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Boyfriend has covid so I'm sleeping in a different room...aibu?

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wetlastfoor · 01/04/2022 08:46

My boyfriend tested positive for covid Monday and isn't well at all
Temperature/coughing /aches/weak etc (usual symptoms )
So I decided to sleep in the spare room to try not catch it.
He's coughing all over the shop,never covers his mouth.
So I've been cleaning down doors /toilets etc etc to hopefully kill the germs.
Anyway he says I'm being neurotic because 1.I won't kiss him and 2 won't share a bed.
I mean maybe I am being ott but I really don't want to catch it.
He never listens,I bought him anti bac when it all started he refused to use it or wash his hands ..saying I'm stupid blah blah.

Aibu ?
He says I'm gonna catch it anyway
I'm testing daily and lateral flows negative and so far no symptoms and feel fine.
Am I being horrible to him?
He said he feels awful I'm avoiding him like this

OP posts:
MrsLargeEmbodied · 02/04/2022 11:13

yanbu

billy1966 · 02/04/2022 11:54

What a pig.

Covering your mouth is so basic.

What exactly is the appeal of this selfish pig that has zero respect for your boundaries?

Raise your bar OP.

BriocheForBreakfast · 02/04/2022 12:04

I've not RTFT but I'm just recovering from Covid now. As soon as I found out I had it I self-isolated in a different room and was mostly in there for 8 days. I wore my mask when I ventured out of the room and put the fan on in the bathroom when I brushed my teeth. I'm lucky that I work from home and this is the room I work in.

I'm testing negative now.

I don't think this is unreasonable.

On the plus side, I had all my meals brought to me and I binge watched some box sets Grin

wetlastfoor · 02/04/2022 12:52

Omg I hope he doesn't read that 🙈🙈🙈🙈

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Fraaahnces · 02/04/2022 14:26

Have you got some kind of aerosol disinfectant? I’d be spraying him any time he came near me with his fucking germs, saying “Cover your fucking mouth and go and wash your filthy hands!”

KosherDill · 02/04/2022 14:37

@arethereanyleftatall

I would end a relationship over this, assuming it's logistically possible. Gross. It's really rather pleasant being single.

Agree. He sounds like a disrespectful clod.

Lem1984 · 02/04/2022 14:40

We had sex when he had covid Wink

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