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Jesus Christ it keeps going

473 replies

wonderblocks · 17/01/2025 14:49

After Bonnie blue beat Lily Philips to "bed" as many men as possible in 12 hours, lily has now said she plans to have anal sex with as many men as she can, I'm guessing in 24 hours.

apple.news/AiTwmZjdrTHu-iTDkVjOQ9Q

wtf is wrong with people ?
Aibu or has the world gone mad ?
I'm no prude but this all just seems so classless.

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AliasGrace47 · 17/01/2025 18:30

Alltheyearround · 17/01/2025 18:26

Jeez. So bad for your anus. Not really what nature intended when designing orifices for different functions. I have heard terrible things about over use of anal passage for women. Just a passing thought - is this the same for gay men though?

Nope - men have tougher bodies for this kind of thing (plus it's much more pleasant for them to have their anus stimulated bc of the prostate) Doesn't mean it can't hurt them, just means the threshold is higher. Not all gay men do anal anyway, bc the health risks are higher.

Maia77 · 17/01/2025 18:31

Alltheyearround · 17/01/2025 18:26

Jeez. So bad for your anus. Not really what nature intended when designing orifices for different functions. I have heard terrible things about over use of anal passage for women. Just a passing thought - is this the same for gay men though?

I would think so. And the risk of getting an STD from anal sex is higher because the lining of the anus is thin and can be easily damaged.

Moonshinebaby · 17/01/2025 18:32

I watched the documentary about Lilly Phillips sleeping with 100 men in 24 hours.

It made me really sad, to me it appeared like an organised rape.

I can't even give a logical explanation why I feel this way as obviously she consents to it and it's her idea.

Lovelysummerdays · 17/01/2025 18:33

Alltheyearround · 17/01/2025 18:26

Jeez. So bad for your anus. Not really what nature intended when designing orifices for different functions. I have heard terrible things about over use of anal passage for women. Just a passing thought - is this the same for gay men though?

I had a drunken conversation with a gay friend and he said it was mainly about blow jobs for him/ his partner as too much anal can damage your sphincter and cause leakage. Anal was more of a special occasion.

Blokes are sturdier than women but it’s still damaging if overdone.

WhatTheFuckIsThisNow · 17/01/2025 18:36

ColinOfficeTrolley · 17/01/2025 15:08

If men weren't so fucking vile, this wouldn't be happening.

This.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 17/01/2025 18:38

Motnight · 17/01/2025 14:56

What about the men involved, are they also "a fucking disgrace"?

No, only women having sex can be "a fucking disgrace" 🤷‍♀️

MsGoodWife · 17/01/2025 18:39

I have a feeling this woman will have a sadly short life, this level of self destruction can only end tragically. Even worse, her own mother is encouraging this.

NewBootsWeather · 17/01/2025 18:39

ColinOfficeTrolley · 17/01/2025 15:08

If men weren't so fucking vile, this wouldn't be happening.

Also Lily & Bonnie

TiredCatLady · 17/01/2025 18:41

I will also say that the more normalised this extreme stuff is, the worse things that sex workers are having to deal with on the grounds of “but on OF”. Just because they may be “doing it by choice” doesn’t mean they have a choice or any protection when someone decides to take it further than they’re coping with. (And I say coping rather than comfortable because it is seldom a real choice to engage in sex work). This stuff puts all women in danger.

NewBootsWeather · 17/01/2025 18:42

Most of the men I know think they are awful and would not be joining in.

Almahart · 17/01/2025 18:45

Surely she would end up needing surgery if she goes ahead and does this?

BlondeMamaToBe · 17/01/2025 18:49

It only takes one man to get carried away and she loses the control she thinks she has over them.

Bonnie bragged about sleeping with a father and son at the same time so I assume she grew up being abused to think this is all normal.

PudPudDingDing · 17/01/2025 18:53

AliasGrace47 · 17/01/2025 18:30

Nope - men have tougher bodies for this kind of thing (plus it's much more pleasant for them to have their anus stimulated bc of the prostate) Doesn't mean it can't hurt them, just means the threshold is higher. Not all gay men do anal anyway, bc the health risks are higher.

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An asshole is an asshole. Men dont have tougher bodies "for this kind of thing!!!"

WongKarWhy · 17/01/2025 18:57

PudPudDingDing · 17/01/2025 18:53

An asshole is an asshole. Men dont have tougher bodies "for this kind of thing!!!"

That’s not true. Women’s sphincters are less strong and their anal canal is lower down so they are more likely to be injured doing anal than men.

IdaGlossop · 17/01/2025 18:58

Auldlang · 17/01/2025 18:03

So it's the mothers' fault?
Will not be getting with that programme, thanks.
As for live and let live, who's stopping her? People can have opinions though. Seems like she'd be pretty unhappy if she was doing this and people WEREN'T talking about it.
Wide boys - exploitative arseholes more like.

Exploiters of an arsehole, more like.

TriesNotToBeCynical · 17/01/2025 18:58

ColinOfficeTrolley · 17/01/2025 15:08

If men weren't so fucking vile, this wouldn't be happening.

So if she hired a 1000 women to do the same with the aid of prosthetic devices then it would all be quite tasteful, then?

Bigcat25 · 17/01/2025 18:58

@PudPudDingDing Men are larger, including their parts, so they can take in a bit more.

scrabblie · 17/01/2025 19:00

Rather than disgusting/classless I just find this incredibly sad.

I would be so so so disappointed if I found out my son had done something like this. Who are these men?

Pootlemcsmootle · 17/01/2025 19:00

I read a post on here earlier that BB earns 600k per month. Just looked up her financial docs on the gov.uk website and she has about 84 quid in her company (bonnie blue ltd).

Just wanted to make this clear in case people think living this way has any financial upside. It seems more a move motivated by financial desperation and mental illness than anything else.

LadyTangerine · 17/01/2025 19:04

Pootlemcsmootle · 17/01/2025 19:00

I read a post on here earlier that BB earns 600k per month. Just looked up her financial docs on the gov.uk website and she has about 84 quid in her company (bonnie blue ltd).

Just wanted to make this clear in case people think living this way has any financial upside. It seems more a move motivated by financial desperation and mental illness than anything else.

I know £600k a month! As if. The world's first multi millionaire sex worker.

Poor girl, I do hope she gets the support she clearly needs soon.

Maia77 · 17/01/2025 19:04

Pootlemcsmootle · 17/01/2025 19:00

I read a post on here earlier that BB earns 600k per month. Just looked up her financial docs on the gov.uk website and she has about 84 quid in her company (bonnie blue ltd).

Just wanted to make this clear in case people think living this way has any financial upside. It seems more a move motivated by financial desperation and mental illness than anything else.

How do you know it's her?

queenMab99 · 17/01/2025 19:06

By 'eck, she'll 'ave it sore!.
As Billy Bradshaw's mother would say.

The13thFairy · 17/01/2025 19:07

Reading this, my eyes are a bit wet, but I'm not actually crying, Can her mother not stop this? At least advise her against it? Is there nothing Lily won't do to harm herself? An anal fissure, a fistula, a colostomy bag? She is determined to damage herself, and the pity is her own parents are just fine about this. She is so, so unwell.

BlondeMamaToBe · 17/01/2025 19:07

OF does make people insanely rich. She talks about it in interviews as do so many foner women who are on there.

wonderblocks · 17/01/2025 19:11

I saw an article from one of the lovely men who went to the Bonnie blue thing, he said he thought he'd get one on one time with her but when he got in there was apparently just circles of men around her all dipping it in... he called her a trooper but said actually it wasn't for him.
I thought you're a bad ad all the others and just trying to backtrack. But yeah, horrible. It must be traumatising to be that woman surrounded by men like that all seeing you as a piece of meat.

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