Small glass of wine 🍷

[Meowykitten]

a guy I have been dating poured me a glass of wine.
I said to him ‘that glass of wine is small’ - he said
’Well I do not want you to get any fatter’. Smirked. And handed it to me.
I was so shocked I did not say anything.
😞

I have a normal BMI (not that it matters) and I go yoga and gym. He also asked me during our 2nd date ‘How many times do you go to the gym’ - whilst looking me up and down, smirking. I was a bit surprised but I just said 3/4 times per week… I missed a massive red flag there didn’t I. 😔

Erm. Chuck him straight in the bin.

‘…. a guy I WAS seeing….’

He would have been wearing the wine if he said it to me.

Kick the bastard to the other side of fuck.

I'd chuck him just for the small glass as it is. Cheeky twat.

He has done you a favour by showing you what he's like. Now you can make a hasty exit.

i mean I’m assuming you realise a 3rd date would be ridiculous….
what a prick

I don't say this often on here but simply LTB

Back in the sea for this one.

What a CUNT, sounds like he is trying to make you insecure because he thinks you are too attractive for him.

Yes OP, you missed the red flag. Get rid of him. He’s already damaging your self worth with a few nasty comments - I wonder what else he has up his sleeve.

You're still dating him?? No, that can't be right. You can't be that much of a doormat or that desperate for a man.

You should have told him to fuck right off, as you were walking out the door.

Is this a joke? Fuck him off

I feel so bad I missed that red flag and did not pour the wine over his head.

I was just too shocked 😮

Huge controlling red flag also an utter twat ....run away now

Why is he not wearing that wine?

And block. Next.

It was not a joke. He said it with a sort of weird smirk.

I teach yoga - I am toned and strong. Definately not skinny.

It was like he was getting a kick seeing me squirm and what I would say to him / how I would react.

Please chuck him. He isn't even worth the analysis. He won't bring you any joy.

Urgh.. he sounds charming.
I'd have replied "my aim is not to get fatter, but to get drunker, so that YOU look more attractive. Cheers."🥂

Have you dumped him? If not, why the fuck not?

He is a cunty pig. Grim.

Well you haven't missed the red flag. You see it now.

Will you be seeing him again or ending it?

Actually open-mouthed here reading that!
I think that's what the younguns call negging, is it not?

Better luck next time.

Yep - I am going to just message him I think and end it. I am actually quite upset. His words have been hurtful.

Wow. Less of a red flag than bright neon bunting spelling out "run away".

I don't know you, but can say confidently you deserve 100% better