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Katie298 · 21/09/2024 23:29

Ugh. You really are mad about defending this woman who is mad for shagging ‘teenage virgins’. Check yourselves!

Golden407 · 21/09/2024 23:29

FasterMichelin · 21/09/2024 21:34

I dunno, she clearly has good business acumen and is probably making a fortune. It's grim, yes, and something that'll likely follow her around forever, but presumably she's enjoying the benefits and making the most of this time in her life.

She clearly has "good business acumen"? Jesus!!!

EagerGoldViper · 21/09/2024 23:29

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NonsuchCastle · 21/09/2024 23:30

I just read the same article. It's disgusting.

NonsuchCastle · 21/09/2024 23:30

Toddlerteaplease · 21/09/2024 21:32

No way is she 25. She looks older. I agree OP. It's grim.

I know. Looks about 40.

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 23:30

However, the fact that men will queue up to have sex with a woman and basically treat her like a slab of meat surely tells us a lot about what men think about women. Any decent man would say no this is disrespectful we do not treat women like that

I think this is a contradictory message, it’s ok for her to want to be treated as a slab of meat but wrong for men to answer her advert.

MidnightMeltdown · 21/09/2024 23:31

Happyher · 21/09/2024 23:17

It’s actually abuse and manipulation. Imagine if it was a man making this offer to girls

Really? I very much doubt that you would get many women queuing up for this.

Men and women are not the same (as much as some would like to pretend otherwise).

NonsuchCastle · 21/09/2024 23:31

LightDrizzle · 21/09/2024 21:37

What a creep!

Filming them too, - I know they are consenting but they could be as young as 18 and still making crap decisions with their weirdy adolescent brains.

And having them "queue" (from the article). Not even an appointment. they form a queue.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 21/09/2024 23:32

EagerGoldViper you sound like an incel. Ugh.

Alucard55 · 21/09/2024 23:32

MingingTiles · 21/09/2024 23:26

This is not in any way comparable to Gisèle Pelicot. Good grief.

I think the treatment of women by men is comparable and I think it's quite telling that men will queue up to take turns using a women's body for sexual gratification. This woman is consenting, Gisele Pelicot didn't but men are still behaving like pack animals with absolutely no respect for women.

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 23:32

@EagerGoldViper there’s so much free content as you say so it doesn’t make sense. I guess because the only fans have “relationships” with their subscribers which makes it more personal?

BiscuitlyBoyle · 21/09/2024 23:33

Alucard55 · 21/09/2024 23:24

I probably won't express myself very well but considering what is going on in France just now I find this quite worrying.

I do believe a woman's body is her own and she can choose what to do with it. However, the fact that men will queue up to have sex with a woman and basically treat her like a slab of meat surely tells us a lot about what men think about women. Any decent man would say no this is disrespectful we do not treat women like that.

Exactly my thoughts. There are a seemingly large number of men who only wear a veneer of respectability. Given the chance to have sex with a woman with no strings or repercussions the mask quickly slips.

WooleyMunky · 21/09/2024 23:33

A mid 30s woman preying on 18yr old boys.
If the genders were reversed they would have a job at the BBC...

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 23:34

I think the treatment of women by men is comparable and I think it's quite telling that men will queue up to take turns using a women's body for sexual gratification. This woman is consenting, Gisele Pelicot didn't but men are still behaving like pack animals with absolutely no respect for women.

The whole issue of consent and her being the one to make money from the transaction means it’s definitely not the same.

NonsuchCastle · 21/09/2024 23:34

Buffypaws · 21/09/2024 21:54

Yeah it’s grim but many 18 year old men want nothing but sex. I’m not down really as it doesn’t help women in general but on the other hand I can’t blame her for capitalising on men’s stupidity.
and she does not look 45 FGS

They might legally be "men", but they are not. They are boys. I do blame her. And yes she looks at least 40, quite possibly 45.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 21/09/2024 23:34

WooleyMunky · 21/09/2024 23:33

A mid 30s woman preying on 18yr old boys.
If the genders were reversed they would have a job at the BBC...

If the SEXES were reversed, yes they would, they'd probably be knighted as well. Just shows what a misogynistic society we live in.

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 23:35

I also don’t believe anything close to 5000 men will be queuing up.

WeirdyWorldy · 21/09/2024 23:35

I have to wonder about her background.

This. :(

5128gap · 21/09/2024 23:36

pinpoplou · 21/09/2024 23:20

Absolutely awful. I pressed you are being unreasonable by accident. YANBU. To think of young and in some cases vulnerable 18year olds taking up the offer. I'd be disgusted my son would be even exposed to this. Shame on her. Clearly something wrong with her

How would your son be exposed to it? If he's a decent young man he will hear of it and likely think it all sounds rather disgusting, and nothing to do with his life and will get on with his business. The woman isn't visiting the halls dragging innocent young men out of their rooms. She is posting an address that they can chose to visit or not. In all honesty, if I had to worry that my DSs would involve themselves in something like this, I'd be looking a lot closer to home to apportion blame, as something would have gone seriously wrong in terms of the values I'd hoped to have instilled.

ConsuelaHammock · 21/09/2024 23:36

Dirty biatch!

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 23:36

I dunno, she clearly has good business acumen

🤦‍♀️

FasterMichelin · 21/09/2024 23:37

Golden407 · 21/09/2024 23:29

She clearly has "good business acumen"? Jesus!!!

Well, yes. She's presumably going to make a shit load of money from the videos and won't need to pay the participants. It's good business sense. That doesn't mean I agree or advocate for the business.

NetflixAndKill · 21/09/2024 23:37

She’s expecting a queue outside the door, I’m wondering how many men will join the queue when she wants to settle down, get married and have babies? 🤔

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 23:38

I honestly don't think that there's a man on the planet who would turn down free sex if he thought that nobody would find out. The numbers are limited only by the fact that it is filmed.

thats rubbish

BIossomtoes · 21/09/2024 23:39

NetflixAndKill · 21/09/2024 23:37

She’s expecting a queue outside the door, I’m wondering how many men will join the queue when she wants to settle down, get married and have babies? 🤔

Why would she want that? I thought we’d progressed a bit further than thinking that’s all women want. There’s more to life than that.