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AIBU?

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Original poster

There are three people in our marriage

104 replies

Uptheqpr · 30/06/2021 20:55

What do you do when there are three of you in your marriage ?

OP posts:
NeverMetANiceOne · 30/06/2021 20:56

Leave?

TheSunShinesBrighter · 30/06/2021 20:57

Definitely leave.

Garraty47 · 30/06/2021 20:57

DH often says this about the cat.

Ninkanink · 30/06/2021 20:58

Walk away. No question.

Frazzledd · 30/06/2021 20:58

Depends- what's the dynamic?

Aquamarine1029 · 30/06/2021 20:58

Hasty exit.

MrsTulipTattsyrup · 30/06/2021 20:59

Depends whether all three are happy with the situation or not.

Seriously, though, without more detail it’s impossible to advise you.

Ninkanink · 30/06/2021 20:59

@Garraty47

DH often says this about the cat.
Unless it’s the cat. Then you seethe with passive aggressive jealoysy whilst hating yourself a little because the cat is so damn cute.
Ellpellwood · 30/06/2021 20:59

Depends who invited in the third wheel.

FelicityPike · 30/06/2021 20:59

Leave

namcybotwinbloom · 30/06/2021 20:59

Run

ScribblyBaller · 30/06/2021 20:59

Not Camilla again? I thought she'd be too old for all of that.

ItscoldinAlaska · 30/06/2021 21:01

Is the 3rd person pre your relationship or post? As in did they come before you or after you?

DialDownTheIanPaisley · 30/06/2021 21:02

Do an interview with Martin Bashir? He’s probably got time on his hands atm.

TimeForTeaAndG · 30/06/2021 21:03

Buy a bigger bed.

Longdistance · 30/06/2021 21:03

Who’s the gooseberry?

Fromage · 30/06/2021 21:06

Boot the other two to kingdom fuck and take a much younger lover.

Greenrubber · 30/06/2021 21:14

Is this a Mil post?

SmokeyDevil · 30/06/2021 21:16

Need more information.

DrManhattan · 30/06/2021 21:19

Let his mother have him?

ginbramble · 30/06/2021 21:20

Clearly the answer is to write a vague post on MN so that you can drip feed odd sentences of extra info if you feel like returning to the thread in the future.

thumpingrug · 30/06/2021 21:21

If they are willing to help with the washing up and the cat trays, i'd probably start by putting the kettle on and making some tea. Time for a serious chat.

ginbramble · 30/06/2021 21:21

And also, what's the AIBU??

Frazzledd · 30/06/2021 21:23

@ginbramble

And also, what's the AIBU??
OP's the gooseberry
VettiyaIruken · 30/06/2021 21:23

Reduce it to the standard 2 by walking away.