Finding it hard to see clearly

[Lizzyketo]

Hi all, so basically i am in a rut at the moment, i have lost altogether 65lb over 5 years and i am stuck at 160lb.
I am 5'9 and i am starting to obsess about how i look, my DH keeps saying the usual "you look fine babe" but i need some perspective.. what do we think? Fat or not? All i see is fat! Currently a 14 bottom 12 top and sick and tired of it

You have a fantastic hourglass figure and you look great. You are NOT fat.

You look amazing

You look great.

That is a sexually attractive figure.

BMI calculator says you are a healthy weight at 23.4

It's the obsession you need to tackle - have a gin and relax duuuude

Wow what a waist!! I think I remember having one!!
You look bloody fab op!!

Thanks, really thinking maybe i need to talk to a professional, i never had a issue with confidence or an issue when i was heavier and now i have lost it i am obsessing, the mind is a strange place

Women are sooooo hard on themselves, your figure is amazing.

The first thing i saw was THAT WAIST!!! WOW!!!

@Lizzyketo

Thanks, really thinking maybe i need to talk to a professional, i never had a issue with confidence or an issue when i was heavier and now i have lost it i am obsessing, the mind is a strange place

I think that might be a good idea, because, kindly, “all I see is fat” - you are not seeing what everyone else is seeing and that could become a very serious problem

I wish I had your shape OP!!

Omg I’d kill for curves like that!

Absolutely gorgeous, you have a lovely waist!

Yeah i think so, its already starting to effect my every day, everything i do from dressing to eating its always in the back of my mind.

I wish I looked like you. Although I do get that when it's in your head it's hard to accept but you look great. Honestly! In fact you're inspiring me to sort myself out!

Not only do you look fantastic (I’d love to have that waist!) but you are also super courageous to do this! Much respect!

Wow! Your figure is awesome. I'd love an hourglass shape like you have. Please stop worrying; you are not in the least bit fat. I wish you'd see what we all see.

I am truly amazed, and yes i wish i saw what you all do, but i think this has really made up my mind to go see my gp, so thanks all for the the push

What a waist!!!

You have an amazing figure. I hope you're enjoying looking so great.

Gorgeous figure!

I would kill to have your body. That waist is AMAZING!!

You look lovely and healthy.
If you want to change overall appearance, add some weight training to your routine.
Do you have a “before” picture from when you were 65lb heavier? Look at it to give your head a wobble because you definitely do not look at all fat.

Out of curiosity, how did you lose the weight?

Wow you look amazing! I get though if it’s in your head it’s hard to see what other people see. Good to read you’re going to reach out for help! And if you need a boost in the mean time, just keep reading back on this thread and reminding yourself you’re a smoke show!

You look great. I'm the same height as you and I'm 50lbs heavier than you. I'd love to be your weight!