AIBU? Is this disgusting or am I just old-fashioned?!

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https://www.nottinghampost.com/news/nottingham-news/adult-star-who-slept-hundreds-9570473

I’m no prude but there’s just something about this that has disgusted me.

No, I don’t. All of those situations sound terrible, but are you saying I don’t care about anything else going on in the world? You’ve failed to mention the ongoing situation in Palestine, Lebanon and the disgusting pig that was Mohammed El Fayed but you probably care about those too, as I do. Maybe make a thread about the other issues you’ve mentioned if you’re inclined.

There something very wrong with declaring publicly your target customers are very young men many of whom have probably only just left home.

Do you not understand that this is the 'genius' part of it? The conversations that will be had, stern warnings from anxious mothers. The more warnings the better, makes something 'out of bounds' and therefore a simply must-do for many. That said, 18 year old men do not have a right to have sex with a woman and they have personal responsibility for what they do. If they choose to stand in line then that's on them, nobody else.

If the article had been 'send me your husbands' that would have invoked an outrage but not nearly as much as 'I'm taking your sons...'. She has hedged her bets and referred to husbands, neatly mopping those up too.

This is a damaged woman doing something that will cause her further damage but that's obscured by 'the win', the bank balance, the notoriety. All things that really don't matter if you're mentally well. I feel extremely sorry for her because I don't know if there's truly a way back from this path.

Don’t be ridiculous.

A woman turns to a tabloid and brags about having sex with countless men and you think I’m being “ridiculous”.

You might want to have a rummage around in the gutter for your morals. You can ask her what her real age is while you’re there.

Just doesn't look like she's nearly 60!

Precisely. And there’s nothing wrong with my morals @SonjaBarkerFinch although you could probably do with a sight test.

It’s gross all around. Money isn’t everything and if she’s labelled a genius then please boot me off this planet.

The marketing was 'genius', Katie298, I put it in inverted commas to indicate that the concept in itself, is not. I think you're not alone in your overwhelming ire for this woman but it's clouding your ability to comprehend the meaning of what posters are actually saying.

You should definitely stay on the planet but it would be no loss to you to swerve the thread if it's causing you upset.

Aside from the sexual part (which is obviously gross) it's also gross from a hygiene perspective. Imagine all those sweaty men one after another. Assume condoms are being used but it's still grim. And I doubt it'll be nice, clean, attractive men queueing up. I just can't get my head around it both from her perspective and the men's too.

Vile people all round.

I’d be complaining about this appearing on a mainstream website and think about a complaint to a higher journalistic body. The creeping normalisation of poem is just not acceptable.

men will cheerfully stand in a queue completely naked, dicks in hand, to take part
I suspect that what's going on here is that the men don't want to lose face in front of each other, all competing to see who's the most virile and up for it. Men can be very easily triggered into vying for dominance amongst themselves and I think that's what's going on here.

Also from an evolutionary point of view if a woman has unprotected sex with several men in a row her egg will be fertilized by the strongest and most dominant sperm, so it's a way of ensuring that you get the best genetic material for your child.

Great point. The news outlets are basically pimping her out, giving her free advertising and the opportunity to reach even more people and glamorising porn/the sex "industry", for their own financial gain/clicks. All delivered in a bright, fun, cool package.

Agree.
Why? What is it in her psyche that wants her genitals to be used like a turnstile?
She needs some sort of validation that she’s attractive or has value? Just desperate to be famous ?
Seems odd parading with a billboard, and who the hell would want their encounter filmed with no idea how that’ll be used or whose hands it could end up in? Could well reappear in the future to affect careers and relationships.

Yes! It’s the free publicity and ‘fun’ tone that I find unacceptable. As if anyone who thinks this is wrong isn’t fun. And, of course, it’s written by a man.

I meant to say ‘creeping normalisation of porn’. I’d be fine with the creeping normalisation of poems.

So you're saying that women that have a lot of sex will have vaginas like a wizards sleeve?
Will this happen if a woman has numerous sexual encounters with one man?
Or will it happen only if she has sexual encounters with numerous men?

Did anyone read the new paper out that the biggest group of rape victims is 14 year old girls. And that pornography is playing a major part. It’s really not a great thing that it gets more and more normalised in society.

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/politics/article/violent-porn-warping-young-boys-attitude-to-sex-warns-home-secretary-cxqt79xpd

@5128gap Exactly as there has been on this thread when the person doing it is a woman. This woman has been called all sorts on here. Very strong condemnation, personal insults etc. In fact i dont think ive ever seen such a negative response to behaviour. So where are the double standards?

Did you read a thread? Numerous people said that the 18 year old male students are using this woman.

@Katie298 yes, but when you try to even suggest at least tighter regulations around porn and more controls, you get absolutely slaughtered (unless it's the feminism board).

What about the bombing of Northern Israel today?

Amazing how everyone always mentioned Palestine and Lebanon but not Israel in ‘terrible things’ happening.

Other threads are available - and if not, make one?

Didn't a woman do something like this as 'art' back in the late 90s/ early 2000s? She was going to shag 100 men in a row.

As for 18 yr old boys/ men, most of the ones I met an uni were pretty inexperienced with women. They were definitely more boy than man at that age. Much to my disappointment as a fairly experienced 18 year old

Keep my Optometrist out of this!

What is it specifically about what she's done that you think should be a crime?

My point is proved then.