Silly really but one of my fiends went to a gathering with me on Friday evening. We baked at her house before hand and I left some cooking equipment at hers. Went to gathering with intention that I would go back to hers and sleep over, and obviously take said equipment back to mine. But she ended up leaving early, went home and then I went home separately. I had plans most of yesterday (she knew about) and she offered to drop round after. I said yes but then she said never mind, I’ve gone out. Fine. I left my phone off this morning for some peace and a lie in. However I turned my phone on and she said yu can come whenever you’re ready. Fine. I need a shower, to brush my teeth and get dressed as I hate people coming into my home when I’m being a slouch. But as I was about to shower she turned up at my door (another family member answered) asking to see me as I have her stuff. Wouldn’t leave so now she is waiting in my house while I am having a shower and not ready. It’s stupid I know but I feel a little invaded? She has turned up unannounced before. Am I being unreasonable to be uncomfortable with this?