01/2025 20:44

I wish this wasn't a thing. I wish my teenage daughters didn't have to see it.

It's more teenage sons that you need to worry about, Im not sure teenage girls are the target audience but maybe they're desensitized to it all now?

AliasGrace47 · 17/01/2025 21:08

I think definitely teens who are online a lot are at risk. It's like when people said porn wouldn't hurt girls as only boys watch it. Not only do girls watch, but even if they don't, it becomes their problem if their bf is pornsick.
I know I said Onlyfans isn't a big deal for anyone I know, but porn def is an issue. Friends have had nasty experiences w boys who have got the idea anal, choking etc doesn't need checking beforehand... This isn't an issue for me as I only date girls (though tbf the Internet has spread some weird ideas in those circles too, not as bad generally tho)

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 17/01/2025 21:11

PudPudDingDing · 17/01/2025 18:14

The point is that everyone bashing these porn star women but they are only shagging 1000s of men presumably of woman born. Shouldnt they have been raised with better morals?

Are you saying the MOTHER is to blame if the children turn out bad as adults?

Fuxake! So the father is in no way to blame then? MEN are not responsible for raising the children and teaching them right from wrong?! It's all the MOTHER'S responsibility?!

Misogyny as its finest!

Banyon · 17/01/2025 21:31

So after the event -, changes the sheets, chucks out the bin of lube & condoms, contemplates her broken anus, no doubt soothed with gobs & gobs of preparation H and stool softeners … perhaps she can include this in her bloopers …
I’ll bet she get an audience for the Prep H treatment.

The glamour! The body positivity!

Gosh, I hope Rachel Reeves is collecting tax from this internet business!!

FlirtsWithRhinos · 17/01/2025 21:31

Patriachy's big con.

Tell women their body belongs to their (future) husband and if they have sex outside marriage or even enjoy it within marriage they are worthless.

Men lie or outright abuse her to get to her body anyway, then society blames her for not trying hard enough to prevent it.

Women turn round and say "fuck this for a game of soldiers, I'm the boss of my body, I'll have loads and loads of sex just to show you I don't have to folllow your rules!"

Men don't now have to even bothering lying or outright abusing her to get to her body.

Either way, woman's purpose and social relationships are still being centered in her body and its role in sex, not her unique personality, her own desires and interests or her ability to think.

REAL "fuck this for a game of soldiers" feminism is to wear comfy clothes, have kids if you want them, put your focus into a phd in astrophysics, a global business, or being a world authority in medieval beans or something, and have good sex with good people as and when the opportunity arises.

Keeponkeepingon9 · 17/01/2025 21:48

wonderblocks · 17/01/2025 19:11

I saw an article from one of the lovely men who went to the Bonnie blue thing, he said he thought he'd get one on one time with her but when he got in there was apparently just circles of men around her all dipping it in... he called her a trooper but said actually it wasn't for him.
I thought you're a bad ad all the others and just trying to backtrack. But yeah, horrible. It must be traumatising to be that woman surrounded by men like that all seeing you as a piece of meat.

There is a two letter word beginning with n & ending with o

If the word is used it's rape. If the act is consensual it's an agreement where both participants are equally responsible for their own depravity. If women are held against their will that's another story.

thequeenoftarts · 17/01/2025 22:05

I feel sorry for her, surely she must value herself more than that. By all means in the privacy of her own life/bedroom/anywhere she likes as long as she keeps it private, she can ride who and as many as she likes in which ever orifice she choses.
However to plaster yourself all over the media bragging about it leaves me cold. Just why would you do that to yourself, I mean "Hi I'm famous for allowing as many cocks into my body in 24 hours as I can fit" Great claim to fame.

Questions that spring to mind that I don't really require answers to

A) Is it full sex to orgasm with each man?or just a quick in and out, does that count?
B) Please please tell me it is protected sex
C) Is her flaps not burning and on fire, ffs woman just why? The thrush omg.
D) Surely to God her is at risk of a vaginal and anal prolapse
E) Is there not two doctors out there to section this poor crazy insane lady for her own protection
F) Has she no family and friends who love her enough to say stop that's far enough, you need help!
G) Imagine if she ever has children, omg the poor kids

Just consider a few short years ago we still had Mother and Baby homes for young unmarried Mums, and their only crime was to have sex once, be it willingly or forcibly and then we have this young lady.

InDogweRust · 17/01/2025 22:06

Its absolutely mad and all participants are disgusting.

InDogweRust · 17/01/2025 22:08

"feminism is to wear comfy clothes, have kids if you want them, put your focus into a phd in astrophysics, a global business, or being a world authority in medieval beans or something, and have good sex with good people as and when the opportunity arises."

🙌

Notaflippinclue · 17/01/2025 22:16

Where are the parents, grandparents siblings
anyone for Gods sake to help these women - so obviously mentally ill