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To be really freaked out about seeing someone that wasn’t there??

346 replies

freakedoutseeingthings · 30/07/2024 21:18

My partners mum, step-dad, brother and 2 nieces are on holiday at the seaside so to we took our little one for the a day trip to have a beach day with his cousins today.

As we were driving into where they are staying and my partner was packing I said to him ‘I didn’t know your whole family was here’ when I saw his grandma standing next to his mum. He must have assumed that I was talking about his stepdad as he didn’t respond to it in a weird way/ask what I meant.

Then when we were inside I asked where his grandma had gone and where she was sleeping as they only have 2 bedrooms. Well it turns out that she isn’t there and is at home and I couldn’t have seen her because she’s not there??

What on earth happened?? What/who did I see?? Am I crazy now? 🙈

OP posts:
elm26 · 30/07/2024 21:26

Erm has anyone called his grandma and checked she's okay?!

Don't mean to freak you out but my friend saw her Dad in her living room as she walked in from work which wasn't a shock as he'd been decorating, she walked past the living room door, saw him and carried on to the kitchen to put her bag down and shouted "hi dad do you want a cuppa?" No reply and she went to see him and he wasn't there. She called his mobile no answer, he'd actually had a heart attack and collapsed and died at his house in the morning.

Cally62 · 30/07/2024 21:30

Oh gosh. That's more than a bit wierd.

I have no explanation, sorry. But I don't think you're crazy.
You do know I'm probably not going to sleep tonight. 😂

Shamefully place marking though...I love a good whooo.

Crunchymum · 30/07/2024 21:30

I was going to say the same thing. I'm very skeptical but I'd have been on the phone to granny ASAP.

gamerchick · 30/07/2024 21:32

I've heard of things happening like that as well amd other weird things when people have died and you don't know yet.

It's probably a trick of the mind though OP. You probably would have heard if granny had passed away by now. Might just have been a twinkle.

Yerroblemom1923 · 30/07/2024 21:32

Has anyone phoned to check on Granny yet....????

JohnTheRevelator · 30/07/2024 21:33

I was going to say exactly the same thing as elm26.

Doggymummar · 30/07/2024 21:34

My gran was in our kitchen, except she wasn't she had died earlier that day. Early 7Os
and we had no phone.

DumboNoMore · 30/07/2024 21:37

I would definitely be checking on granny.
When my DH died, before we even knew he was missing my then 4yo DS saw him. He said “Daddy’s walked through the wall but the walls not broken. Isn’t that strange?”
Found out later that evening he wasn’t in work as I’d thought and he had actually died.

Im sure granny is perfectly fine and you’re just having a funny 5 minutes but I’d be checking in on her.

CatchHimDerry · 30/07/2024 21:39

Agree I’ve heard stories of this when the person has died… phone and check pronto!

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 30/07/2024 21:42

The Images we ‘see’ are the brain interpreting patterns of light.

The brain speeds up at the job by using predictive methods, just like predictive text. Your brain sees what it expects to see, a lot of the time.

It expected to see Granny so you did.

Fannyfiggs · 30/07/2024 21:49

gamerchick · 30/07/2024 21:32

I've heard of things happening like that as well amd other weird things when people have died and you don't know yet.

It's probably a trick of the mind though OP. You probably would have heard if granny had passed away by now. Might just have been a twinkle.

What's a twinkle? 🧐

PurpleFlower1983 · 30/07/2024 21:57

Check on Granny! My mum ‘saw’ my nanna (Dad’s mum) walking across her landing on the night she died.

Rainisonmyplane · 30/07/2024 21:57

@DumboNoMore I'm so sorry about your husband. Your post made me well up.

Emmerald · 30/07/2024 22:07

My Grandad was suddenly in my car when we were going to Boulogne. I saw a single magpie fly up, skim across the car and my grandad vanished. I learned later my grandad died at roughly the time the magpie appeared.

gamerchick · 30/07/2024 22:08

Fannyfiggs · 30/07/2024 21:49

What's a twinkle? 🧐

Sort of. When you think of someone and you get a call from them moments later type of stuff.

Corvidmango · 30/07/2024 22:15

Is granny ok OP?

Littletinytarzanswingingfromanosehair · 30/07/2024 22:16

I'd check on granny ....

Fannyfiggs · 30/07/2024 22:17

gamerchick · 30/07/2024 22:08

Sort of. When you think of someone and you get a call from them moments later type of stuff.

Ah right, that's a great name for it 😃

Auditoriem · 30/07/2024 22:20

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Peanutbutterjelly123 · 30/07/2024 22:20

i think I’d be checking on grandma …

ttcat37 · 30/07/2024 22:21

Keep a note of any similar things happening or anything else odd, with a view to seeing your GP if it continues.

OneWildNightWithJBJ · 30/07/2024 22:21

My nan saw her brother when she was on holiday, except he was at home. They later found out he’d died at the time she saw him.

Hopefully Granny’s fine, but doesn’t hurt to check.

NotSoHotMess24 · 30/07/2024 22:31

Maybe your brain went a bit smooshy in the heat!

Check on Granny for sure, but if she's fine, drink plenty of water tonight, and stay in the shade tomorrow.

Sinderalla · 30/07/2024 22:39

Check in on grandma x

FloofPaws · 30/07/2024 22:45

Granny needs a check in for sure!