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DP refusing to be seen with me if I'm wearing gold trainers (light hearted)

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Goldshoesyayornay · 13/08/2023 22:40

AIBU?

A few years ago I told my DP that if I ever bought gold shoes he was to take me out and shoot me.

I've now changed my mind and bought myself some gold trainers. I love them and they're really comfy.

But DP doesn't like them and has reminded me of what I said. He says he won't be seen in public with them.

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icelollycraving · 14/08/2023 18:54

I love gold. Dh hated a rose gold puffer jacket but doesn’t mind the other gold or glitzy stuff I love. I don’t care if anyone else likes it, I do, love a bit of sparkle. I wear rose gold supergas.
If you love them, wear them with pride!

LunaNorth · 14/08/2023 19:21

I love those Golden Goose ones. I’ve coveted a pair for years, and they might just tip me over the edge…

thinkkook · 14/08/2023 19:25

I wouldn't be seen with you either!

My 80yo mum wouldn't even wear those!

riotlady · 14/08/2023 23:00

I do think they’re granny shoes but they’re trendy granny shoes, no? All the old ladies I see in gold trainers are usually nicely dressed.

Daisyinthegrass · 14/08/2023 23:25

I don't blame him!

Chittychittybangbangchildcatcher · 15/08/2023 11:29

bladebladebla1 · 14/08/2023 18:52

All the other links people have posted are no better than the OPs to me. But I like how we all don't like the same things. I have loads but here is my fave pair and I bet lots of people don't like these

www.allsaints.com/women/boots-and-shoes/shana-metallic-low-top-leather-sneakers/WF542X-79.html?nst=0&gclid=Cj0KCQjwoeemBhCfARIsADR2QCvZcCuMSHfcboyONo-o0m9JgOoFE69uv1N5i6xw2Riw3MBskYvu9GsaAm2SEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

Oh I love those! They're bomb. Very on trend.. I might have to add some to my basket 😍

Hesma · 15/08/2023 11:34

Granny shoes… I’m 50 and wouldn’t be seen in trainers like that but if you like them 🤷‍♀️

LlynTegid · 15/08/2023 11:38

I'm with your OP on this one. There are worse things, you could like Coldplay for example.

LadyPenelope68 · 15/08/2023 11:40

Trendy gold trainers - sort of acceptable.
Clarks gold trainers - I agree with your husband!!

FlakiestCornflakeInTheCerealBox · 15/08/2023 11:42

Goldshoesyayornay · 13/08/2023 23:07

@TheLadyOfTheLakes https://www.clarksoutlet.co.uk/p/261666564060

@GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing my mum started wearing metallic shoes a lot and I didn't like them. I thought they were 'older lady' shoes. I'm a few years older now and have come to appreciate them.

They are beautiful..I'm about to buy them. Are they comfortable? Like super comfortable?

FlakiestCornflakeInTheCerealBox · 15/08/2023 11:44

Oh they don't have them in my size. 😭

PinkButtercups · 15/08/2023 13:58

I think the more 'trendier' ones are more so Victoria Milan, Guess etc, they're not gold but have gold in them.

Your actual gold shoe reminds me of my MIL she's in her 50's but her footwear looks like she is in her 80's. No offence to anyone but she also dresses much older for her age.

SpidersAreShitheads · 15/08/2023 18:28

Hoistupthemainsail · 14/08/2023 12:26

I'm in Aus and like these...

I genuinely don't know if you're taking the piss or not?! 😅

@bladebladebla1 on the other hand - those shoes absolutely rock! Love them!

Goldshoesyayornay · 09/12/2023 17:17

@bladebladebla1

I like them too, though they're very gold but edgy with the black.

Did you buy them? If not, maybe now as they're now half price!

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