AIBU? Is this disgusting or am I just old-fashioned?!

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https://www.nottinghampost.com/news/nottingham-news/adult-star-who-slept-hundreds-9570473

I’m no prude but there’s just something about this that has disgusted me.

I don’t see what’s wrong with commenting on her looks? She does look older than 25 but as I already said I suspect that’s the teeth. But equally she could just be lying about her age.

I remember her. It was a way of dealing with having been raped so I understand.

Harry Styles would.

well lets face it, load of 18 year old lads, a lot of it will be like the lad in American Pie! 2 minutes each, wipe down, mouthful of tea, bite of toast, relube and get the papers signed.

Exactly. She'd been gang raped.

This shit is not empowering. It's someone so screwed up they're persuading themselves that it's all okay.

There really isn't any blame to apportion anywhere but if it's insisted on then I'll place it firmly and squarely on the men involved.

We can think it gross but where and why are you apportioning blame to this woman? None of the men need to avail themselves of this service. Not a single one. What does that tell you?

Essentially, you're blaming her but have to pull back to blaming both the men and her in order to lash out at her (which is what all women seem to want to do).

This is a man problem. They want sex anywhere they can get it and that realisation is making women feel uncomfortable.

Unless you've experienced what she has you really can't comprehend.

If she does this she should be charged with sexual offences. Vile

which ones ?

I guess only circulating offensive material if it goes online . If all the participents give their consent to potentially be filmed and uploaded and they are Age of Consent then nought there .

She's going to photo their ID . Of course they;re all going have have ID , I mean no-one EVER has fake ID do they ?

Women would queue up to have sex with Harry Styles, but they'd want to be the only one, not number 2000. Also i imagine it would take a lot more intervention to keep him hard enough to make that many women come / have that many erections

Unless you know me, you can't really comprehend what I've experienced and haven't.

I'm allowed an opinion based on experience, thanks. And I'm pretty sure I know what I'm seeing. Luckily, you're perfectly entitled to disagree.

Grim, and no way is she 25.

Where are they being coerced? They don't have to do this at all.

Reversing the sexes (not genders) doesn't work. 18 year old girls would not be attracted to an older man (or any man really) doing the same thing as this woman. Reason for that being - in my opinion - that women do not purposely go for 'sloppy seconds', they expect exclusivity or at least not being one of many.

LaurieFairyCake made a really good point upthread about what we're teaching our 18 year olds - and what are we instilling in them and in the men around us that they think this behaviour is acceptable.

Quite. And you don't know the woman you're talking about either.

I really don't think they'd care. There would be a queue around the block to be in the same room as him, never mind have sex with him. As for the technicalities, I was just giving an example of a man that would be able to form an orderly queue.

made a really good point upthread about what we're teaching our 18 year olds - and what are we instilling in them and in the men around us that they think this behaviour is acceptable.

Why do some women think this is an acceptable way to behave?

Oh a 'famous' man, that's totally different - that is the kryptonite for many women but a bog-standard one, no.

Her parents must be so proud.

There really isn't any blame to apportion anywhere but if it's insisted on then I'll place it firmly and squarely on the men involved.
We can think it gross but where and why are you apportioning blame to this woman? None of the men need to avail themselves of this service. Not a single one. What does that tell you?

As I said I think both the men who do this and the women who want to do this are both gross. Equally she doesn’t need to offer this service,

When i saw her age i thought well there isn't that much difference between 25 and 18 really. Then you see her picture and there's no way on gods green earth that she is 25. She just isn't. More like 35 at least. And now a 35 year old making money off shagging as many teenagers (who are half her age)as she can is disgusting. They're not paying her but she's going to be posting those videos far and wide.

It can't be a direct comparison but a 35 year old man prowling around a uni on freshers week and offering 18 year old girls money to sleep with him would be a predator.

Don't care if I'm a prude for saying so - i think we could do with a bit more prudishness in society to be honest if this is where we are at.

I'm glad you posted this. I was starting to think I was going mad myself! All this focus on one (admittedly highly questionable) woman, yet seemingly no concern that 5000 men are up for it. Some with wives, many only just into adulthood, yet already acting like a pack of animals. I'm shocked that people are so distracted by the 'bad woman' that they can't see the truly horrifying aspect of this. No decent man or boy should go anywhere near this. Yet thousands are. That's far far more concerning than the existence and behaviour of this one woman.

It doesn't REMOTELY apply to 18 year old girls or their mums or aunties

No women would do this !!!!

I don't buy the 'if it was Harry styles' either - women DO NOT DO THIS

Only men are scummy enough to do this

There's not a man on the planet I'd queue round the block to fuck

Nasty. She should get some self respect