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To be really freaked out about seeing someone that wasn’t there??

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freakedoutseeingthings · 30/07/2024 21:18

My partners mum, step-dad, brother and 2 nieces are on holiday at the seaside so to we took our little one for the a day trip to have a beach day with his cousins today.

As we were driving into where they are staying and my partner was packing I said to him ‘I didn’t know your whole family was here’ when I saw his grandma standing next to his mum. He must have assumed that I was talking about his stepdad as he didn’t respond to it in a weird way/ask what I meant.

Then when we were inside I asked where his grandma had gone and where she was sleeping as they only have 2 bedrooms. Well it turns out that she isn’t there and is at home and I couldn’t have seen her because she’s not there??

What on earth happened?? What/who did I see?? Am I crazy now? 🙈

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Rumors1 · 09/08/2024 13:56

So the twin of the woman you thought you saw?? An identical twin?

TartanJambo · 09/08/2024 14:05

Your latest update makes for a very strange coincidence

ReadyTeddy1000 · 09/08/2024 14:12

freakedoutseeingthings · 09/08/2024 13:29

My partners grandmas twin not mine sorry 🙈

Whoa this is an interesting development

hellodolly1 · 09/08/2024 17:26

Oh my goodness , that is interesting! Yes I think she was making herself known to you . That's sad - sorry to hear that .

WiddlinDiddlin · 09/08/2024 18:00

Coincidence.

Why would someone you don't know and have never met, want to make themselves known to you?

Ponoka7 · 09/08/2024 18:04

freakedoutseeingthings · 09/08/2024 13:20

Update: My grandmas twin who I have never met has just died 😣 Could it actually be linked or just a coincidence??

Was she dying when you saw her? You thought that you saw his GM when actually it could have been her spirit.

Fannyfiggs · 09/08/2024 19:32

freakedoutseeingthings · 09/08/2024 13:29

My partners grandmas twin not mine sorry 🙈

😱

lto2019 · 09/08/2024 20:02

Blimey - you saw a person of a grandmother's age and assumed it was the grandma - identical or not -you saw someone. She had maybe come to say goodbye to her family - strange you were the one to see her and not one of them.

Cel119 · 09/08/2024 21:16

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BikesIHaveLost · 09/08/2024 21:40

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Just because they have a snappy acronym doesn’t mean they aren’t explicable.

ReadyTeddy1000 · 10/08/2024 02:21

lto2019 · 09/08/2024 20:02

Blimey - you saw a person of a grandmother's age and assumed it was the grandma - identical or not -you saw someone. She had maybe come to say goodbye to her family - strange you were the one to see her and not one of them.

But the implication (to me anyway) is that there was no person there at all. I.e the op didn't mistake some random woman for the gran - there was no random woman.
@freakedoutseeingthings could you clarify? Could it have been a random woman, or were they staying in a private property which wouldn't have others in the grounds?

HelpAGirlOut1234 · 10/08/2024 11:58

This is so strange OP, so so strange. I'm not a big believer in the woo stuff, but this is... well, strange! How do you feel about it?

Mermaidsarereal · 10/08/2024 13:18

elm26 · 30/07/2024 21:26

Erm has anyone called his grandma and checked she's okay?!

Don't mean to freak you out but my friend saw her Dad in her living room as she walked in from work which wasn't a shock as he'd been decorating, she walked past the living room door, saw him and carried on to the kitchen to put her bag down and shouted "hi dad do you want a cuppa?" No reply and she went to see him and he wasn't there. She called his mobile no answer, he'd actually had a heart attack and collapsed and died at his house in the morning.

Yes this happened to my nan when I was a kid... she saw her mother in law sat on her bed and asked my grandad when had his mother arrived as it was late for her to be out and about... my grandad said she wasn't there and had no idea what she was talking about. The next day they had a call to say she had passed the night before!

Cel119 · 10/08/2024 15:03

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Seriously? I’m embarrassed for you that you think his mass-market ‘Elvis, past-life regression and Oprah’ ‘research’ has any credibility whatsoever.

Cel119 · 10/08/2024 15:42

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BikesIHaveLost · 10/08/2024 15:52

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It’s not ‘closed-minded’ to point out that his ‘research’ consists of him believing he had a supernatural near-death experience himself in his youth after he attempted suicide, interviewing other people who believe similarly, often about experiences that happened years or decades earlier, collating similarities in these anecdotes, and deciding this is ‘evidence’ of life after death. Anecdotes are not data. It’s also not closed-minded to point out he has a strong belief in the supernatural, believes he had multiple past lives, and think you can summon the spirits of the dead in a special mirror room he built. For $300 an hour.

Letmehaveabloodyusernameplease · 10/08/2024 17:23

😱

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llizzie · 22/08/2024 14:01

I have macular disease and I found this on that website. It might be wise to have an eye test.

Charles Bonnet syndrome (CBS)
Up to half of all people with sight loss caused by macular degeneration may see the visual hallucinations known as Charles Bonnet syndrome (CBS).

llizzie · 22/08/2024 14:04

What is a visual hallucination?
A visual hallucination is the same experience as really seeing something, but the ‘something’ is not actually there.
Charles Bonnet hallucinations appear to exist in the real world rather than in the mind’s eye. They come and go unannounced and can last for just a few seconds or as long as a day or more.
CBS itself can last from days to many years. For most people the hallucinations improve with time so that they only occur very occasionally.
What do these hallucinations look like?
Charles Bonnet hallucinations can be simple unformed flashes of light, colours or shapes.
However, many people see more elaborate forms such as geometrical grids and lattices.
Some people with CBS report seeing landscaped gardens or vistas, animals, people, or processions of miniature costumed figures wearing hats, or even disembodied faces with staring eyes. The hallucinations are often seen in more vivid detail than real life.
Some people enjoy their hallucinations. However, they are more often an unwanted distraction, and can be frightening.
They can get in the way of normal vision too.

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