AIBU? Is this disgusting or am I just old-fashioned?!

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https://www.nottinghampost.com/news/nottingham-news/adult-star-who-slept-hundreds-9570473

I’m no prude but there’s just something about this that has disgusted me.

The men have impressed me.

813,000 people in Nottingham, even accounting for women, age, and disability that is a lot of men. I honestly thought there would be far more than 5000 messaging. Either far more men than expected have some basic standards or her marketing strategy is way off.

I find it hard to feel any affront towards such an obviously damaged person, just pity. Not many mentally healthy women that could live with themselves after willingly becoming an extended fleshlight for hordes of rancid strangers. The parents must have really fucked up.

Yes, as many have said already, men willing to queue up for their turn are gross.

However, I take issue with those claiming it is ONLY the men who are gross in these scenarios and that she is just a business savvy sexually liberated woman.

She is advertising. She is offering. She wants other women's partners involved.

Men don't congregate and form an orderly queue with their dicks hanging out if nobody is offering.

What offends me most about her behaviour is that she is further encouraging men to see women as nothing more than warm meat hole. As if there isn't enough of that already.
What would your feelings be if a large group of those participating, or egging it on, with this woman's "sessions" go on to target your daughter for a session of their own.

I can hear it now, "oh, go on. Bonnie Blue does it. Be cool".

I believe there were “fluffers” so essentially other women who’s job it was to ensure the man is hard, ready to ejaculate and wearing a condom. I remember this story at the time, I think the women who came in third still had sex with eighty blokes.

Absolutely disgusting! What a low life lady (and I'd say the same if it were a man)

Putting everything else aside, there is no way she's 25! She looks at the very least late 30s-40

I have no idea what to say to that. Literally. Words fail me. Just why?

Thing is, most decent boys/men would not find this an attractive prospect. I know they are wired a little differently to us but what is enticing about queuing up to have a 2 minute go on some old looking woman who your mate has been at a minute earlier? It's grim.

The only men I can see going for this are your archetypal drunk 'jock' style rugby boys. Your stiflers from American pie who find the whole thing hilarious not sexy. Either that or weirdos, scruffs and perverts.

So it makes me wonder who exactly she is allowing to 'bonk' her. Does she have a vetting system? If the local tramp turned up would she let him?

Does no one have self respect anymore?

Agree.

It is the society we live in. One which tells men women are objects in so many subtle and overt ways. Objects are things that are used. That's why they can queue without questioning themselves. They've forgotten she's a human being.

The fathers and uncles that really believe she's 25 are predatory as fuck. They ought to be concerned not aroused.

That's a good point. Is there any vetting and is she aware that there's a good chance that sexual predators/rapists will turn up to have a go?

@Alucard55 she'll probably have some sort of security/entourage. But presumably that won't account for the unwashed and unattractive?

The targeting of young people is grim, but things like this Aldi add to the misogyny in society, the view that consent is sellable, that women are commodities to be used. I'd be disgusted if my son went near a situation like this

The type of men who will queue up for this are not good and decent.

Exactly. And I certainly wouldn't be losing sleep over the outcome of this for them, whether 18 or 58.

I'd never heard of her before this, but her Instagram account is interesting, she seems absolutely desperate to strike up some kind of deal with Pepsi/Pepsi Max. She mentions and shows a can or bottle in every video.

Does she really think a Global drinks brand would proudly sponsor a porn actress??

Bizarre life.

DD is at NTU so she’ll have some competition..

I think it should be a crime personally. Why would a woman that beautiful want to behave like this when she could make her money in other ways...yuck.

Imagine if a man was touring the UK to sleep with students, film them and post on his subscription service...I think she's taking advantage of young people who may not be fully considering the long term consequences of being filmed, it's quite predatory don't you think? But oh no she's a woman so it's fine?

Fucking grim. They’ll be calling her Bonnie Blue Waffle in no time.

Im sorry but on whst planet is she " old looking?" Missing the point entirely I know but she does not look old.
Has feminism served us at all?

And whilst I understand the argument of "decent men wouldn't fall for it" I can still picture some quite young and naive 19 year olds who aren't inherently bad people, just haven't emotionally developed yet, perhaps with some peer pressure thrown in, maybe some even desperate to lose their virginity, who don't fully consider the issue with it if the woman is literally inviting them and only later understand the ramifications.

If it was fully grown men I would roll my eyes, but the decision making element of the brain is not fully developed until around 25, she is preying on immaturity to make money on her channel.

Exactly as there has been on this thread when the person doing it is a woman. This woman has been called all sorts on here. Very strong condemnation, personal insults etc. In fact i dont think ive ever seen such a negative response to behaviour. So where are the double standards? Or are you saying a man would have had it easier?

Absolutely awful 😖

On one hand we have a serious problem with peer on peer abuse, sexual harassment/assaults etc. in our secondary schools, but at the same time all these (at least ) 18 yos are vulnerable, inexperienced, poor little boys being taken for a ride.

It is the society we live in. One which tells men women are objects in so many subtle and overt ways. Objects are things that are used. That's why they can queue without questioning themselves. They've forgotten she's a human being.

She is perpetuating this message too though.