There are three people in our marriage

[Uptheqpr]

What do you do when there are three of you in your marriage ?

Leave?

Definitely leave.

DH often says this about the cat.

Walk away. No question.

Depends- what's the dynamic?

Hasty exit.

Depends whether all three are happy with the situation or not.

Seriously, though, without more detail it’s impossible to advise you.

@Garraty47

DH often says this about the cat.

Unless it’s the cat. Then you seethe with passive aggressive jealoysy whilst hating yourself a little because the cat is so damn cute.

Depends who invited in the third wheel.

Leave

Run

Not Camilla again? I thought she'd be too old for all of that.

Is the 3rd person pre your relationship or post? As in did they come before you or after you?

Do an interview with Martin Bashir? He’s probably got time on his hands atm.

Buy a bigger bed.

Who’s the gooseberry?

Boot the other two to kingdom fuck and take a much younger lover.

Is this a Mil post?

Need more information.

Let his mother have him?

Clearly the answer is to write a vague post on MN so that you can drip feed odd sentences of extra info if you feel like returning to the thread in the future.

If they are willing to help with the washing up and the cat trays, i'd probably start by putting the kettle on and making some tea. Time for a serious chat.

And also, what's the AIBU??

@ginbramble

And also, what's the AIBU??

OP's the gooseberry

Reduce it to the standard 2 by walking away.