Do you know your husband's passcode?

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Just that, how many of you know your husbands/partners passcode for their phone?

no (he doesn't know mine either).

Yes, but we don’t go through them.

I was the one to handle the inheritance of a loved one this year, and knowing his pass code made that easier.

No. and he doesn't know mine. Mine is a work phone and the security set up in that means i change password every 60 days.

Yes. All his funeral arrangements are on it.

Yes for personal phone, no for work phone.
He knows mine too.

If we just want to take a photo/scroll the Internet we will both just use whatever phone is lying around.

Yes but I never go through his phone so each time I do want to use his phone I end up asking him for it again - not that it's been changed lol

Yes I do and he knows mine (though he always forgets it and asks me what it is if he’s using it).

We often use each others phones, for googling stuff using whose ever is closest or if the other is driving and there’s a text etc.

I do. He knows mine too!

Yes, and vice versa.

I could probably guess it as he has the same number for lots of things, but I have no interest in going through his phone.

Yes

Yes! 😊 and he knows mine.

Yes and he knows mine

Yes but we rarely use each others phones so I never remember it.

He’s told me a couple of times over the years, so I could look something up for him on his phone while he was driving or something. I can’t remember it though. I’ve got zero interest in looking through his phone.

Yes and vice versa though he tends to forget the variations

Yes, of course we both know each other's codes. If you've got nothing to hide, why wouldn't you?

Yes, it's the same as mine. But I never look through his phone.

Yes, and he knows mine. Don't generally use it, but occasionally will to look something up if mine isn't to hand.

Well, I like to know that I can keep anything however boring, private from dh. Why not? I don't share every single thought I ever have with him. We got married, we didn't merge into one person. I'm still me. If dh decided he needed access to.my phone I'd be really bloody annoyed tbh. (And he wouldn't get it)

Please tell me you don't have a shared email address too 🙈

Because it shows a lack.of trust. And honestly an unhealthy obsession with what the other is doing. You're married, not actually joined at the hip. You're still separate people.

No, or any of his passwords on other devices.

Whole family know mine and his.

No, I'm not interested in his phone, I don't know any passwords either, I barely know my own passwords as they are all computer generated.

I don't need to look at my partner's phone and vice versa, so I never asked and they've never randomly told me.

If there was a specific reason for looking (like they asked me to check something for them) the yes, but it's just never come up in conversation.

It's like sharing your debit card PIN number. What's the point? It's nothing to do with trust .

If you share for the sake of it and then claim you never look at their phone, it's like you're virtue signalling your trust for each other rather than just trusting each other.