AIBU? Is this disgusting or am I just old-fashioned?!

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https://www.nottinghampost.com/news/nottingham-news/adult-star-who-slept-hundreds-9570473

I’m no prude but there’s just something about this that has disgusted me.

She's making her money by selling the footage. Those lads are putting themselves out there and making her wealthy just to get their end away.

...(because like fuck she's 25, she looks older than me and I'm 33 and fucking tired)

Your vitriol is making you spiteful - and laughably boastful. Nobody who is 'tired' at 33 looks younger than a 25 year old.

However old this woman is, she has created a furore which is exactly what she wants. Blame the men who will be flocking to have sex with her.

"On September 25, I'll be sharing my address online and letting the uni students and husbands queue."

This is really gross. Why students? Why husbands?! Why?

Yeh I agree, it's grim! And holding a grubby piece of cardboard to recruit her victims is shameful.

It's grim in many ways , not in the least glamorising prostitution/porn , but it's all upfront. No one is targeting drunk/vulnerable teens.

You can have sex with me , IF you let me film you.

Plenty of men signed up. Nevermind her, what does that say about our society?

That's not prostitution, PickAChew, it's free at point of use. Grim as it is, it is stomach-turning but it's not illegal which prostitution is.

She's going to release the address of her AirB&B

Air B&B owners will be thinking "Well that's one set of sheets I won't be laundering , straight in the bin for them"

It's vile , but they're over 18 and as long as they know they could appear on the internet at a later date and use protection then I'm sure they can make the choices for themselves ?

Though if it was my son, Id make sure he got an STI check .

Wouldn’t your vagina get a bit sore with that much sex?

No. This would be victim blaming. She is the abuser, taking advantage of vulnerable young people. In other words a predator.

Blame the men who will be flocking to have sex with her.

Why is she absolved from any blame?

Henry Cavill would suddenly seem a lot less hot when there’s a camera in my face and he’s wiping his willy on a towel

Yes absolutely no way she is 25, I would say 30s at least. From the article headlines (I haven't read it) lecturers and parents were also involved. If this is true, how and why? Like what sort of parents and lecturers would be going to freshers events. And I agree Nottingham Trent need to get onto this and expose her.

@Viviennemary how exactly is she a predator? All she's offering is sex/her body. No one needs sex. No one needs sex with her. She's not going to"undercover". She's not using false pretences. She's not grooming anyone, getting anyone drunk, or faking a relationship/love/whatever bullshit with anyone.

which ones?

I have no idea why anyone is criticising her, have you all gone raving mad ?

Perhaps we should be thinking about how we brought our 18 year old boys up?

And our husbands and brothers?

They're the idiots who are happy to get filmed and get it put on the internet for all eternity ?!?

How thick are men exactly?

She's just making money, in the only way she knows how. In a way that women have had to do for literally thousands of years 🤷‍♀️

The men are disgusting, stupid, irresponsible and loads of them will be cheating

Her, she's upfront about what she's doing

25???

What do you want to blame her for? She's offering a service, free of charge. Nobody had to take her up on it, there's no coercion just some clever 'marketing' to men. Who really don't need any encouragement at all.

You might not like it, I don't either, but I'm liking less these posts from women saying that they look younger than her at at least 10-20 years older and making jibes about her looks.

You (general, not aimed at you) can froth at her all you like but she's doing nothing illegal and, if men were not so gross as they are, she would have no business, would she?

I'm really hoping that this is just BS for publicity. As surely no sex worker would be so naive as to post her address with an open invitation to queue. As if a drunk mob waiting for sex with a porn star are going to form an orderly line and wait their turn. She will be in need of a great deal of security to protect her, or never mind predator, she'd be torn apart.

@Sia8899 yep but it wouldn’t put everyone off.

@LyingWitchInTheWardrobe my point was if we apportioning blame for whatever reason then imo the men and her are both to blame. I’ve not said she is doing anything illegal, I just think all involved are gross.

Wow, if this was a ‘25’ year old male doing the same for females it would 100% be classed as predatory behaviour. Grim is the word.

Sorry, I think women who do stuff like this are often seriously damaged. It makes me feel physically ill. Reminds me of porn star Annabel Chong (who had in earlier life been gang raped and later filmed "the biggest gang bang ever" before later exiting the porn industry). It's fucking grim.

Reverse the genders and give it some more thought. 18 year old boys can also be coersed into actions they will regret forever. Starting adult life with a phonographic video of yourself online?? And her specifically targeting freshers. Those 18 year olds, some of whom were legally children last month? Its pretty sick