Guess what he thinks is wrong with me....

[SafeMouse]

So met a guy online. Date 1 - very average but thought I'd give him time to come into himself. Date 2 boy did he come into himself.....

I'll tell you about me. Early 40s, reasonably fit but no gym bunny (size 10 - 5'1). Successful career wise, live in the centre of a popular historic city in a beautiful converted flat. No kids, 2 cats. Average undergraduate degree. Divorced 6 years.

Let's guess what this Prince amongst men (hes not. Really really not) thinks is the problem with me when incredibly drunk on date 2.

Too independent?

Too fat?

You're too independent?

Too unintelligent?

Too bossy?

Not ambitious enough

Better house or car? More successful than him?

Too much drama/baggage/gold digger?

Too well-educated?

(I had one who thought that about me)

Frigid cos you don't want to sleep with him yet?

Too tall

Your standards are too high
You need sex
You are too intelligent and that's intimidating
You need to make yourself prettier with filler and Botox and shit

You should wear more dresses.

Your arse is too big?

Not enough/too much make up ?
he criticized your ex and questioned your taste in men?

I'm guessing some sort of put down because you are successful career wise and have a beautiful flat.

You’re after his money 🤣

That you’re punching?

All of the above?

Too old?

Too good for him?

You’re too fussy? (You’re not)

Crazy cat lady?

After his money

Too short