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BIossomtoes · 21/09/2024 23:14

5128gap · 21/09/2024 23:12

I'm glad you posted this. I was starting to think I was going mad myself! All this focus on one (admittedly highly questionable) woman, yet seemingly no concern that 5000 men are up for it. Some with wives, many only just into adulthood, yet already acting like a pack of animals. I'm shocked that people are so distracted by the 'bad woman' that they can't see the truly horrifying aspect of this. No decent man or boy should go anywhere near this. Yet thousands are. That's far far more concerning than the existence and behaviour of this one woman.

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Absolutely. It’s misogyny of the highest order. Poor little 18 year olds being preyed on - they’ll be jostling to get to the front of the queue.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 21/09/2024 23:15

Don't care if I'm a prude for saying so - i think we could do with a bit more prudishness in society to be honest if this is where we are at.

I think that horse has bolted, CeruleanBelt. Society seemingly now has no brakes at all, you can see it in so many aspects. So little respect for other people.

CeruleanBelt · 21/09/2024 23:16

BIossomtoes · 21/09/2024 23:14

Absolutely. It’s misogyny of the highest order. Poor little 18 year olds being preyed on - they’ll be jostling to get to the front of the queue.

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Not every occasion of criticising a woman is misogyny.

EagerGoldViper · 21/09/2024 23:17

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Happyher · 21/09/2024 23:17

It’s actually abuse and manipulation. Imagine if it was a man making this offer to girls

MingingTiles · 21/09/2024 23:18

BIossomtoes · 21/09/2024 23:14

Absolutely. It’s misogyny of the highest order. Poor little 18 year olds being preyed on - they’ll be jostling to get to the front of the queue.

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What a load of balls. It’s pure exploitation, and that doesn’t change even if the 18yos are keen, just as it’s still exploitation when an older man exploits a young woman even if she is keen.

poppyzbrite4 · 21/09/2024 23:19

Happyher · 21/09/2024 23:17

It’s actually abuse and manipulation. Imagine if it was a man making this offer to girls

How is it manipulation? She's giving out her address and there'll be a stampede to get to her font door.

ThirstyThursday · 21/09/2024 23:19

Toddlerteaplease · 21/09/2024 21:32

No way is she 25. She looks older. I agree OP. It's grim.

@Toddlerteaplease

i didn't read the article. She claims to be 25???

if she's 25, I'm 35.

And no she's not beautiful she's troweled on makeup over fillers/lifts/botix. Bleurgh.

shes too old to be shagging 18 year olds

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BIossomtoes · 21/09/2024 23:19

poppyzbrite4 · 21/09/2024 23:19

How is it manipulation? She's giving out her address and there'll be a stampede to get to her font door.

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Exactly.

EagerGoldViper · 21/09/2024 23:20

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pinpoplou · 21/09/2024 23:20

Absolutely awful. I pressed you are being unreasonable by accident. YANBU. To think of young and in some cases vulnerable 18year olds taking up the offer. I'd be disgusted my son would be even exposed to this. Shame on her. Clearly something wrong with her

KimberleyClark · 21/09/2024 23:20

hoarahloux · 21/09/2024 21:36

She says "students" but I suspect she means "boys".

She's taking advantage of drunk young men new to university. Obviously freshers week involves a lot of sex. I feel like an experienced older woman targeting clubbing 18 year olds, who will be drinking, is taking advantage. If this was a man, imagine what would be said.

She's quite happy to do their dads as well. "Husbands" are mentioned in the article.

Funnywonder · 21/09/2024 23:20

Men are sad and pathetic. That is all ...

Alucard55 · 21/09/2024 23:24

I probably won't express myself very well but considering what is going on in France just now I find this quite worrying.

I do believe a woman's body is her own and she can choose what to do with it. However, the fact that men will queue up to have sex with a woman and basically treat her like a slab of meat surely tells us a lot about what men think about women. Any decent man would say no this is disrespectful we do not treat women like that.

Gingerkittykat · 21/09/2024 23:24

Why is the local newspaper giving her a free advert?

Ignoring her would be a far better thing to do.

EagerGoldViper · 21/09/2024 23:25

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Alucard55 · 21/09/2024 23:24

I probably won't express myself very well but considering what is going on in France just now I find this quite worrying.

I do believe a woman's body is her own and she can choose what to do with it. However, the fact that men will queue up to have sex with a woman and basically treat her like a slab of meat surely tells us a lot about what men think about women. Any decent man would say no this is disrespectful we do not treat women like that.

This is not in any way comparable to Gisèle Pelicot. Good grief.

Katie298 · 21/09/2024 23:26

poppyzbrite4 · 21/09/2024 22:34

How do 18 year olds not know how the internet works? They are perfectly aware that if they are filmed and it's uploaded, other people will see it and it can't be erased.

They're old enough to get married and buy a house. They're way past the age of consent. They are contacting her, going to her to have sex. They're fully aware of what sex is.

She's not grooming people or manipulating them. They're not being paid. She's not going to halls and leaving a trail of sweets.

These are young adult men, intelligent enough to go to university. If they choose to queue up and have sex with a sex worker, that's their rather grim decision.

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You’re defending a prostitute wanting to have sex and film it with in her words ‘18 year old virgins’. You do know that?

poppyzbrite4 · 21/09/2024 23:26

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Was that really necessary?

BeNavyCrab · 21/09/2024 23:27

Well isn't this such a sad reflection on society today! How has something this extreme become news and it feels almost like it's a mundane "normal" thing to happen? So many things wrong with this, not least of all a woman in her twenties giving out her address freely to every Tom, Harry, Dick and their dads, uncles etc., with the intention of videoing sex together. 🤮 She's also giving it out to every sex offender! 😱

MidnightMeltdown · 21/09/2024 23:27

Any decent man would say no this is disrespectful we do not treat women like that.

I honestly don't think that there's a man on the planet who would turn down free sex if he thought that nobody would find out. The numbers are limited only by the fact that it is filmed.

poppyzbrite4 · 21/09/2024 23:28

Katie298 · 21/09/2024 23:26

You’re defending a prostitute wanting to have sex and film it with in her words ‘18 year old virgins’. You do know that?

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I'm defending the right of consenting adults to have sex with who they want.

Katie298 · 21/09/2024 23:28

Why uni students? Fresh at uni, I remember it well. Maybe law says they are young adults, so what, it’s still morally wrong. You nicey nicely live and let live will be the death of this bloody country.

BIossomtoes · 21/09/2024 23:28

Katie298 · 21/09/2024 23:26

You’re defending a prostitute wanting to have sex and film it with in her words ‘18 year old virgins’. You do know that?

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How can she be a prostitute? She’s giving it away.

Josette77 · 21/09/2024 23:29

ThirstyThursday · 21/09/2024 23:19

@Toddlerteaplease

i didn't read the article. She claims to be 25???

if she's 25, I'm 35.

And no she's not beautiful she's troweled on makeup over fillers/lifts/botix. Bleurgh.

shes too old to be shagging 18 year olds

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I think it's so interesting that a post about a woman having sex with many men has somehow degraded into insulting her appearance.

This is how misogyny keeps winning.