Patriachy's big con.
Tell women their body belongs to their (future) husband and if they have sex outside marriage or even enjoy it within marriage they are worthless.
Men lie or outright abuse her to get to her body anyway, then society blames her for not trying hard enough to prevent it.
Women turn round and say "fuck this for a game of soldiers, I'm the boss of my body, I'll have loads and loads of sex just to show you I don't have to folllow your rules!"
Men don't now have to even bothering lying or outright abusing her to get to her body.
Either way, woman's purpose and social relationships are still being centered in her body and its role in sex, not her unique personality, her own desires and interests or her ability to think.
REAL "fuck this for a game of soldiers" feminism is to wear comfy clothes, have kids if you want them, put your focus into a phd in astrophysics, a global business, or being a world authority in medieval beans or something, and have good sex with good people as and when the opportunity arises.