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To be depressed and angry that sex offenders will be able to “change gender”

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Ramblingnamechanger · 21/12/2022 18:22

Following last nights vote by MSPs to reject an amendment to forbid sex offenders from accessing easier access to a GRC, it seems that womens rights to privacy and decency , same sex care , etc is not important. They are still to vote on the whole bill but until the legalities are clearer, surely this cannot be acceptable?

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nancydroo · 21/12/2022 18:52

I get what PP mean but specifically Rose west is mainly a child SO and murderer so likely to be less of a threat to women in prison.

WeWereInParis · 21/12/2022 18:52

Their NAME will be on the sex offenders register which is FA use if they went on the register John Smith and are now identifying as Joanna Smith and they have the documents to prove their new identity.

The issue is that the offender is responsible for declaring all previous names but there is no proposed mechanism for marrying all their names and crimes together for the purpose of carrying out effective DBS checks.

Does this apply to regular name changes (without a change of gender)? If someone is on the SOR as John Smith but changes their name to Fred Bloggs, does that get tracked?

nilsmousehammer · 21/12/2022 18:54

The Keep Prisons Single Sex group have examples from women prisoners and prison guards about the fear, harassment and distress being caused by housing males according to their preference without the faintest regard for the impact upon the women they require to be with. These women are locked up with these males, there is no getting away from them.

A number are serious sex offenders - and considering that less than 1% of rapes actually end up in a court room with a successful prosecution, any male who ends up in prison serving a sentence as a serious sex offender has done something very serious, multiple times to multiple people.

A current thread on FWR references information that there is (as of March 2021) a carefully designed risk assessment for male sex offenders that looks at their risk of offending and danger to others with a high success rate. However a male person with a GRC headed for a women's prison is not subjected to that assessment. They are instead given the female assessment, which measures in a completely different way as female offending patterns and behaviours are radically different, and is more or less useless in predicting the risks of a male offender. This messed up and pointless data is then used in the decision to inflict this male on women.

You can only see anything at all acceptable about this if you believe that the feelings and emotional needs of male humans is always more important than the feelings, emotional needs and bodily safety of female humans. And that the happiness of male sex offenders is worth the body count of harmed women, which is growing in number and will continue to grow.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 21/12/2022 18:54

Ffs really??? Bloody hell the monitors are on fire!!!

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 21/12/2022 18:54

Member869894 · 21/12/2022 18:45

A sex offender is a sex offender whatever the gender, surely?Rose West , along with many other female offenders, is a danger to women in a female prison and no less of a danger . Don't see the issue really

We all know the names of Myra Hindley and Rose West because they were so exceptional. 98% of sexual crime is committed by men.

GrouchyKiwi · 21/12/2022 18:55

I'm annoyed that you've moved this from AIBU, @MNHQ.

Surely it's important that people are made aware of what's going on in Scotland right now?

Our government thinks rapists and sex offenders are more important than the safety of women and girls. That's a travesty.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 21/12/2022 18:55

I’ve reported thread asking Why it’s been shunted off to the naughty corner

Norma27 · 21/12/2022 18:57

Absolutely disgusted with the MSPs alluring this to go through. Also disgusted with mumsnet hq for moving this thread from Aibu.

nilsmousehammer · 21/12/2022 18:57

Gosh someone had a panic about this information reaching more women, didn't they?

zen1 · 21/12/2022 18:58

Don’t understand why this was moved being that it’s something that all women should be aware of and is a big news story.

The whole thing is an absolute travesty.

FOJN · 21/12/2022 18:59

Does this apply to regular name changes (without a change of gender)? If someone is on the SOR as John Smith but changes their name to Fred Bloggs, does that get tracked?

You don't get a new birth certificate with any other name change and a birth certificate is the basis for most identity documents such as a passport or driving license which you need for things like job applications

Ramblingnamechanger · 21/12/2022 19:00

I have asked why it was moved in Site stuff too. Thanks for support wimms. Why shouldn’t women hear the truth behind this ghastly travesty?

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nilsmousehammer · 21/12/2022 18:57

Gosh someone had a panic about this information reaching more women, didn't they?

They did

don’t want women to know

weird thing for a ‘by parents for parents’ website to do

Ramblingnamechanger · 21/12/2022 19:11

For those new to this there is a photo of the kind of offenders we are talking about.

To be depressed and angry that sex offenders will be able to “change gender”
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happydappy2 · 21/12/2022 19:11

OP have a look at www.transcrimeuk that might be enlightening....

DogsAkimbo · 21/12/2022 19:17

I think you’ve been told YABU for wanting to talk about men’s women’s rights in ‘public’ OP. We’re supposed to keep egregious impacts to women quiet in case we upset men anyone.

dogtheted · 21/12/2022 19:20

Member869894 · 21/12/2022 18:45

A sex offender is a sex offender whatever the gender, surely?Rose West , along with many other female offenders, is a danger to women in a female prison and no less of a danger . Don't see the issue really

Because these people are men. Not women.

dogtheted · 21/12/2022 19:21

nilsmousehammer · 21/12/2022 18:57

Gosh someone had a panic about this information reaching more women, didn't they?

Yep.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 21/12/2022 19:38

Thanks for moving back @MNHQ

Ramblingnamechanger · 21/12/2022 19:39

Seems to be back in AIBU. Thank you MN

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BIWI · 21/12/2022 19:39

Ah. I got it wrong then! But very glad that the one you wanted has been moved back.

Norma27 · 21/12/2022 19:39

Thank you MN

FOJN · 21/12/2022 19:41

Great we're back, women need to know about this. Thanks MN.

Princessglittery · 21/12/2022 19:41

Member869894 · 21/12/2022 18:45

A sex offender is a sex offender whatever the gender, surely?Rose West , along with many other female offenders, is a danger to women in a female prison and no less of a danger . Don't see the issue really

So you would be happy for them to serve a prison sentence in a female prison, to get changed in a communal changing room along side you including communal showers.

Remember most transwomen do not take cross sex hormones and do not have surgery.

LilyMumsnet · 21/12/2022 19:43

Hi all

Thanks so much for bearing with us here.

We completely understand why moving this thread was frustrating - we have moved it back now.