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To be terrified - please help me.

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WhoisRebecca · 07/10/2021 17:13

Dd, 15, has started taking sertraline after being prescribed it by a private psychiatrist. She took an overdose last year and school refused towards the end of last year.

She is now behaving erratically- running into classrooms at school shouting that she’s going to kill herself, but then laughing - her teachers think she seems very hyper and ‘excited.’ She’s running off when teachers challenge her or swearing at them. She was never like that before this year.

At the weekend she went for a walk and texted a charity helpline, saying she had no bed and was going to jump on the train tracks. We had taken her bed apart because a new double bed was coming on Monday. There was a spare bed upstairs for her. Dd knew this. The police arrived and I was able to show them dd’s location - she had tracking on her phone. They quickly assessed that she had a safe home and did, in fact, have a suitable bed. This was a reaction to being told off because she had bullied a student at school.

She was put in isolation at school for a nasty incident towards another student. She can sometimes be loving and calm. At other times she is very very high and erratic. School had to send her home today. She struggles to attend lessons. I don’t know where to go from here and feel utterly desperate.

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WhoisRebecca · 16/04/2022 19:11

@procrastinationstations all ok. She got a 5 in her English Language mock, a 4 in Maths and English Lit! Despite not attending school. I suspect the low IQ score is due to her processing issues/autism rather than a lack of intelligence.

The Ed psychologist from the LA has recommended 3 hours a week with a mentor; 3 hours with a member of the SEN team and 2 hours a week with a counsellor or coach when she starts college, as well as social media training. Hopefully this will all be in the EHCP. The plan writer emailed to say the plan is now awaiting finalisation and asked for DD's views, which I've sent over.

She's generally pretty calm at home, but I don't know what the future holds.

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