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To want my own duvet?

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lalalala2 · 26/01/2024 21:14

Have no issue sharing a bed with DH (despite the snoring)
But
Hate sharing the duvet... wake up too cold or too hot

Does anyone else share a bed but not a duvet?

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letmeeatinpeace · 27/01/2024 08:59

We used to have separate duvets, but decided the bed looked nicer with just one duvet!

That being said, we've compromised by having a v thin shared duvet and then we each have our own blankets/throws over the top. My temp fluctuates a lot in the night so I like having the layers I can take off.

If the issue that he's stealing your duvet then you could get a larger one (super king size), or have separate duvets.

VickyEadieofThigh · 27/01/2024 09:11

We do for much of the year as my DP likes to be as warm as the inner core of the sun and I need to be cool.

CunkEverywhereOnEverything · 27/01/2024 09:15

My partner and I have a king sized duvet each. Game changer for us and honestly it’s probably prevented many terrible arguments. We both love to sleep and are cranky when very tired.

usernother · 27/01/2024 09:23

I do have my own. I have a very lightweight single summer duvet on our bed. It's underneath the big king size duvet. I push the big one over to my OH at night.

Tumbleweed101 · 27/01/2024 09:28

I’ve never liked sharing a bed, in part because of the fact you can’t tuck the duvet around you snuggly in the way I like. I’ve been single a long time and think I’d need to have to duvets on a shared bed if that happens in future.

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