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To call the police over this girl screaming?

181 replies

MrsTumbletap · 03/07/2021 22:12

I can hear a girl screaming across the road in what at first sounded like a 9-12year (I'm guessing) having a tantrum. I couldn't make out what she was saying but could hear the parents shouting and screaming back.

This was about at 30minutes ago. I thought initially it's a parenting issue, not my business. Now I can clearly hear her screaming "I want to go to my mums house!" She is screaming it over and over and over at the top of her lungs. Really screaming, they are screaming back, it is relentless. It's awful and making me feel like I need to go round there and help. (I won't of course it is clearly quite volatile in there). I can hear this with their windows closed and a drive in front of their house and a road between us and my windows closed.

What would you do?

Do I leave it alone, not my business?
Call the non emergency number and report?

OP posts:
NewIdeasToday · 03/07/2021 22:13

Call and report

MrsTumbletap · 03/07/2021 22:14

For info it's not calming down over this 30-40 mins it's getting worse and getting louder and louder.

OP posts:
smurfmonkey · 03/07/2021 22:15

Honestly, I would ring. It might be nothing but let the Police make that call.

NiceTwin · 03/07/2021 22:15

Emergency number.
101 won't be quick enough.

MyGrassIsBrowner · 03/07/2021 22:16

Yeah, you definitely need to report this!

Shafted2020 · 03/07/2021 22:16

Absolutely call and report

Acornacorn · 03/07/2021 22:16

Yep. 999.

Doyoumind · 03/07/2021 22:16

These kinds of things are so stressful to listen to. Personally, I would call the police so they can intervene and calm the situation down but I know a lot of people would disagree.

NeedyNora · 03/07/2021 22:16

Report. Can't take chances on things like that.

AnneLovesGilbert · 03/07/2021 22:16

Phone them

Saz12 · 03/07/2021 22:17

I’d call and explain to handler. It might not be anything abusive / untoward, but I dint think a neighbour going round will diffuse it any.

Findmeatthebeach · 03/07/2021 22:17

999 OP, 101 will take too long before the investigate

HappyHedgehog247 · 03/07/2021 22:17

Is it better to potentially under react or potentially over react?

WildWestWanda · 03/07/2021 22:17

Please do report. It may well be nothing but you can’t assume that

Babymamamama · 03/07/2021 22:17

Yes call you don’t know what she might be going through.

Bellasblankexpression · 03/07/2021 22:18

PLease call. It could be nothing but it could be something serious and now would be the moment when you could prevent it getting any worse by picking up the phone

cricketmum84 · 03/07/2021 22:18

Report. I have an autistic teen who will scream and shout at us and god knows what the neighbours think. But we would never ever scream and shout back at her.

HappyHedgehog247 · 03/07/2021 22:18

I would call. At the least a police visit will help break the cycle.

supermodel · 03/07/2021 22:19

Call 999

Juststopasking · 03/07/2021 22:19

Definitely report. Let the police decide what to do.

Hercisback · 03/07/2021 22:19

999 now.
Intervening would be unwise.

SaltedCaramelIcedLatte · 03/07/2021 22:19

Definitely call, you dnt knw 4 sure what is goin on!

Ilikecheeseontoast · 03/07/2021 22:20

Yes I’d 999 right away.

o8T8o · 03/07/2021 22:20

If it was me I think I might try to collaborate with other neighbours assuming I was on good terms with them.

ForeverInADay · 03/07/2021 22:20

999 definitely