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Jesus Christ it keeps going

473 replies

wonderblocks · 17/01/2025 14:49

After Bonnie blue beat Lily Philips to "bed" as many men as possible in 12 hours, lily has now said she plans to have anal sex with as many men as she can, I'm guessing in 24 hours.

apple.news/AiTwmZjdrTHu-iTDkVjOQ9Q

wtf is wrong with people ?
Aibu or has the world gone mad ?
I'm no prude but this all just seems so classless.

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WongKarWhy · 17/01/2025 19:11

BlondeMamaToBe · 17/01/2025 19:07

OF does make people insanely rich. She talks about it in interviews as do so many foner women who are on there.

There are a handful who make big money, yes, the vast majority of women on there make a pittance though.

you also have to bear in mind it operates a bit like a MLM so people are going to exaggerate how much they are making to hook others in.

wonderblocks · 17/01/2025 19:13

BlondeMamaToBe · 17/01/2025 18:49

It only takes one man to get carried away and she loses the control she thinks she has over them.

Bonnie bragged about sleeping with a father and son at the same time so I assume she grew up being abused to think this is all normal.

Bonnie blue apparently doesn't know her real father. Does that maybe explain things, I don't know, but the saying daddy issues comes from somewhere. I know that's a horrible thing to say but just trying to make some sense of it all.

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PudPudDingDing · 17/01/2025 19:14

wonderblocks · 17/01/2025 19:11

I saw an article from one of the lovely men who went to the Bonnie blue thing, he said he thought he'd get one on one time with her but when he got in there was apparently just circles of men around her all dipping it in... he called her a trooper but said actually it wasn't for him.
I thought you're a bad ad all the others and just trying to backtrack. But yeah, horrible. It must be traumatising to be that woman surrounded by men like that all seeing you as a piece of meat.

It might not be £600k a year but she plays the OF game well. You pay a subscription for a few pics then she charges an arm and a leg on top of that basic fee to watch the videos of her smashing scores of guys in a session.

Not a racist comment but I flicked through an hour long clip of one of her previous works here in the UK and it was indeed many men in the room at once and most were Asian/Black. It was all quite chaotic rather than a 1 in 1 out system that many would imagine.

NameChangedOfc · 17/01/2025 19:17

CAJIE · 17/01/2025 16:27

free yourself and stop absorbing this bilge.it is truly bad for your mind and soul.just appalling.dont mean to sound lecturing but honestly looking at a flower would do you more good.

I actually agree with you.

MummytoBoth · 17/01/2025 19:18

MumblesParty · 17/01/2025 15:41

@sometimesmovingforwards are you trying to open up a debate, or are you genuinely confused at the difference between having regular one-night-stands, and allowing an unlimited number of men to penetrate your anus constantly for 12 hours? Because to my mind it’s clear that one is sexual preference, and the other is significant mental illness.

This!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dagnabit · 17/01/2025 19:18

This is just yuck. By all means enjoy yourself sexually but this could cause health issues for a long time, possibly forever.

I did laugh at the article though, where the Dr said to use a different condom for every partner - not sure it’s possible to all use the same one!

dayswithaY · 17/01/2025 19:21

I saw the infamous photo, lots of gormless men milling around holding their dicks.

They all seemed to have covered their faces though - with masks and scarves.

So they do feel shame, apparently?

HeffalumpsAndWoozlesAreHoneyRobbingTwats · 17/01/2025 19:24

WongKarWhy · 17/01/2025 19:11

There are a handful who make big money, yes, the vast majority of women on there make a pittance though.

you also have to bear in mind it operates a bit like a MLM so people are going to exaggerate how much they are making to hook others in.

Your first point is completely true, but you can't compare it to an MLM. "HERE'S MY SEX, NOW YOU CAN SELL THE SEX"

NameChangedOfc · 17/01/2025 19:24

Bigcat25 · 17/01/2025 17:51

I think what they're doing is dangerous for other women. Obviously each time is just for a few seconds, involves lube, security, and probably painkillers. But it puts an idea out there that women can have sex with an extreme amount of men in one day and handle it. The friction pain and bleeding and bruising that could result from a small fraction of this would be agony.

I feel for forced sex workers in captivity who might now be expected to do more.

"Forced sex workers in captivity"? You mean victims of sex trafficking? I ask genuinely: I know peoole like to use euphemisms for sex trafficking, but this is the first time I come across with this expression.

StrawberryDream24 · 17/01/2025 19:26

WongKarWhy · 17/01/2025 18:57

That’s not true. Women’s sphincters are less strong and their anal canal is lower down so they are more likely to be injured doing anal than men.

Yeah their pelvic floor is different and more affected by hormones etc. as well ...they are more likely to suffer lasting damage and incontinence from anal sex than men; a gynaecologist wrote a public article about it.

Anyway, the anus and vagina ard separated by a thin wall - it can be perforated to. Something that obviously is not a risk for men.

WongKarWhy · 17/01/2025 19:27

HeffalumpsAndWoozlesAreHoneyRobbingTwats · 17/01/2025 19:24

Your first point is completely true, but you can't compare it to an MLM. "HERE'S MY SEX, NOW YOU CAN SELL THE SEX"

It absolutely does operate like a MLM. Look it up. People can recruit others for a commission.

HeffalumpsAndWoozlesAreHoneyRobbingTwats · 17/01/2025 19:29

WongKarWhy · 17/01/2025 19:27

It absolutely does operate like a MLM. Look it up. People can recruit others for a commission.

I am not looking that up. Explain, please.

WongKarWhy · 17/01/2025 19:29

Maybe I should have said pyramid scheme rather than MLM but either way there’s an incentive to recruit.

WongKarWhy · 17/01/2025 19:30

HeffalumpsAndWoozlesAreHoneyRobbingTwats · 17/01/2025 19:29

I am not looking that up. Explain, please.

For ever person an onlyfans creator signs up they will get a percentage of any money that second person makes. Pyramid scheme basically.

oakleaffy · 17/01/2025 19:30

Heck, Doesn’t she worry about continence issues in the future?
Bottoms aren’t meant to be so abused.
A thousand men- Never mind the health aspect with bacterial and viral infections possible.

PudPudDingDing · 17/01/2025 19:36

oakleaffy · 17/01/2025 19:30

Heck, Doesn’t she worry about continence issues in the future?
Bottoms aren’t meant to be so abused.
A thousand men- Never mind the health aspect with bacterial and viral infections possible.

There wont be anywhere near 1000 men. Its a publicity stunt nothing more and its working. She'll insist on sheathing.

Devilsmommy · 17/01/2025 19:37

Moonshinebaby · 17/01/2025 18:32

I watched the documentary about Lilly Phillips sleeping with 100 men in 24 hours.

It made me really sad, to me it appeared like an organised rape.

I can't even give a logical explanation why I feel this way as obviously she consents to it and it's her idea.

To be honest, it seems like organised rape to me too. Especially when she says to not ejaculate on her face and the guy did it in her eyes anyway. So she had something happen that she didn't consent to, very rapey

Plastictrees · 17/01/2025 19:38

wonderblocks · 17/01/2025 19:11

I saw an article from one of the lovely men who went to the Bonnie blue thing, he said he thought he'd get one on one time with her but when he got in there was apparently just circles of men around her all dipping it in... he called her a trooper but said actually it wasn't for him.
I thought you're a bad ad all the others and just trying to backtrack. But yeah, horrible. It must be traumatising to be that woman surrounded by men like that all seeing you as a piece of meat.

It’s like a form of self hate. I doubt anyone who would do this has good self esteem.

oakleaffy · 17/01/2025 19:41

PudPudDingDing · 17/01/2025 19:36

There wont be anywhere near 1000 men. Its a publicity stunt nothing more and its working. She'll insist on sheathing.

I hope so for her sake.
It probably is all publicly-I never hear her mentioned outside of here, but did google and watched a “Documentary” type video on Lily - the chap who made the video actually gagged at the smell of stale bodily fluids in the room ( I think a hundred men)
Why anyone would want to subject themselves to being used like that is astonishing.

Ok, she’s making a lot of money, but at what price her mental health?

oakleaffy · 17/01/2025 19:44

Plastictrees · 17/01/2025 19:38

It’s like a form of self hate. I doubt anyone who would do this has good self esteem.

I saw the documentary about Lily on you tube and it was very sad.
She puts on a brave face, but her eyes were stinging from bodily fluids- it looked like a form of masochism.

Yet her PA and parents supposedly support her doing this?.

Devilsmommy · 17/01/2025 19:49

dayswithaY · 17/01/2025 19:21

I saw the infamous photo, lots of gormless men milling around holding their dicks.

They all seemed to have covered their faces though - with masks and scarves.

So they do feel shame, apparently?

Not enough to not do it though unfortunately. Men need to stop thinking with their dicks and start actually thinking about women in a more empathetic way. Not going to happen but I wish it would. Shit like this wouldn't happen then

TheWeeDonkeyFella · 17/01/2025 19:50

caringcarer · 17/01/2025 15:23

🤢🤮

This x a million.

Brinkley22 · 17/01/2025 19:51

PersephoneSmith · 17/01/2025 15:34

could she be sectioned? on the grounds of being a danger to herself?

Interesting question. Could it be deemed to be severe self- injury?

As a previous poster said, she would not be doing this if there weren’t so many men who would be willing to be involved. I wonder if she invited women to be intimate with her on camera, what would happen then?

Nextdoor55 · 17/01/2025 19:52

I can only imagine what could go wrong with this. I mean why would anyone degrade young women like that, the men taking part in this should be thoroughly ashamed. These women are getting a hard time but what about these men? what a disgrace they are.

AliasGrace47 · 17/01/2025 19:53

WongKarWhy · 17/01/2025 18:57

That’s not true. Women’s sphincters are less strong and their anal canal is lower down so they are more likely to be injured doing anal than men.

Yes- in our culture, I think it'd be v unlikely for men to do anal if they ran serious risks of injury from the act itself. (STDs are a different matter..)
I know there are women who actually like anal & it can be done safely but imo this is v v rare & should not be encouraged. A lot of the time it's done bc of pressure/desire to be the cool girl & I find it hard to think this case is any different 😐