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NonsuchCastle · 22/09/2024 00:08

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 21/09/2024 22:41

That's not prostitution, PickAChew, it's free at point of use. Grim as it is, it is stomach-turning but it's not illegal which prostitution is.

Prostitution is not illegal. Soliciting in a public place for prostitution is.

poppyzbrite4 · 22/09/2024 00:09

PyongyangKipperbang · 21/09/2024 23:56

They are 18, so obviously they will be the same and feel the same for the rest of their lives as they are/feel now. They know everything! I know I did at 18. I said to my mother when we were discussing my then 17 year old son, "I wish I could go back to that age, because then I would know everything again!".

At best naive, at worst willfully ignoring the possible consequences because their dicks are in charge.

In the UK children are taught about the dangers of the internet including sending nudes photos. They'll have been warned that images don't disappear.

18 year olds know that anything uploaded to the internet stays there. They'll probably have to sign a waiver as well before taking part.

That's if 18 year olds show up, I find it unlikely that loads of students will decide to be filmed having sex. According to an article she filmed herself with just over 100 in the States.

I can't believe people view these men as victims. It beggars belief.

Alucard55 · 22/09/2024 00:10

How great would it be if no men turned up because they all knew this is not how you treat women.

EagerGoldViper · 22/09/2024 00:13

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New2thisshizzle · 22/09/2024 00:13

@PyongyangKipperbang she may get sexual gratification thinking about the money or the idea she is so wanted. 🤷🏻‍♀️

And yes there will always be another women willing to take that new “title“ and men willing to assist. Until sex doesn’t sell it will always be the same.

shuggles · 22/09/2024 00:14

@Alucard55 Of course it's not. But men going out of their way to form a queue to use a women's body for their own sexual gratification and nothing more is vile. The fact that this lady is consenting does not make the men who take her up on her offer good and decent men.

Why is the narrative always that men use women?

It's no more valid than the narrative that she's using 18 year old men for her own sexual gratification and to create pornographic content, which she will no doubt profit heavily from, but they won't see a penny.

PyongyangKipperbang · 22/09/2024 00:14

poppyzbrite4 · 22/09/2024 00:09

In the UK children are taught about the dangers of the internet including sending nudes photos. They'll have been warned that images don't disappear.

18 year olds know that anything uploaded to the internet stays there. They'll probably have to sign a waiver as well before taking part.

That's if 18 year olds show up, I find it unlikely that loads of students will decide to be filmed having sex. According to an article she filmed herself with just over 100 in the States.

I can't believe people view these men as victims. It beggars belief.

Yes but as I say, 18 year olds know better. An 18 year old horny virgin will not consider any of the "what goes on the internet, stays on the internet" warnings as important as him fucking a beautiful willing woman, especially when it comes with a side order of kudos amongst his mates.

He will not even think about the fact that once word gets around that he did it, he will never get a date for his whole time at that Uni.......

New2thisshizzle · 22/09/2024 00:15

How great would it be if no men turned up because they all knew this is not how you treat women.

It would be fantastic, it would also be fantastic if women didn’t feel the need to treat themselves like this for fame and fortune.

EagerGoldViper · 22/09/2024 00:16

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shuggles · 22/09/2024 00:17

@PyongyangKipperbang He will not even think about the fact that once word gets around that he did it, he will never get a date for his whole time at that Uni.......

Well not dating anyone at university is fairly standard stuff for male students anyway, so that doesn't really count against having sex with the onlyfans woman.

Alucard55 · 22/09/2024 00:17

shuggles · 22/09/2024 00:14

@Alucard55 Of course it's not. But men going out of their way to form a queue to use a women's body for their own sexual gratification and nothing more is vile. The fact that this lady is consenting does not make the men who take her up on her offer good and decent men.

Why is the narrative always that men use women?

It's no more valid than the narrative that she's using 18 year old men for her own sexual gratification and to create pornographic content, which she will no doubt profit heavily from, but they won't see a penny.

As I said. Wouldn't it be great if no man turned up and got involved in this.

poppyzbrite4 · 22/09/2024 00:17

PyongyangKipperbang · 22/09/2024 00:14

Yes but as I say, 18 year olds know better. An 18 year old horny virgin will not consider any of the "what goes on the internet, stays on the internet" warnings as important as him fucking a beautiful willing woman, especially when it comes with a side order of kudos amongst his mates.

He will not even think about the fact that once word gets around that he did it, he will never get a date for his whole time at that Uni.......

That's his problem. Don't join a queue and have sex with a woman on film if you don't want people to see you have sex. I think anyone who does this is despicable.

ScrollingLeaves · 22/09/2024 00:18

If she wants each encounter filmed won’t she sell the films?
‘Adult star’ is a porn star presumably.

It is nasty. Freshers are very young mentally. They could do without this.

New2thisshizzle · 22/09/2024 00:18

He will not even think about the fact that once word gets around that he did it, he will never get a date for his whole time at that Uni.......

I wouldn’t be so sure, I mean serial killers can get women to love them whilst they are in prison!

NonsuchCastle · 22/09/2024 00:18

5128gap · 21/09/2024 23:12

I'm glad you posted this. I was starting to think I was going mad myself! All this focus on one (admittedly highly questionable) woman, yet seemingly no concern that 5000 men are up for it. Some with wives, many only just into adulthood, yet already acting like a pack of animals. I'm shocked that people are so distracted by the 'bad woman' that they can't see the truly horrifying aspect of this. No decent man or boy should go anywhere near this. Yet thousands are. That's far far more concerning than the existence and behaviour of this one woman.

Of course no one is surprised that males are "up for it". We know what males are like. We know what teenage boys are like - they are desperate for sex. It hardly bears mentioning.

EagerGoldViper · 22/09/2024 00:19

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New2thisshizzle · 22/09/2024 00:19

@shuggles exactly

NonsuchCastle · 22/09/2024 00:20

BIossomtoes · 21/09/2024 23:14

Absolutely. It’s misogyny of the highest order. Poor little 18 year olds being preyed on - they’ll be jostling to get to the front of the queue.

Listen, not all criticism of women or of one woman in particular is "misogyny". Nor is it jealousy.
Sometimes criticism is valid even if it is directed at - shock horror - a woman!

New2thisshizzle · 22/09/2024 00:24

She’s using the men for money and they are using her for sex, I’m not sure why she has the moral high ground, they are both gross.

PyongyangKipperbang · 22/09/2024 00:25

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She may be the woman who took the record from the woman who the documentary was about.

Actually just googled (my history will be interesting) and she was Annabel Chong and is Singaporean. She had sex with 251 men in 10 hours to make a film but her doing that is what started the "record" race. The film is "Sex. the Annabel Chong Story" but it is depressing as hell, so while it is very interesting, be aware that it is a horrible watch.

Then I read about that woman you mention and it turns out that there were THREE women competing for the title, how many men turned up for that?! Its just so so awful that there are so many grim disgusting men out there........and they wonder why we dont like them.

Skibidy · 22/09/2024 00:29

More pricks than a second hand dart board

Lovefromjuliaxo · 22/09/2024 00:29

Imagine what MN would say if this was a man. The double standards on here are a joke.

Meh, as long as they’re all over 16, consent and practice safe sex it’s no big deal. She’s probs like a wizards sleeve down there.

NonsuchCastle · 22/09/2024 00:30

BIossomtoes · 21/09/2024 23:28

How can she be a prostitute? She’s giving it away.

Er, she's a porn actor. That's having sex for money.

NonsuchCastle · 22/09/2024 00:31

poppyzbrite4 · 21/09/2024 23:26

Was that really necessary?

She is disgusting, but come on, "waving a wand in a church hall" is brilliant!

shuggles · 22/09/2024 00:32

@Lovefromjuliaxo Imagine what MN would say if this was a man. The double standards on here are a joke.

Indeed. If an extremely handsome man said he was looking for female students to have sex with so he could upload the videos to his onlyfans to make money, there would be fucking pitchforks and torches.