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AIBU?

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To think sometimes people use words without fully understanding them?

192 replies

Oodiks · 09/10/2024 22:34

There were a few examples in my previous AIBU thread. Including, but not limited to:

Genocide
Antisemitism
Zionism
Ethnic Cleansing

These are strong trigger words for many people, myself included, but I think they are often misused and/or misunderstood.

Thoughts?

Zionism, n. meanings, etymology and more | Oxford English Dictionary

Zionism, n. meanings, etymology, pronunciation and more in the Oxford English Dictionary

https://www.oed.com/dictionary/zionism_n?tab=factsheet#13691072

OP posts:
Mayorq · 09/10/2024 23:01

Mansplaining
Gaslighting

Paisleydad · 09/10/2024 23:02

Decimated.
Literally.

JoanCollected · 09/10/2024 23:04

Well yeah. The majority of the world see these words only in use by others or in newspapers so often misunderstand their exact meaning. It’s hardly surprising.

Davros · 09/10/2024 23:05

Paisleydad · 09/10/2024 23:02

Decimated.
Literally.

These

Sodthebloodymealplan · 09/10/2024 23:07

Narcissism

Oodiks · 09/10/2024 23:09

Mayorq · 09/10/2024 23:01

Mansplaining
Gaslighting

You don't think people know what these words mean when they use them?

OP posts:
YourLastNerve · 09/10/2024 23:10

Average
Typical

StudioCreate · 09/10/2024 23:12

Unique

Oodiks · 09/10/2024 23:13

Davros · 09/10/2024 23:05

These

Often together, "It was, like, literally decimated" when they mean it was slightly damaged.

OP posts:
TwattyMcFuckFace · 09/10/2024 23:13

What do you mean pacifically OP?

Oodiks · 09/10/2024 23:13

StudioCreate · 09/10/2024 23:12

Unique

Especially, "that's really unique" as if something could be just a bit unique.

OP posts:
Oodiks · 09/10/2024 23:14

TwattyMcFuckFace · 09/10/2024 23:13

What do you mean pacifically OP?

OMG - I had a colleague who used that to 'pacifically' wind me up!

OP posts:
ichundich · 09/10/2024 23:15

Did your last thread not go how you intended? What is happening in Gaza right now meets the definition of 'genocide'.

TheaBrandt · 09/10/2024 23:15

People frequently misuse the word mortifying. Also mixing up the words weary and wary which have very different meanings.

Daftasabroom · 09/10/2024 23:16

TheaBrandt · 09/10/2024 23:15

People frequently misuse the word mortifying. Also mixing up the words weary and wary which have very different meanings.

Wery different

Maria1979 · 09/10/2024 23:20

Toxic. Everyone and everything is toxic.

KnickerlessParsons · 09/10/2024 23:22

Normal and abnormal.

Percent, as in "I gave 110% effort"

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 09/10/2024 23:23

Giving over OP. People know.

Obeseandashamed · 09/10/2024 23:25

OCD

echt · 09/10/2024 23:31

Trigger, triggering, trigger warning.

Stuff someone doesn't like.

Thunderpants88 · 09/10/2024 23:32

Narcissistic
Gaslighting
Abusive (when people disagree with someone else reasonably but original person claims they are being abused)
Toxic
OCD
Literally

Oodiks · 09/10/2024 23:35

ichundich · 09/10/2024 23:15

Did your last thread not go how you intended? What is happening in Gaza right now meets the definition of 'genocide'.

You are ascribing intention where there was none.

As horrifying as the apparent death toll is, it is nowhere near the horrifying toll on Jews, Romas, and other 'undesirables' in Nazi Germany or Tutsis in Rwanda, so not at the level of genocide in my opinion.

There is also the question of numbers as Hamas does not differentiate between combatant and civilian lives lost so it's hard to know what's really going on. Killing combatants in a war is sadly fair game, and I've read that the combatant to civilian death ratio in this conflict may actually be quite low.

OP posts:
InfoSecInTheCity · 09/10/2024 23:35

TheaBrandt · 09/10/2024 23:15

People frequently misuse the word mortifying. Also mixing up the words weary and wary which have very different meanings.

This one unreasonably irritates me, along with the word literally.

"I literally died!"

No you fucking didn't, if you had literally died you would not be standing here literally annoying me to the point where I want to punch you

Oodiks · 09/10/2024 23:37

InfoSecInTheCity · 09/10/2024 23:35

This one unreasonably irritates me, along with the word literally.

"I literally died!"

No you fucking didn't, if you had literally died you would not be standing here literally annoying me to the point where I want to punch you

This!

OP posts:
Knittedfairies2 · 09/10/2024 23:40

Mortified
Nonplussed