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To say you can still look okay at 13 stone?

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sayitaintsobow · 25/03/2023 18:59

I'm 13 stone 7... To my horror! I knew I'd put on a lot rapidly in a short space of time. I'm aware this actually makes me obese. And I need to lose weight for my health

I don't think I look huge though. Definitely not. Might say I'm a bit chubby at a push. Face doesn't look too fat

AIBU to say you can actually be obese and not realise because you don't look 'fat'?

I'm 5'3 so not tall

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Wishimaywishimight · 25/03/2023 19:28

I am also 5ft 3, very small frame. Currently 8st 9lbs, ideal weight nearer 8 stone. I would look huge at 13st.

AuntieMarys · 25/03/2023 19:28

I'm 13 stone but I'm 6 feet. Could lose half a stone but I'm still a size 14. I go to the gym regularly and do strength training, so I'm pretty fit.

samsmum2 · 25/03/2023 19:28

MrNook · 25/03/2023 19:08

" I admire your confidence " just sounds so bitchy!

@MrNook agree!

HelenaHurricane · 25/03/2023 19:28

I think you look lovely op

0utForAWalkBitch · 25/03/2023 19:28

I’m 5’3 and 13.7 stone. Size 14 on top and 14-16 jeans. I am too heavy, yes. But I’m always heavy, look too skinny at about 10 stone. People are always surprised at my weight.

MirenaMisery · 25/03/2023 19:29

sayitaintsobow · 25/03/2023 19:28

Recent picture

I think you look fab and have amazing legs! 😊

sayitaintsobow · 25/03/2023 19:29

user18 · 25/03/2023 19:24

I’m 5 foot 4 and nine stone and I’m definitely looking “curvy” which is me being optimistic about the fact that I’m overweight.

How are you overweight at 9 stone if you're 5'4?

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SecondhandMuck · 25/03/2023 19:30

GarlicGrace · 25/03/2023 19:27

Lots of the YOUNGER women around here (I'm old!) are downright fat and look fantastic. They have hourglass-type shapes just oozing oestrogen, with soft & creamy shoulders and bouncy cleavage and/or amazing curvy legs with bouncy bottoms. I'm not perving over them, honestly 😂 I just think they look brilliant.

It kind of doesn't work at my age; my bulges have melted into one another and my body looks more or less like a shed. Enjoy it while you've got it!

Steady on, Swiss Toni!

sayitaintsobow · 25/03/2023 19:30

0utForAWalkBitch · 25/03/2023 19:28

I’m 5’3 and 13.7 stone. Size 14 on top and 14-16 jeans. I am too heavy, yes. But I’m always heavy, look too skinny at about 10 stone. People are always surprised at my weight.

Ooo snap. People often think I'm much taller than 5'3 then they're proven wrong when standing next to me

Think it's the posture

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Dracuuule · 25/03/2023 19:31

You look fab in your pic. I think your scales are broken.

Luredbyapomegranate · 25/03/2023 19:33

Stugs · 25/03/2023 19:01

I'm 12.9 and 5.7 and feel absolutely huge! And I look really fat in photos. So I admire your confidence!

Catty.

Yeah you can OP, lots of people would look attractive - not slim but attractive. It is possible to be not-slim and attractive regardless of what PP thinks.

LolaSmiles · 25/03/2023 19:33

How are you overweight at 9 stone if you're 5'4?
They aren't. It's right in the middle of the healthy BMI range, so whilst the poster might prefer to be smaller or has a frame that suits being in the lower to middle end of BMI, they aren't overweight.

These threads are always the same. You'll get women claiming they're overweight at a healthy weight and other women claiming that they might be technically overweight/obese but they look fine and it's awful if anyone says otherwise.

sayitaintsobow · 25/03/2023 19:33

@Dracuuule sadly not!

H's say the same. As did the hospital scales last week

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underneaththeash · 25/03/2023 19:33

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JaneFondue · 25/03/2023 19:33

It's really odd. I am 5"7 and 11 stone, and I look more overweight than you. How is that possible?

Lesvacances · 25/03/2023 19:34

Younger people with good muscle tone can carry a bit more weight.
I’m 65, slim but my upper arms lack tone and look awful and my bum has lost it’s curve and dropped. I’d gladly put on 2 stone if my elasticity returned but it won’t.

Dracuuule · 25/03/2023 19:34

Are you holding your baby when you weigh yourself?

mamabear715 · 25/03/2023 19:34

@underneaththeash - Jeez..

Anonhopingforbaby · 25/03/2023 19:35

Stugs · 25/03/2023 19:01

I'm 12.9 and 5.7 and feel absolutely huge! And I look really fat in photos. So I admire your confidence!

What a rude, backhanded comment.

OP, I'm sure you're beautiful.

Luredbyapomegranate · 25/03/2023 19:35

Coastalvenues · 25/03/2023 19:16

Not particularly healthy though is it, you can't escape that fact no matter what.

The OP wasn’t asking that, was she.

sayitaintsobow · 25/03/2023 19:35

@JaneFondue I have really strong legs which I'm almost adamant puts loads of extra lb on the scales but I don't think that's scientifically accurate

Just my delusion... but I do have huge calf muscles that must weigh a lot

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PurpleEmpress · 25/03/2023 19:35

I was weighed at a recent hospital appointment and found out I had put on 15 kilos in weight. I was mortified as had no idea. I am now in the process of losing that weight through IF. It’s working well so far, 4 and a half kilos gone already. I have to see my GP in three months time to discuss the medication I take so want to attend that appointment back down to my more normal weight.

if you feel happy the weight you are OP stuff everyone else.

SecondhandMuck · 25/03/2023 19:36

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FFS just stop being such a dreary little bore.

Stroopwaffle5000 · 25/03/2023 19:36

I'm 5'7" currently 11 stone and feel uncomfortable and chubby. I feel and look my best at 9 stone

mamabear715 · 25/03/2023 19:36

LOSE the obsession, ladies, thin, overweight, just right.. wtf does it matter???

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