To want my own duvet?

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Have no issue sharing a bed with DH (despite the snoring)
But
Hate sharing the duvet... wake up too cold or too hot

Does anyone else share a bed but not a duvet?

I don’t - but I have part Danish in laws and everyone does there. I can see the appeal.

This is quite a common solution especially where people have different temperature preferences.

Most couples in Sweden. It's seen as completely normal there. Go for it!

Yes! We do this because the slightest movement of the duvet from DP rolling over wakes me, and also I like to tuck the duvet snugly around me for sleep, which is much easier to do with one each. Works for us. 😀

My parents have always had a duvet each. I really need to start doing this as DH steals it in the night.

My parents have always done this. I can completely see the benefits. Plus the duvet covers are much more manageable. I have a super king duvet cover and I hate everything about changing the bed as it is so big & cumbersome.

We have a duvet and a comforter over the top… and up having one each and it’s perfect. But bed still looks nice when we make it.

me and dp have our own duvets, mines a summer one year round he has a winter one year round it’s a game changer

My DH wants to go scandi style with a duvet each, because he likes a nest and I like it tucked in tight. Just haven't got funds for all new bedding atm

Peri-Menopausal me needs a very light duvet so we do often have different duvets

My parents lived in Norway when they were first married and for years had 2 single duvets on the bed instead of 1 big double.

Very sensible solution.

It works well, I have a longer single duvet and dh has standard one. It's comfy but you can still be together😄

... I'd go with what gives you the best nights sleep rather than what's is thought to be correct

When we used to ski on the continent, probably Austria, you used to have a Swedish double bed which was like a large double and had two duvets. So big bed snd own duvet - bliss!

www.sleepfoundation.org/sleep-hygiene/scandinavian-sleep-method#:~:text=With%20this%20method%2C%20partners%20share,their%20own%20temperature%20at%20night.

I started doing this the summer before last because I couldn’t cope with my husband’s love of ‘heavy’ duvets. I splashed out on a 13 tog single for him and a 4 tog for me - from the White Company. Expensive but worth it. All through the summer we are happy and then in the winter we have a ‘normal’ double, to which he adds his 13 tog on his side.

When I went to Iceland all the hotel rooms had two single duvets on king/double beds. Slept so well!

Absolutely normal in lost if parts of Europe. Buy two singles of whatever temperature/ tog and you'll both be happy!

Yes. Game changer.

DH and I do. He is a furnace and I am an icicle, so different tog duvets and we are both happy

I tried this with my ex and he managed to steak both duvets in his sleep rather than the usual one. I hope it works for you better.

Yup...

He has a middle weight double, I have a thin kingsize and a hefty double. I like to roll up tight in it, tuck it between my knees, sleep like a burrito.

He likes it round his waist and is like a radiator to sleep near. We sleep SO much better now we have the duvets that suit us and aren't sharing!

My bro does this. I think it's a great idea

Have had single duvets for years so much better!

Yes! In the winter months we have a duvet each. I love being able to curl up in it, hug it etc.. it’s a bit bulky having two on the bed though so I’m considering getting a super king duvet for our king bed which might also be a bit more aesthetically pleasing!