AIBU? Is this disgusting or am I just old-fashioned?!

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https://www.nottinghampost.com/news/nottingham-news/adult-star-who-slept-hundreds-9570473

I’m no prude but there’s just something about this that has disgusted me.

"Bonk" 😖 cringe

One would hope the Nottingham Uni are on to this and are trying to dissuade their students with the message that "What goes on the internet STAYS on the internet" Personally I would add "Do you want your parents getting frisky and watching some porn and seeing you have sex with this woman? Do you think any of you would be happy with that?". The Ick Factor would probably be enough to put an awful lot of them off!

And lets be realistic. She may have had 5000 enquiries (which I doubt) but the vast majority of them wont be from freshers who are actually prepared to turn up. Most will be from much older sexual inadequates who spilled their guts to her then had a wank about what they would like to do to her. And the vast majority of the students will have emailed with bravado egged on by their friends but would be too terrified to actually do it.

But yes, grim. And also, another vote in the "no way is she 25". If she is 25 then I am 30! (I am 51 for the record)

Shouldn't all the men be too though, including the production company?

Grim is the word.

Plenty of male millionaire sports/music/film stars stars do that every weekend, minus the posting to porn sites...and even then its hardly news that many of these men film themselves.

Totally grim. Call me old fashioned, prude or whatever - it’s just disgusting. Sad to see so many men think this is ok and are happy to be filmed.

Because she's specifically targeting young, impressionable, inexperienced people who are unlikely to consider the potential future ramifications of having videos of them shagging some bird on the internet? Teenagers. She's a grown adult going after people who still have "teen" in their name. If it was a man going after 18yo girls it'd be seen as predatory no matter how quickly or willingly they dropped their knickers, the same should apply for young men.

A predator.

I remember a few years back some unfortunate Chemical Engineering students watched some porn, only to discover their lecturer pop up on screen! What on earth was he thinking?! I would say that a bunch of student Chemical Engineers locking themselves in their rooms with a box of tissues was a certainty. He was bound to get caught. He was in his sixties as I recall.

She's utterly digusting!! My DD is 25 - that wan has a good 20 years on her! I hope young lads don't fall for it but when the drink is in the wit is out.

The young men/boys who do get involved in this may well live to regret it when they are older have a different outlook on life. At that age you tend to live for the moment and lack life experience to think ahead to how you might feel about something in ten years time. The problem is that these days reckless and immature decisions end up being filmed and there is often a permanent record. I had a partner who had been involved with a much older woman when he was only 16. As he grew older he began to feel very different about it and saw it for the abuse it was.

Maybe it’s not an either / or?

How do 18 year olds not know how the internet works? They are perfectly aware that if they are filmed and it's uploaded, other people will see it and it can't be erased.

They're old enough to get married and buy a house. They're way past the age of consent. They are contacting her, going to her to have sex. They're fully aware of what sex is.

She's not grooming people or manipulating them. They're not being paid. She's not going to halls and leaving a trail of sweets.

These are young adult men, intelligent enough to go to university. If they choose to queue up and have sex with a sex worker, that's their rather grim decision.

Each to their own. All consenting adults.

Like I said earlier, it would never happen, would it? 5000 18 year old girls, their mums and aunties would never queue for filmed sex with an older male porn star. So if it was a man he'd have to resort to coercion, trickery, bribery or some other underhand or even criminal activity to get any participants.

There is no point whatsoever in trying to flip the sexes here because it doesn't work. A man wanting to do what this woman is doing would have to use some extremely predatory means to have a hope of any takers. All this woman needs to do is post her address.

She's not a prostitute as she's not charging. That doesn't mean I like the concept, I think it's quite sad and will follow her around forever but rather her than sex workers because she seems to be delighted.

I really dislike the term 'lowly prostitutes'; what do you call the men who 'go there' then? It's men who are the problem; men who have wives and girlfriends blissfully unaware at home, but are quite happy to pay a woman for sex.

No way 25! 35 I'd say (atleast) and despicable.

Its the game show host teeth, very ageing.

its gross but some people are desperate for fame.

Soggy seconds in extremis.

Gross in so many ways.

Teeth

Do you have a thread on Al Fayed or just willing participants wanting to sleep with a pretty woman?

I'm assuming all of the blokes would have to sign a consent form to prove that they that they agree to footage of them having sex appearing on her only fans channel?

Like I said earlier, it would never happen, would it? 5000 18 year old girls, their mums and aunties would never queue for filmed sex with an older male porn star.

They would for Tom Hardy or Henry Cavill! Or whoever the youths are into these days.

It really doesn't help to accuse this woman of being older than she says she is because of her appearance. That's misogyny. You can disapprove of her lifestyle and her choices without making basic jabs at her appearance that don't just affect her.