Did I say something wrong?

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Sat with group of mums yesterday lunch time. One said she and a friend had booked a spa weekend. I said “what treatments are you having”. Another mum spat her drink out and repeated “ooo let’s all have treatments”
The woman went on to say what treatments she was planning and the other woman kept saying “treatments” over and over again. A WhatsApp group was created for us that day and it is called “treatments”. Is this a dig or what?? Have i said something wrong or am I being paranoid? I don’t socialise much so my judgement may be way off.

No she's just a dick.

Well you go to a spa and have treatments so I'm not sure what their problem was

You said nothing wrong. I don't know why the woman would react like that

I’m sorry this happened. That person is at best an insecure dick at worse a horrible bully.

Not on you!

No, what you said was perfectly normal, the other woman sounds a bit odd!
In my friendship group it's normal to have a WhatsApp group named after an injoke or funny comment, but I don't see there was anything like that about what you said?
The others are probably thinking 'wtf' too.

She's odd.

Silly woman. Not my thing at all but I can’t imagine what else you would call them?

That's not you....

It almost sounds like she's jealous of the other friend going and is having a dig at her having treatments?

If you look up day spas on Google it mentions treatments in every sentence. Treatments are obviously a big thing when you're at a spa ! This woman must be an idiot to make a big thing out of a perfectly normal word. I'd ignore her .

I would innocently ask why the group is called treatments....

Well what would she have called them?

Maybe she just likes the word. Like Miranda Hart with moist or plunge.

Huh? I can’t see anything wrong with what you said, she’s being extremely weird.

She's a bully OP, you said nothing wrong

Definitely something wrong with her. Just ignore!

Unless there's an old 'in joke' that you haven't been caught up on?

She sounds like a bully, this is definitely not on you.

Typical bully behaviour. Picking on something random, making an inside joke about it - that only she (and other bullies) could possibly laugh about, simply based on you not knowing what it is - and making you question yourself.

Ignore her. You didn't say anything wrong.

You didn't do anything wrong. They're probably just not used to hearing such long words. They sound like a pair of morons. Bullies usually are.

I'd have asked the exact same question. She's a twat.

Nothing wrong with what you said. She's being a bit of a knob.

That's what they're called, she's being a dick.

Start reffering to it as procedure instead. What procedure are you having done

It must be something they've joked about in the past that you're not aware of. Either that or she's just very odd.

She’s a bully. Nothing you did. I’d call her out on it.
I’d start a different Whatsapp group with a normal name.

?? She's just weird. It's not a strange question or oddly worded. You'd expect someone to reply with a standard facial/massage etc. They're very odd.

You asked an entirely appropriate question. She's a bully and she doesn't like you for some reason. Could she be jealous of you?