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70isaLimitNotaTarget · 21/09/2024 23:39

BIossomtoes · 21/09/2024 23:28

How can she be a prostitute? She’s giving it away.

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Eventually there will be money changing hands .
Selling sex isn't illegal but advertising sex for sale is (IIRC)

Also 'living off immoral earnings' the phrase used to be ,

She;ll be earning from posting online .

Maybe some of these men will think this could be their way to get discovered ? ( in the Sex Industry . There's far fewer men than women but I;ll bet the men earn more I suppose they need to start somewhere ? )

pinpoplou · 21/09/2024 23:39

5128gap · 21/09/2024 23:36

How would your son be exposed to it? If he's a decent young man he will hear of it and likely think it all sounds rather disgusting, and nothing to do with his life and will get on with his business. The woman isn't visiting the halls dragging innocent young men out of their rooms. She is posting an address that they can chose to visit or not. In all honesty, if I had to worry that my DSs would involve themselves in something like this, I'd be looking a lot closer to home to apportion blame, as something would have gone seriously wrong in terms of the values I'd hoped to have instilled.

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I'm not worried my son would do anything there, I however don't like the idea of him being exposed to it as a fresher. Wow, you're on it tonight!!

EagerGoldViper · 21/09/2024 23:40

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FasterMichelin · 21/09/2024 23:40

MidnightMeltdown · 21/09/2024 23:31

Really? I very much doubt that you would get many women queuing up for this.

Men and women are not the same (as much as some would like to pretend otherwise).

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I agree. They would have zero women in the queue.

This woman is a sex worker. She is using the horny men (they are men) to make money. The horny men are consenting.

It's grim but it's not abuse.

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 23:40

There’s more to life than that.

Yep, fame & fortune via sex is definitely progression.

Alucard55 · 21/09/2024 23:40

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 23:30

However, the fact that men will queue up to have sex with a woman and basically treat her like a slab of meat surely tells us a lot about what men think about women. Any decent man would say no this is disrespectful we do not treat women like that

I think this is a contradictory message, it’s ok for her to want to be treated as a slab of meat but wrong for men to answer her advert.

No I definitely do not think it's ok for a woman to want to be treated that way.

samarrange · 21/09/2024 23:41

Scentedjasmin · 21/09/2024 22:30

I remember a few years back some unfortunate Chemical Engineering students watched some porn, only to discover their lecturer pop up on screen! What on earth was he thinking?! I would say that a bunch of student Chemical Engineers locking themselves in their rooms with a box of tissues was a certainty. He was bound to get caught. He was in his sixties as I recall.

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Lecturer? Amateur level. It's not academic porn until the University is running his own channel. 😳 www.nytimes.com/2023/12/28/us/wisconsin-la-crosse-joe-gow-porn.html

ChipsCheeseAndGravey · 21/09/2024 23:41

I’m in my 20s, I think this is gross but at the end of the day I think she is doing it to make money. The boys who are taking part are fucking mining as far as I’m concerned tho. I could have been married to my DP for 40 years, kids, house, the whole shebang and if I found out he had done this when he was 18 I’d bin him off so fast. Some people are okay with stuff like this, that’s good for them. I’m not. I dumped a guy because he had been to a strip club before we met, because for me, that kind of thing is physically repulsive. But hay, that’s someone’s DDs future husband.

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 23:42

She is using the horny men (they are men) to make money. The horny men are consenting.

Some will be curious and some might see it as a route to their own Only fans fame & fortune.

Alucard55 · 21/09/2024 23:42

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 23:34

I think the treatment of women by men is comparable and I think it's quite telling that men will queue up to take turns using a women's body for sexual gratification. This woman is consenting, Gisele Pelicot didn't but men are still behaving like pack animals with absolutely no respect for women.

The whole issue of consent and her being the one to make money from the transaction means it’s definitely not the same.

The behavior of men is the same.

NonsuchCastle · 21/09/2024 23:42

Switcher · 21/09/2024 22:10

All involved are consenting adults. Unless we want to change the age of full accountability for our actions, this is all an entirely standard commercial transaction. Gross, sure, but in no way is this grooming.

She is deliberately targeting boys, fresh from home, first year at university. The law might say they are "men", but they are not, they're boys just out of home.
She is vile.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 21/09/2024 23:43

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 23:42

She is using the horny men (they are men) to make money. The horny men are consenting.

Some will be curious and some might see it as a route to their own Only fans fame & fortune.

Will you be as disgusted with those men as you are about this woman?

NonsuchCastle · 21/09/2024 23:43

oakleaffy · 21/09/2024 22:10

Well, she's being deliberately inflammatory there- Probably has some sort of personality disorder.

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She is the Katie Hopkins of sex workers! Vile.

BIossomtoes · 21/09/2024 23:44

ChipsCheeseAndGravey · 21/09/2024 23:41

I’m in my 20s, I think this is gross but at the end of the day I think she is doing it to make money. The boys who are taking part are fucking mining as far as I’m concerned tho. I could have been married to my DP for 40 years, kids, house, the whole shebang and if I found out he had done this when he was 18 I’d bin him off so fast. Some people are okay with stuff like this, that’s good for them. I’m not. I dumped a guy because he had been to a strip club before we met, because for me, that kind of thing is physically repulsive. But hay, that’s someone’s DDs future husband.

Let’s wait until you’re old enough to have been married for 40 years, shall we? I came out with all sorts of shit in my 20s that was so naive I cringe to think of it.

Hoardasauruskaren · 21/09/2024 23:44

hoarahloux · 21/09/2024 21:36

She says "students" but I suspect she means "boys".

She's taking advantage of drunk young men new to university. Obviously freshers week involves a lot of sex. I feel like an experienced older woman targeting clubbing 18 year olds, who will be drinking, is taking advantage. If this was a man, imagine what would be said.

My thoughts exactly! If it was a man offering this to 18 yr old girls there would be uproar! And I don’t believe she’s only 25! If she is then all that sex must be ageing! The whole thing is just sleazy!

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 23:45

The behavior of men is the same.

How so @Alucard55?

Having sex with a consenting adult is not the same as raping someone.

Happyher · 21/09/2024 23:45

poppyzbrite4 · 21/09/2024 23:19

How is it manipulation? She's giving out her address and there'll be a stampede to get to her font door.

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Because they’ve no idea of the fallout from being filmed and having it on the internet forever

EagerGoldViper · 21/09/2024 23:45

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LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 21/09/2024 23:45

NonsuchCastle · 21/09/2024 23:42

She is deliberately targeting boys, fresh from home, first year at university. The law might say they are "men", but they are not, they're boys just out of home.
She is vile.

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Husbands, uncles are also welcome.

You're being ridiculous; this event is careful in that only adults are included. 18 year old men are not boys, they are legally adults. Do better by your sons and make them understand that women are not there for their purposes and to treat them with respect.

ChipsCheeseAndGravey · 21/09/2024 23:46

BIossomtoes · 21/09/2024 23:44

Let’s wait until you’re old enough to have been married for 40 years, shall we? I came out with all sorts of shit in my 20s that was so naive I cringe to think of it.

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I like to think I’ll still have standards. Fate worse than death to be married to a minger.

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 23:46

@LyingWitchInTheWardrobe I said they are both gross ages ago.

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 23:46

I just don’t subscribe to the view that the men are gross and she’s fine.

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This makes no sense. 18yo girls fight for their country too, does that mean they can’t also be exploited?

poppyzbrite4 · 21/09/2024 23:46

Happyher · 21/09/2024 23:45

Because they’ve no idea of the fallout from being filmed and having it on the internet forever

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If they don't know how the internet works they shouldn't be at university.

dutysuite · 21/09/2024 23:47

Wow and the uni is ok with this? Gross.

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