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How do you feel about women that's don't wear Make-up ?

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flutterby1 · 16/02/2024 11:34

Just wondering what your true JUDGY thoughts are? I don't wear makeup often I'm in mid forties. How am I perceived? Lazy? Frumpy? Not caring? Boring? Can't be bothered to make an effort for others ? Or confident ? Perceived as being ' pretty enough' ?

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teddycoat · 19/02/2024 21:25

in a job where most of us would just drag a brush through our hair and clean our teeth before work

You didnt even shower/have a wash before work? I would feel sad about that tbh 🙃

wpshark · 19/02/2024 21:46

Amazing how many women are in total denial about makeup. You are plastering shite on your face to make you look like a mask, do you not get it? The false eyelashes are exactly that - FALSE. The orange line on your neck for all to see is horrible. When you pose for that all-babe selfie your face crinkles up because of th elayers of crap you have on. DO you think that is sexy? Wake up girls!!!

fliptopbin · 19/02/2024 22:01

I have blonde eyebrows and eyelashes, so if I don't wear eyeliner, mascara and brow pencil then I look as though I have no brows or eyelashes at all. I have to wear makeup in order to look like I am not wearing makeup!

FluffyFanny · 19/02/2024 22:03

@wpshark most women aren't wearing false lashes and an orange line on their neck though! There's a big difference between the instagram full works and how the average woman applies her makeup

NonPlayerCharacter · 19/02/2024 22:14

wpshark · 19/02/2024 21:46

Amazing how many women are in total denial about makeup. You are plastering shite on your face to make you look like a mask, do you not get it? The false eyelashes are exactly that - FALSE. The orange line on your neck for all to see is horrible. When you pose for that all-babe selfie your face crinkles up because of th elayers of crap you have on. DO you think that is sexy? Wake up girls!!!

I know you're a man, but that doesn't change the fact that we don't give a shit what you think.

wpshark · 19/02/2024 22:26

Exactly and that is why you will never find an appropriate partner....because you dont give a shit

Chickenkeev · 19/02/2024 22:31

wpshark · 19/02/2024 21:46

Amazing how many women are in total denial about makeup. You are plastering shite on your face to make you look like a mask, do you not get it? The false eyelashes are exactly that - FALSE. The orange line on your neck for all to see is horrible. When you pose for that all-babe selfie your face crinkles up because of th elayers of crap you have on. DO you think that is sexy? Wake up girls!!!

"wake up girls"? Fuck off gobshite.

wpshark · 19/02/2024 22:36

Very classy response.

Chickenkeev · 19/02/2024 22:45

wpshark · 19/02/2024 22:36

Very classy response.

It wasn't supposed to be 'classy'. It was supposed to be direct.

wpshark · 19/02/2024 22:55

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Chickenkeev · 19/02/2024 22:57

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You are most amusing 😂

LoseLooseLucy · 19/02/2024 22:59

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Belovedbagle · 19/02/2024 22:59

I'm in my 50's and think foundation ages mature skin.. I use a spray tanning mist, bit of concealer and eye make up when I go out but usually.. nothing!

BadCovers · 19/02/2024 23:09

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You sound quite mad. Are you an unhinged Joe Dolan fan who sleeps with a copy of ‘It’s You, It’s You, It’s You’ clutched to your chest?

Stripedbowtie · 19/02/2024 23:25

To be totally honest, everyone is different. I wear makeup everyday and it’s because I think I look better with it and I like to look put together. I keep it simple during the day but it’s part of my ritual. I never leave the house without it. But I have low self esteem and spent my childhood feeling ugly because all the pretty kids were popular and worshiped.

so from MY perspective, which is gonna be different from the perspective of someone who is confident and has lots of self esteem… I think people who don’t wear makeup either don’t know how to put it on properly so don’t bother, don’t care what others think, are confident in their own skin, don’t have the same priorities that I have or, don’t value appearance as that important. I wish I had more confidence to not wear it and the older I get the less of it I wear to a point where I could go without it but then I developed hyperpigmentation which will not go away no matter what so now I have to cover that. Typical!

BoobyDazzler · 19/02/2024 23:26

I can’t say I ever notice.

Stripedbowtie · 19/02/2024 23:27

Also to add I have a colleague who is my age and is naturally absolutely beautiful. I don’t think she’d look better with makeup on either. She never wears it, even on nights out, she is just absolutely stunning and doesn’t even realise it.

Chickenkeev · 19/02/2024 23:28

BadCovers · 19/02/2024 23:09

You sound quite mad. Are you an unhinged Joe Dolan fan who sleeps with a copy of ‘It’s You, It’s You, It’s You’ clutched to your chest?

That's the second Joe Dolan reference I've seen here in the last couple of weeks -what's going on?

Conniethecatapillar · 19/02/2024 23:28

In my 20s I would barely leave the house without make up but now late 30s it's only if I'm on a night out that I'll wear some. I find it makes me look even older now when I wear it which is not the effect I am going for and it's quite depressing 😅

BadCovers · 19/02/2024 23:30

Chickenkeev · 19/02/2024 23:28

That's the second Joe Dolan reference I've seen here in the last couple of weeks -what's going on?

That poster referenced some Joe Dolan lyrics earlier on the thread! I mean, I wasn’t randomly namechecking him or anything (though my aunt was a huge fan…)

Chickenkeev · 19/02/2024 23:33

BadCovers · 19/02/2024 23:30

That poster referenced some Joe Dolan lyrics earlier on the thread! I mean, I wasn’t randomly namechecking him or anything (though my aunt was a huge fan…)

Lol, sorry! I think there was another reference though, there's a Joe mafia on here 😁

NonPlayerCharacter · 20/02/2024 06:50

wpshark · 19/02/2024 22:26

Exactly and that is why you will never find an appropriate partner....because you dont give a shit

You're absolutely right. I'm completely fucked romantically.

And why are you on Mumsnet screeching at women about makeup?

Conkersinautumn · 20/02/2024 07:06

Never wear it and as above no, I can't apply it as I've never tried beyond trying my mums as a small child. I was raised to understand I wasn't attractive enough to bother which was reinforced by people I went to school with.

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MontyDonsBlueScarf · 20/02/2024 07:57

Clearly a troll, but if you are for real you must be old and brought up in the 1950s.

Easy on the ageism please. I think you meant to say that this is an attitude that belongs in the 1950s.

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